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Post by peachsmama on May 7, 2018 20:07:34 GMT -6
Holy smokes lfig! I’m so glad that you’re a rad chick with the instinct to help, you’re amazing! Good work! Take it easy tonight for sure. I'm just going to +1 this. You and your H can be the N13 compounds superheroes.
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Post by slenle on May 7, 2018 20:11:05 GMT -6
I feel like my kids are turning into monsters. N has been a terrible listener at home and it’s getting to me. And H is being a two year old and has been getting into trouble at daycare. He bit a kid today and has been sassy to his teachers for a few weeks.
So i think we need to focus on their behavior and limit snacks and TV. I think they are just getting to do whatever they want too much and we need to reign it in.
Tonight was a good night. I pulled the kids on my bike to dhs softball game and they were great there. They were filthy when we got home so i showered them off quick and got them to bed. Now catching up on greys.
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Post by Sunny41 on May 7, 2018 20:28:22 GMT -6
lfig holy smokes! I'm glad she wasn't alone when the incident happened and that you were able to get the appropriate emergency responses
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Post by chrisy01 on May 7, 2018 20:39:32 GMT -6
mwhip not okay. I hope they give you a discount at least peachsmama I'm sorry about the dog. It's hard to see that
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Post by chrisy01 on May 7, 2018 20:39:57 GMT -6
lfig you are a hero!! You and your H are amazing.
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Post by lahdeedah on May 7, 2018 20:42:39 GMT -6
lfig That is scary! Glad you were able to help and I hope you take some time to unwind tonight. M was in a mood when I got home. He was playing outside and when I pulled up he fell and spilled his snack. He was pouting big tome. When I asked him what got him in a bad mood he wouldn’t verbalize. He never does when I ask him what’s wrong. After about an hour MH said the neighbor’s new dog freaked him out earlier. MH was inside getting M2 a bottle and I guess the dog got loose and M ran inside screaming and crying. Poor kid was probably so scared. He doesn’t do dogs well. We aren’t around them that much. I love dogs but it will be a while before we ever have one.
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Post by chrisy01 on May 7, 2018 20:45:13 GMT -6
Sorry I'm going to DD/vent.
I'm just done with C. He has gotten so lazy. I asked him to put the last of the dishes in the dish washer this morning so I can finish baking some things tonight. So I had to hand wash them to be able to do it. He hasn't cleaned the backyard in 2 months. And hasn't done anything to help get ready for the baby. I'm the only one the clean the house the last few months. But did C come home and help. No he's still going out with his friends tonight. I swear I'm going to strike.
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Post by trtlcrzy on May 7, 2018 21:38:10 GMT -6
Yikes, I missed a lot while I was MIA today. peachsmama sorry about your brother’s dog. lfig I’m glad you were able to help that woman. I think my heart would still be racing if I happened upon that. This morning I took the girls to the car wash and vacuumed it out. Then when we got home I got our irrigation system up and running for the season. I converted the spray head in my front garden to drip irrigation and so far so good. I need some more supplies to finish it up and expand it down to the rest of my front landscaping. Then after nap H wanted to run in the sprinklers so I put her swimsuit and let her go. She kept getting freaked out and running away from the water so it didn’t last long. Then tonight I worked and it was super busy. I had an inch thick pile of papers that needed to be scanned into patients’ charts and a bunch of other things.
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Post by Sunny41 on May 7, 2018 22:06:02 GMT -6
chrisy01 that's super frustrating. Don't forget that we carry the mental load and men expect us to "just ask" (even though_did). Bring it up before the baby comes and you have more emotions to deal with.
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Post by cagoldi on May 7, 2018 22:16:23 GMT -6
chrisy01 that's super frustrating. Don't forget that we carry the mental load and men expect us to "just ask" (even though_did). Bring it up before the baby comes and you have more emotions to deal with. This. I have to do it with Pete every so often. What seems to snap him out of it is telling him if I ask him to do something specific and he doesn't, then I feel like he doesn't value my time. And even if I didn't ask him to do something, he should still see the pile of laundry and just get started on putting it away, emptying the dishwasher, etc. He's been much better about it since that last talk. And I finally had to tell him I don't like nagging. I'm not his mom and I don't want to be. I have to chase after three kids and I don't want to do that with my adult husband. See if that works on C.
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Post by Sunny41 on May 7, 2018 22:38:38 GMT -6
Sometimes when I'm bored and can't sleep I go to my crazy cousin in laws fb page. Today i read her post about doing a metal detox while nursing that will heal the ailments caused by childhood vaccines. She is also now a doula in southern CA if anyone is looking. 🤣
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Post by nam2013 on May 7, 2018 22:53:43 GMT -6
Wow lfig how terrifying!!! Glad you were there and we’re able to think on your feet. Hope she makes a full recovery.
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Post by nam2013 on May 7, 2018 22:54:17 GMT -6
Sometimes when I'm bored and can't sleep I go to my crazy cousin in laws fb page. Today i read her post about doing a metal detox while nursing that will heal the ailments caused by childhood vaccines. She is also now a doula in southern CA if anyone is looking. 🤣 Well at least she vaccinates?
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Post by nam2013 on May 7, 2018 22:58:28 GMT -6
chrisy01 super frustrating! I agree with Sunny41 about the mental load and talking to him before the baby comes. For now just a hug.
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Post by wineallthetime on May 8, 2018 5:27:01 GMT -6
lfig, woah! I'm so glad you pulled up when you did, how scary!
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Post by Sunny41 on May 8, 2018 5:41:42 GMT -6
Sometimes when I'm bored and can't sleep I go to my crazy cousin in laws fb page. Today i read her post about doing a metal detox while nursing that will heal the ailments caused by childhood vaccines. She is also now a doula in southern CA if anyone is looking. 🤣 Well at least she vaccinates? Nope, her mom vaccinated her
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Post by nam2013 on May 8, 2018 5:45:06 GMT -6
Well at least she vaccinates? Nope, her mom vaccinated her The horror. 😖😖😖
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Post by vino on May 8, 2018 9:27:11 GMT -6
I had my '11's' done in November and she said that it normally lasts for 3-6 months depending on the person. I was hopeful but alas my RBF muscles were no match for the botox and it was out in about 2.5 months-ish. I should have gone right away but I just didnt have time. To be honest I dont love the feeling but I like the way it looks, I squint really bad with the sun and I'm so self conscious about it so my plan is to do it a few times in a row for at least the summer.
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