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Post by mwhip on Dec 21, 2017 9:40:20 GMT -6
inthekitty I hope your husband passes the stone soon. I haven't had one, but I've heard how painful they are.
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trtlcrzy
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Post by trtlcrzy on Dec 21, 2017 9:42:05 GMT -6
It’s snowing!! I’m so excited! I hope we get a lot so we can have a white Christmas! It’s also blowing which makes me feel a little bad for my DH. At least there’s no ice on the ground first. H has school this afternoon (I thought tues was her last day before break, I was wrong). Oh also, H found the English version of masha this morning.
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yummeecookee
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Post by yummeecookee on Dec 21, 2017 9:44:13 GMT -6
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Post by guster on Dec 21, 2017 9:46:51 GMT -6
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Post by tgrimes on Dec 21, 2017 9:46:51 GMT -6
lahdeedah H is better and back at daycare today. He about jumped out of my arms to his teacher. LOL. My nephew is still the same. He'll get another treatment today and the doctor said they probably wouldn't see any results until after the 3rd treatment. My sister said they're keeping him drugged up with morphine every 5 hrs so he pretty much sleeps all day. Probably for the best. I dont' think I'd want to remember this whole ordeal when I was his age. Thanks for asking.
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Post by wedding on Dec 21, 2017 9:47:12 GMT -6
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klong11
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Post by klong11 on Dec 21, 2017 9:56:03 GMT -6
Cadence wet the bed again last night. The pattern seems to be 2-3 nights in a row wet, 3-4 nights dry. So, since I just ordered a brand new full size mattress for her, can you please recommend your mattress pad/protector things so that we don't ruin it with urine.
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tgrimes
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Post by tgrimes on Dec 21, 2017 9:56:04 GMT -6
inthekitty Oh no! Do they think he'll be able to pass it on his own? My BIL had some this year and they had to do the shock wave treatment. The next time it was so bad he needed surgery.
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tgrimes
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Post by tgrimes on Dec 21, 2017 10:03:04 GMT -6
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trtlcrzy
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Post by trtlcrzy on Dec 21, 2017 10:07:51 GMT -6
Cadence wet the bed again last night. The pattern seems to be 2-3 nights in a row wet, 3-4 nights dry. So, since I just ordered a brand new full size mattress for her, can you please recommend your mattress pad/protector things so that we don't ruin it with urine. You need one (or a couple) of these. They come in a few different sizes, but the important thing is it goes over the sheets so if she has a MOTN accident you don’t have to strip the whole bed, just pull this off. www.amazon.com/dp/B000FOA7C2/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_9U9oAbCG3XM5NI believe this is the mattress protector I got for under the sheets for H’s bed. www.amazon.com/dp/B003PWNGQU/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_cX9oAbQHXMJP7ETA: I’m an unfortunate expert at this since H peed the bed at night for months on end.
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Post by lahdeedah on Dec 21, 2017 10:18:18 GMT -6
I'm sorry. yummeecookee, I hate that yall aren't talking close to the holidays.
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Post by wineallthetime on Dec 21, 2017 10:21:56 GMT -6
yummeecookee, well that sucks!! I'm sorry it's YH's fault and that you guys aren't talking inthekitty, ouch! I hope he passes it soon! That sounds awful for everyone involved.
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tgrimes
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Post by tgrimes on Dec 21, 2017 10:24:24 GMT -6
Did she respond to you at all? I could see DH doing the same- saying no but not really. So part of me doesn't fault her since she showed him but I would definitely talk to her to make sure it doesn't happen again. She did respond to me saying she talked to him first. I said I know, but he didn’t speak to me about it so I’m just asking for future that she could check w me too. Ultimately mh effed up, so my anger lies with him. I’m not sure why he is so mad at me for contacting his mom. I did it in a respectful way. I think you handled that very well.
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Post by sands42 on Dec 21, 2017 10:29:15 GMT -6
Glad everything went well with H slenle!!! Your H is gonna be like, ‘Look what happens when I actually start helping out around here!! Boom. Kidney stone.’ 😉 Hope he feels better soon! I know those are rough. inthekittyHope you get a white Christmas trtlcrzy! We haven’t had one in a while ☹️
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Post by peachsmama on Dec 21, 2017 10:30:13 GMT -6
Glad everything went well with H slenle !!! Your H is gonna be like, ‘Look what happens when I actually start helping out around here!! Boom. Kidney stone.’ 😉 Hope he feels better soon! I know those are rough. inthekitty Hope you get a white Christmas trtlcrzy ! We haven’t had one in a while ☹️There's hope this year! I really hope it snows! I want like 4-6 inches.
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Post by sands42 on Dec 21, 2017 10:30:33 GMT -6
I worked this morning. Only 6a-10a but I am always so tired the rest of the day 😴 I was super busy the entire time with TWENTY patients 🙄
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Post by snoopmommymom on Dec 21, 2017 10:38:14 GMT -6
Also good morning! DH woke up "very congested" so he couldn't help with the boys. I can't really complain since I went out last night and he watched them solo, but he's been pulling this a lot lately and it makes me late for work. It also further proves that he needs to start taking better care of himself, but that conversation always ends in empty promises. So frustrating... At least the boys were easy for me this morning. They are having pizza parties at school today so they were excited to get out the door. Same, kiddos, same. I always get both kids dressed in the morning, teeth brushed, feed them breakfast, and get their school stuff ready (snacks, water, etc). The only time DH chips in is if i leave early with Z and he leaves late to drop O at pre-k at 9:30, then he will get O dressed and fed. But on those days sometimes i still get O dressed and/or fed depending how much time i have.
