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Post by snowyowl on Feb 26, 2018 21:30:18 GMT -6
I also just realized it's been a long time since I bathed baby, and I feel guilty. #needmorewine Wine makes me less annoyed with everything and everyone Same. Pretty sure DH is just as happy that I can drink as I am. |
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Post by rebeccabunch on Feb 26, 2018 21:30:53 GMT -6
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Post by pippiann on Feb 26, 2018 21:39:41 GMT -6
I also just realized it's been a long time since I bathed baby, and I feel guilty. #needmorewine L gets a bath once, twice a week tops! It’s really tough on their skin to do more than that! Hugs mama, enjoy your wine and release the guilt. |
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Post by pippiann on Feb 26, 2018 21:41:14 GMT -6
I also just realized it's been a long time since I bathed baby, and I feel guilty. #needmorewine Wine makes me less annoyed with everything and everyone 💯 |
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Post by benandjerrys on Feb 26, 2018 21:42:31 GMT -6
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Post by jessijean on Feb 26, 2018 21:57:38 GMT -6
I'm trying so hard to be understanding but DH and I are not getting along lately. On top of having any infant and needy toddler work is stressing him out. Tonight he gave the toddler a time out for crying too long. The kid was hungry and we were working on supper. He rarely gets time outs and I personally don't feel he deserved one but I let it go. Tonight he got on me because both kids crying when he got home and I hadn't pumped or started supper. I was waiting for Lowes delivery so I'm not going to pump while home alone waiting on then (alone with 2 kids that is). I was trying to work on supper but the kids needed attention. I hope we get over this hump soon because we've never been like this. It's not we need counseling bad but I definitely am not a fan of how we are right now. Sorry, needed to vent.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 26, 2018 22:13:08 GMT -6
You guys, I try so hard to keep up here and engage but I am failing 😭😭 sorry I am basically an AW/lurker!!
DH got called into work late. All 3 kids are sleeping, including the baby, who went down at 8. That NEVER happens 😱 I am enjoying an adult beverage and some serious binge watching of ER. And I folded laundry. How do 3 little people wear so many things?!
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Post by sunfrogger on Feb 27, 2018 5:15:31 GMT -6
As predicted I had all the feels last night. MH brought dd1 into bed bc she woke up cold around 430.. He had her pee and then I've been snuggling since. peachesncream don't feel bad!! You have 3! jessijean I feel like that's not that uncommon. It's still early to have a good routine w 2 but fx things get better soon. |
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Post by sarahh on Feb 27, 2018 6:11:47 GMT -6
jessijean DH and I have been fighting way more now than we did when DD1 was a baby and he too is short on patience with DD1. In the one getting up al night while he sleeps yet he’s the one acting sleep deprived. I figure it will all work itself out with some time. I go back to work Thursday so plan to push him to do more around here. Have you started teaching again?
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Post by sarahh on Feb 27, 2018 6:21:43 GMT -6
I have a question for those that had vaginal births. Do you have pain when you spread your legs open? I am having a lot of pain I think in my public bone or something around there. I had a c-section but went into labor and progressed to a 10 and they had to push the baby back in to do the incision. That must have done something down there but since I haven’t had a vaginal birth before I’m not sure if it’s normal or not.
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Post by marygracerich on Feb 27, 2018 6:37:23 GMT -6
I'm trying so hard to be understanding but DH and I are not getting along lately. On top of having any infant and needy toddler work is stressing him out. Tonight he gave the toddler a time out for crying too long. The kid was hungry and we were working on supper. He rarely gets time outs and I personally don't feel he deserved one but I let it go. Tonight he got on me because both kids crying when he got home and I hadn't pumped or started supper. I was waiting for Lowes delivery so I'm not going to pump while home alone waiting on then (alone with 2 kids that is). I was trying to work on supper but the kids needed attention. I hope we get over this hump soon because we've never been like this. It's not we need counseling bad but I definitely am not a fan of how we are right now. Sorry, needed to vent. Babies are really hard on relationships. I have learned from some of the ladies on my previous bmb that you should never make any life changing decisions in the first year after a baby is born because of the strain that it puts on everyone. Hopefully things will be a bit better for you in a few months. |
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Post by jessijean on Feb 27, 2018 8:19:17 GMT -6
jessijean DH and I have been fighting way more now than we did when DD1 was a baby and he too is short on patience with DD1. In the one getting up al night while he sleeps yet he’s the one acting sleep deprived. I figure it will all work itself out with some time. I go back to work Thursday so plan to push him to do more around here. Have you started teaching again? I'm teaching completely online until fall but I started back teaching 9 days after we were discharged. I'm part time but still stress of students doesn't get easier. |
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Post by pinkcat on Feb 27, 2018 8:21:54 GMT -6
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Post by benandjerrys on Feb 27, 2018 8:24:26 GMT -6
I have a question for those that had vaginal births. Do you have pain when you spread your legs open? I am having a lot of pain I think in my public bone or something around there. I had a c-section but went into labor and progressed to a 10 and they had to push the baby back in to do the incision. That must have done something down there but since I haven’t had a vaginal birth before I’m not sure if it’s normal or not. You mean like spread eagle hurts? No I don't have pain like that. |
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Post by sarahh on Feb 27, 2018 17:21:05 GMT -6
I have a question for those that had vaginal births. Do you have pain when you spread your legs open? I am having a lot of pain I think in my public bone or something around there. I had a c-section but went into labor and progressed to a 10 and they had to push the baby back in to do the incision. That must have done something down there but since I haven’t had a vaginal birth before I’m not sure if it’s normal or not. You mean like spread eagle hurts? No I don't have pain like that. Yeah. No clue what it is then. |
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