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Post by chrisy01 on May 12, 2018 19:29:37 GMT -6
tgrimes I'd be pissed too! Does he expect you to come pick him up? I'd tell his parent the truth, leaving out the argument part. What a bunch of shit. He can walk or Uber home. IDGAF. Good for you! He made the decision to stop there so he can figure it out.
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Post by flamingo on May 12, 2018 19:31:45 GMT -6
Aww, big hugs tgrimes . I'm sorry about the fight and that you missed the ballet. That is beyond frustrating of your H; hope he comes home ready to apologize and make up for your crappy night tomorrow. eta: upon further review, I wonder if--consciously or subconsciously--he was dawdling getting ready b/c he didn't want to go to the ballet. Maybe that's why he was difficult about getting the tix. Maybe just leave a blanket and pillow on the front porch for him...or couch, if you're feeling generous.
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Post by joelies on May 12, 2018 20:02:59 GMT -6
That is such BS tgrimes. He is definitely on his own for getting home. I agree with flamingo that he may not have wanted to go, but the adult thing to do would have been to say that in the first place. I'm so sorry. I'm angry for you. What did you end up telling his parents? Says the one who still hasn't talked to her DH and he's again downstairs watching TV while I go to bed.
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Post by lfig on May 12, 2018 20:09:02 GMT -6
tgrimes I’m sorry for the shitty night. I hope he realizes the error of his ways and makes up for it tomorrow!
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Post by lfig on May 12, 2018 20:12:43 GMT -6
So cute lfig! I wanna see your dress. Here ya go...please ignore my haggard look. This is after wearing the dress since 1:00 and sweating in it in the sweltering 90* heat today. And chasing/wrangling S by myself for 8 hours in a wedding setting.
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Post by xolastunicornxo on May 12, 2018 20:14:03 GMT -6
tgrimes WTAF? I’d be pissed as hell. So not ok, at any time, but especially Mother’s Day weekend. He better come home groveling. And it’s doubly shitty that he left you in a position to explain things to his parents. I wish I lived close, I’d come drink all the wine with you.
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Post by tallb on May 12, 2018 20:14:59 GMT -6
lfig too sweet!!! guster hope today went okay tgrimes f that, I'm sorry😡 flamingo it's a technology management program...thrilling stuff 😑. Hopefully it's not too dry, ha. We have some awesome programs here, but this one applies to my job and is completely online, which I need being default parent. Thanks all for the well wishes, hope I remember how to write papers..
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Post by lfig on May 12, 2018 20:17:05 GMT -6
The wedding was good but absolutely exhausting! I never want to do that solo again! They ended up deciding on a wagon to get S and the ring bearer down the aisle and that worked well. PDQ:
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Post by sands42 on May 12, 2018 20:17:10 GMT -6
I’m sorry tgrimes... you don’t deserve that shitty treatment. I’m sorry you missed the ballet too. ❤️
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Post by flamingo on May 12, 2018 20:27:46 GMT -6
You look great lfig, you'd never know you'd been running around in the heat all day And S and the ring bearer are too cute!
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Post by Sunny41 on May 12, 2018 20:30:17 GMT -6
lfig you look great and S looks pretty! You get an award for handling that solo!
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Post by Sunny41 on May 12, 2018 20:31:50 GMT -6
tgrimes that behavior is not ok on any night. Don't drink too much wine when you get home. Big hugs to you tonight
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Post by kim22 on May 12, 2018 20:37:26 GMT -6
lfig she is adorable and you look beautiful! I can only imagine what a long day it was. My oldest was in my sister's wedding when he was 2. We brought a sitter who was in charge of him so we could enjoy ourselves.
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Post by kim22 on May 12, 2018 20:37:53 GMT -6
tgrimes I'm sorry your night was ruined. I hope you are ok.
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Post by tgrimes on May 12, 2018 20:41:59 GMT -6
Lol joelies. We can avoid are problems together. *poof
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chrisy01
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Post by chrisy01 on May 12, 2018 20:48:36 GMT -6
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Post by chrisy01 on May 12, 2018 20:49:44 GMT -6
tgrimes sounds like something is going on with yh. It doesn't excuse it but hopefully he figures it out, apologies, and treats you right.
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Post by vino on May 12, 2018 20:52:00 GMT -6
Ah shit tgrimes I’m so mad for you, I’m sorry for the crappy night. Hugs, friend💜
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Post by vino on May 12, 2018 20:52:34 GMT -6
lfig she is absolutely adorable and you look great! Glad everything went well.
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Post by vino on May 12, 2018 20:56:10 GMT -6
Glad you were able to get tickets tgrimesCongrats on getting in the program! tallbvino Noted. Did you just watch from afar or stay with the party? So cute! lfigThere were 4 other kids from daycare and they all stayed, INCLUDING the Dad from the other party the other weekend where everyone dropped off. It was 30 minutes from home, so it didn’t make sense to drive 2 hours total just to be home for an hour. I sat at the lane next to the party and had a beer, it was the first time I sat down for the day so it was fine. The Mom was a major grump and made it hard to be around, all around an annoying 3 hours.
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Post by tgrimes on May 12, 2018 21:04:01 GMT -6
lfig You look amazing and S is freakin adorable as always. The wagon was a cute idea.
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Post by klong11 on May 12, 2018 21:06:30 GMT -6
I'm sorry you missed the ballet tgrimes, especially after having to stand so long in line to get them. I hope he makes it up to you. Not cool Mr. Grimes.
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Post by trtlcrzy on May 12, 2018 21:26:49 GMT -6
What a giant ass tgrimes. He deserves a big ol TP. I’m sorry you had to miss the ballet.
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Post by trtlcrzy on May 12, 2018 21:27:11 GMT -6
lfig you look great! I like the dress!
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Post by xolastunicornxo on May 12, 2018 21:48:12 GMT -6
inthekitty cagoldi @klongoria any of you watch American horror story? I just started cult.
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Post by xolastunicornxo on May 12, 2018 21:51:41 GMT -6
tgrimes in no way does it excuse his behavior, because he’s being an ass, but do you think there is something else going on?
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Post by lahdeedah on May 12, 2018 23:05:39 GMT -6
lfig You both look so pretty! tgrimes I’m sorry you missed the ballet and ended your night on a bad note. I’m getting in line to TP YH for you and tell him what a jerk he was tonight.
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Post by nam2013 on May 13, 2018 0:38:58 GMT -6
tgrimes that is beyond ridiculous, I’m so sorry! lfig you look amazing and S is just too cute!
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Post by wineallthetime on May 13, 2018 2:00:32 GMT -6
Haven’t caught up yet; but PSA: bowling is not enough activity for a 5 year olds birthday party, the kids are running amok out of boredom in between bowls We went to a 4th birthday bowling party and had the same experience!
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Post by wineallthetime on May 13, 2018 2:10:21 GMT -6
tgrimes, WTF. I'm so sorry for the horrible night Hugs and wine for you.
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