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inthekitty
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Post by inthekitty on Dec 21, 2017 10:38:57 GMT -6
inthekitty Oh no! Do they think he'll be able to pass it on his own? My BIL had some this year and they had to do the shock wave treatment. The next time it was so bad he needed surgery. They released him assuming he'd pass it on his own. He forgot to ask for an estimated timeline. Of course for his own sake I hope it passes so he can feel better. But selfishly I also want it over with too because we left the girls with my parents in Oregon this weekend while I was finishing work before the holidays and we're going to head back tonight after work. Well, I took a sick day so in theory I can leave anytime, but we don't know when pain will hit him again and he definitely can't be left alone. I really miss the girls though. 😕
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Post by slenle on Dec 21, 2017 10:44:13 GMT -6
trtlcrzy, I’m jealous of your snow. We were supposed to get hit with it too but now it’s staying south and we won’t get anything. I was hoping to take her kids sledding this weekend but I don’t think that will happen
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Post by wineallthetime on Dec 21, 2017 10:45:20 GMT -6
Glad everything went well with H slenle !!! Your H is gonna be like, ‘Look what happens when I actually start helping out around here!! Boom. Kidney stone.’ 😉 Hope he feels better soon! I know those are rough. inthekitty Hope you get a white Christmas trtlcrzy ! We haven’t had one in a while ☹️ Lol!!!
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inthekitty
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Post by inthekitty on Dec 21, 2017 10:45:38 GMT -6
sands42 I know right? Things have actually been ugly around here. An issue about his parents came up and I tried to talk about his mom and he went right into his mode of his mom is the poor victim of my nastiness. It pisses me off to no end. He finds an excuse for every shitty behavior she does and my feelings about how she acts don't count. I wasn't speaking to him. I think I found a marital counselor and am trying to figure out babysitting arrangements. I just can't do it any longer. I'm tired of him giving into his mom's every shitty behavior like it's nothing and acting like I'm a horrible person. Of course insurance doesn't cover it but I figured it's cheaper than divorce.
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Post by wineallthetime on Dec 21, 2017 10:46:52 GMT -6
Not looking too likely for a white Christmas for us. All of our snow melted this week. It looks like we MIGHT get a little dusting Sunday night, but that's about it. I don't want a huge snow storm or anything, but enough to cover the grass would be ideal.
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Post by joelies on Dec 21, 2017 10:47:04 GMT -6
Also good morning! DH woke up "very congested" so he couldn't help with the boys. I can't really complain since I went out last night and he watched them solo, but he's been pulling this a lot lately and it makes me late for work. It also further proves that he needs to start taking better care of himself, but that conversation always ends in empty promises. So frustrating... At least the boys were easy for me this morning. They are having pizza parties at school today so they were excited to get out the door. Same, kiddos, same. I always get both kids dressed in the morning, teeth brushed, feed them breakfast, and get their school stuff ready (snacks, water, etc). The only time DH chips in is if i leave early with Z and he leaves late to drop O at pre-k at 9:30, then he will get O dressed and fed. But on those days sometimes i still get O dressed and/or fed depending how much time i have. I actually usually get them out the door earlier without his help, LOL. It's the dropping them off part that makes me late for work, though Colin insisting (and me agreeing!) that we stop at SBux whenever I take them in isn't exactly helping things.
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Post by wineallthetime on Dec 21, 2017 10:48:31 GMT -6
inthekitty, shit. I'm sorry. I hope the counselor is able to help you guys get in a better place. That's a really really crappy way for you to be feeling.
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Post by wineallthetime on Dec 21, 2017 10:49:56 GMT -6
MH does all the work getting the kids ready and does drop off since I work so early. I don't know how he's going to do it with 3! I don't envy him.
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Post by trtlcrzy on Dec 21, 2017 10:51:38 GMT -6
trtlcrzy, I’m jealous of your snow. We were supposed to get hit with it too but now it’s staying south and we won’t get anything. I was hoping to take her kids sledding this weekend but I don’t think that will happen Boo! I’m sorry! Maybe a surprise storm will pop up in the next 3 days.
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Post by tgrimes on Dec 21, 2017 10:54:12 GMT -6
The only thing MH does in the morning is get H out of his crib and hand him a bottle. I do everything else. Somehow he's able to eat breakfast at home before he leaves for work and sit in the bathroom for 15 min.
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Post by tgrimes on Dec 21, 2017 10:54:51 GMT -6
M still wakes up everyday and runs to the door to see if it snowed. Then she's pissed.
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Post by klong11 on Dec 21, 2017 10:55:13 GMT -6
Mh does everything for Cadence in the morning because I have to leave before them. I lay out the next day's clothes, brush her teeth and make sure she pees before I leave, other than that, it's on him.
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Post by trtlcrzy on Dec 21, 2017 10:55:27 GMT -6
Not looking too likely for a white Christmas for us. All of our snow melted this week. It looks like we MIGHT get a little dusting Sunday night, but that's about it. I don't want a huge snow storm or anything, but enough to cover the grass would be ideal. We’re only supposed to get like 2 inches so it’s not going to be a lot here either. It’s just starting to cover grass in some places. An hour north it sounds like they are getting 4-6in and I’d rather have that!
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