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Post by unicornofthesea on Apr 12, 2018 7:29:32 GMT -6
Sending love💙
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Post by sullivan on Apr 12, 2018 7:39:16 GMT -6
I’m sorry, tlex. ❤️
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Post by Pizzaslut on Apr 12, 2018 7:43:00 GMT -6
Big hugs to you Tlex. I hope you get your BFP very very soon.
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Post by cocomama on Apr 12, 2018 7:57:05 GMT -6
I’m so sorry ❤️❤️
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Post by angelashly on Apr 12, 2018 8:13:50 GMT -6
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Post by Taitai on Apr 12, 2018 8:17:56 GMT -6
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Post by bobyn on Apr 12, 2018 8:29:10 GMT -6
Lots of love and ((hugs)), Tlex. We're all here for you.
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Post by cdnfarmgirl on Apr 12, 2018 8:30:58 GMT -6
I’m sorry.
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Post by Tlex on Apr 12, 2018 8:37:36 GMT -6
Tlex I know you say you never know where you are in your cycle. You can try to temp for a few cycles to get a feel of what is what. It is one of the only way to know. It will allow you to know more accurately when you ovulated and when to reliably start testing. I do not think testing at 7dpo is a good idea honestly. It is a mindfuck but one that you are able to control. TTC is so much out of your control. This is one thing you can control. Take your temp. Enter it and go about your day. I do temp
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Post by Tlex on Apr 12, 2018 8:42:52 GMT -6
I'm sorry Tlex. We want to come on your journey! Also, technical question - how do you know your dpo? Like by what method? I use FF and chart temp, CM, OPKs, and cervical position. My PCOS causes symptoms that look as though ovulation is about to or even has occurred, but the egg doesn't end up released. Anyways I think I did truly ovulate this month and possibly caught a chemical pregnancy. It would be my 3rd.
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Post by prontopup on Apr 12, 2018 8:48:41 GMT -6
I'm sorry.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 12, 2018 10:44:02 GMT -6
I'm sorry
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Post by unicornsparkles on Apr 12, 2018 11:26:43 GMT -6
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Post by emilyinparis on Apr 12, 2018 11:31:39 GMT -6
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Post by McBenny on Apr 12, 2018 11:33:39 GMT -6
Oh my. This thread took a turn. Just keep in mind that you are basing this off a test that is known to give certain readings.
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Post by Tlex on Apr 12, 2018 11:52:31 GMT -6
Oh my. This thread took a turn. Just keep in mind that you are basing this off a test that is known to give certain readings. Ok. Thanks for this clarity. I'm also basing it off hormonal blood work that came back showing that it looks like I did ovulate this month. I am pretty prickly right now about being given all kinds of temping advice like it's new to me when I've been dealing with my PCOS since I was 16 and TTC for 5 years. I don't know everything but I'm not new either. Today sucks, I hoped I was pregnant and I'm not. Whether my hope was from multiple false positives on different brands of tests or a CP what does it matter? I hoped it was real and it wasn't. Idk what people want from me but today I'm sad and I'm letting myself feel that.
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Post by McBenny on Apr 12, 2018 11:57:35 GMT -6
Oh my. This thread took a turn. Just keep in mind that you are basing this off a test that is known to give certain readings. Ok. Thanks for this clarity. I'm also basing it off hormonal blood work that came back showing that it looks like I did ovulate this month. I am pretty prickly right now about being given all kinds of temping advice like it's new to me when I've been dealing with my PCOS since I was 16 and TTC for 5 years. I don't know everything but I'm not new either. Today sucks, I hoped I was pregnant and I'm not. Whether my hope was from multiple false positives on different brands of tests or a CP what does it matter? I hoped it was real and it wasn't. Idk what people want from me but today I'm sad and I'm letting myself feel that. I did catch a tone last night from your posts. That being said, I think people were just trying to help or give comfort the best way they know how. I mean you got to know someone speaking to you about temping is not trying to hurt you.
Sure you hoped you were pregnant but finding out your are not is one thing and saying you lost is another. So for me, yeah it matters. It shouldn't but there you go.
Anyway, I will see myself out of your thread cause the whole thing is a lot. I will just see you and not see you from this point forward. It's not hard for me. KOKO.
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Not upset, but not with "prickly" today. KOKO
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Post by misskilljoy on Apr 12, 2018 11:57:57 GMT -6
Tlex , those tests looked convincing. The consistency of positives would have me thinking CP, too. Feel however you need to feel. I'm sorry this wasn't your month, and I hope you don't have to wait a bajillion weeks to ovulate again so that you can get your BFP soon. (Also, if you don't want to post a thread again but need to freak out about future pee sticks, text me. I'll look at 'em all no matter how many you send.)
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Post by Risscaboobs on Apr 12, 2018 12:04:35 GMT -6
I am so sorry, Tlex. This happened to me in July, and it was rough. The disappointment is crushing. So many hugs.
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Post by Tlex on Apr 12, 2018 12:13:34 GMT -6
Like I really don't know what to say here. If I go to my doctor and say I got multiple faint positive pregnancy tests on different brands and they faded out, he will say "that was probably a chemical pregnancy, I'm sorry." I'm not trying to claim a loss I didn't have or something, I'm just saying I've been down this road before and it's familiar. I'm also saying *to me* the hope being dashed feels the same, regardless of what really happened in the microscopic world inside my body.
I do not mean to undermine any one else's losses in any way. I do not mean to be rude to anyone offering any type of support. My apologies.
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Post by robot on Apr 12, 2018 12:14:21 GMT -6
With your tests I would be thinking CP as well. I know Wondfos have a reputation but personally, the dozens and dozens I've taken across multiple years only ever came up with those very faint squinty lines when I was actually pregnant. I even got so far as to write a bad review for "false positives" last summer when I finally turned a digital after days and days and went in for a beta. Regardless it fucking sucks and I'm sorry.
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Post by bearfootzcontinued on Apr 12, 2018 12:15:28 GMT -6
Tlex, I'm sorry. It's a shitty roller coaster of emotions to have to ride.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 12, 2018 12:18:36 GMT -6
Like I really don't know what to say here. If I go to my doctor and say I got multiple faint positive pregnancy tests on different brands and they faded out, he will say "that was probably a chemical pregnancy, I'm sorry." I'm not trying to claim a loss I didn't have or something, I'm just saying I've been down this road before and it's familiar. I'm also saying *to me* the hope being dashed feels the same, regardless of what really happened in the microscopic world inside my body. I do not mean to undermine any one else's losses in any way. I do not mean to be rude to anyone offering any type of support. My apologies. Feel what you feel. Seeing those tests, on different brands, knowing that you got that positive OPK (OK I sound like a stalker), and just everything combined, this was a mind fuck. I totally get it.
I am really sorry you've had such a rough couple days. Keep your head up, and I really don't see any need for apologies at all. Hugs hun.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 12, 2018 12:26:24 GMT -6
I’m sorry. I love you. Big hugs.
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Post by gussie on Apr 12, 2018 12:26:31 GMT -6
Hugs, Tlex. No matter what happened, I know it sucks and I’m sorry you are going through this.
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Post by rubysue on Apr 12, 2018 16:04:47 GMT -6
Oh, Tlex. I’m sorry. I’ve been MIA and missed all of this. Big hugs.
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Post by dogbutt on Apr 12, 2018 16:09:12 GMT -6
I’m sorry. Hugs.
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Post by Pumpkinwest on Apr 12, 2018 16:40:18 GMT -6
I’m so sorry. Sending you all the love ♥️
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Post by Pinkflower22 on Apr 12, 2018 17:13:21 GMT -6
I'm so sorry Tlex. TTC with pcos is such a mindfuck. My cycle does similar things where I get all the signs for ovulation but then my cycle keeps going on forever. I know it is really frustrating to feel like you don't even get the same opportunity to try every month. Just hugs for solidarity.
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Post by teraiin on Apr 12, 2018 17:22:50 GMT -6
I’m so sorry tlex. I’m heartbroken for you. TTC with PCOS is no fun and it’s horrible to get your hopes up for nothing. (Hug)
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