byjove
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Post by byjove on Mar 12, 2024 11:43:51 GMT -6
I don’t know how to get my links to come up as images like you all do, but I promise they are legit. when you copy and paste the link, you have to manually change the "x" to "twitter" and then it will embed.
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Post by pitchslap on Mar 12, 2024 11:54:55 GMT -6
"Marchioness of Cholmondeley." They may never mock how we say "herb" ever again. The audacity. I don’t even know how to pronounce that and I shan’t learn. Shan’t. I saw an interview with Florence Pugh where her and her grandma pronounce Timothee Chalawhatever as Timothee Chalamanadingdong, and that's how I now pronounce her title. Rose, the Marchoiness of Chalamanadingdong
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Post by miawallace on Mar 12, 2024 12:04:18 GMT -6
No mam’. She will always be slowly enunciated Cholmondeley to me. Chol-mon-de-lay with an A for extra emphasis.
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jorkzy
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Post by jorkzy on Mar 12, 2024 12:10:07 GMT -6
That's why I circle back to dv. What is so bad that they literally refuse to say? Yeah, or this. I know people get testy about that speculation, but oh well. ETA and yes, Kate very clearly has an eating disorder. I'm sorry again that people get testy about that, but at some point we need to be honest about what is right in front of our faces. Diana suffered in silence for so long; perhaps we should just start being open about what is a disease and not a fault of that person. And if that's what's going on, and this is her getting help, well that is frankly one of the best things that could come out of this because I think it's needed. I don’t think it’s fair to say Kate “clearly has an ED” based on looks. EDs don’t look a particular way.
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Post by Hotcoconuts82 on Mar 12, 2024 12:58:06 GMT -6
Yeah, or this. I know people get testy about that speculation, but oh well. ETA and yes, Kate very clearly has an eating disorder. I'm sorry again that people get testy about that, but at some point we need to be honest about what is right in front of our faces. Diana suffered in silence for so long; perhaps we should just start being open about what is a disease and not a fault of that person. And if that's what's going on, and this is her getting help, well that is frankly one of the best things that could come out of this because I think it's needed. I don’t think it’s fair to say Kate “clearly has an ED” based on looks. EDs don’t look a particular way. The Ed stuff makes me a little 😬 because I was very thin as a teen and would often be asked if I was anorexic by kids at school (in a very shitty way). I did not have an ed. It very much sucked to be made to feel my body didn't look "right".
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Post by newspapers on Mar 12, 2024 13:01:25 GMT -6
I don’t think it’s fair to say Kate “clearly has an ED” based on looks. EDs don’t look a particular way. The Ed stuff makes me a little 😬 because I was very thin as a teen and would often be asked if I was anorexic by kids at school (in a very shitty way). I did not have an ed. It very much sucked to be made to feel my body didn't look "right". I will say that (and I have said this before) Kate as a young woman (college) was def "sturdier" and more robust. She started getting visibly thinner as she got back with William and has only gotten thinner after each kid. I know that can happen SOMETIMES, but it's not the usual pattern of aging.
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Post by miawallace on Mar 12, 2024 13:06:07 GMT -6
I just want to make clear that Kate being thin was never an indication of an ED to me. For me it’s the details of other things bc I’ve been there and I can see it. The bandaids on certain parts of her fingers were an huge indicator for me. You also can be not-thin and have ED. No one mention the Kates size here. I think that’s a weird centering if I’m blunt.
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jorkzy
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Post by jorkzy on Mar 12, 2024 13:06:24 GMT -6
I don’t think it’s fair to say Kate “clearly has an ED” based on looks. EDs don’t look a particular way. The Ed stuff makes me a little 😬 because I was very thin as a teen and would often be asked if I was anorexic by kids at school (in a very shitty way). I did not have an ed. It very much sucked to be made to feel my body didn't look "right". That sucks, I’m sorry. I have a similar history. There’s about a million reasons someone might be thin, only a small fraction of which involves intentionally restricting food intake. Like the report is that kate had abdo surgery. Maybe she’s dealt with a chronic GI issue that led to weight loss and the surgery was to fix it. It’s in the same vein, to me, as folks assuming someone who lives in a larger body is unhealthy, just by looking at them. (Not saying one is easier to deal with than the other.)
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Post by Sweetjane on Mar 12, 2024 13:08:04 GMT -6
I just want to make clear that Kate being thin was never an indication of an ED to me. For me it’s the details of other things bc I’ve been there and I can see it. The bandaids on certain parts of her fingers were an huge indicator for me. You also can be not-thin and have ED. No one mention the Kates size here. I think that’s a weird centering if I’m blunt. Also, look at her mom and sister. Same frame. ITA with you BTW.
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STP
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Post by STP on Mar 12, 2024 13:08:53 GMT -6
Yeah, or this. I know people get testy about that speculation, but oh well. ETA and yes, Kate very clearly has an eating disorder. I'm sorry again that people get testy about that, but at some point we need to be honest about what is right in front of our faces. Diana suffered in silence for so long; perhaps we should just start being open about what is a disease and not a fault of that person. And if that's what's going on, and this is her getting help, well that is frankly one of the best things that could come out of this because I think it's needed. I don’t think it’s fair to say Kate “clearly has an ED” based on looks. EDs don’t look a particular way. Please point to where I said it was based on looks. I am over being unable to have an honest conversation bc people want to slap it down as some kind of thin shaming. You are the only one interjecting the word "looks" into this. I certainly never did. My sister has battled an ED for twenty-five years. I know what I'm seeing and that doesn't mean it's her jeans size.
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STP
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Post by STP on Mar 12, 2024 13:09:24 GMT -6
I just want to make clear that Kate being thin was never an indication of an ED to me. For me it’s the details of other things bc I’ve been there and I can see it. The bandaids on certain parts of her fingers were an huge indicator for me. You also can be not-thin and have ED. No one mention the Kates size here. I think that’s a weird centering if I’m blunt. JFC thank you. "You also can be not-thin and have ED." Exactly. And not one fucking person said otherwise.
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Post by newspapers on Mar 12, 2024 13:15:06 GMT -6
I mean, I talked about her size in my quotation before anybody else points it out. But given earlier photos of her, the pressure and scrutiny she is under, the change in her appearance, and the fact that her predecessor dealt with the exact same thing, it's not a bananas thing to wonder about.
And yes, I do see that the gradual weight loss might be from chronic GI issues, especially given HG during three pregnancies. Which also would suck balls if true.
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Post by icedcoffee on Mar 12, 2024 13:15:07 GMT -6
I mean, I could see Kate hitting a breaking point, emotionally and mentally, and kind of refusing to play (for now) to make a point to Will. I don't think it'll stick, but maybe she's being a little difficult to punish him and they don't know how to deal with it. So essentially, Diana Part Deux. The difference is Kate will probably come around, this is just a little "see what I can do if I decide to step outside the role? Don't fuck with me, I'm the next queen and mother to a future King." I think the main rule in that circle is do what you want, extramaritally, but don't embarrass the wife. And Will wasn't as careful as required. I'd applaud that. But it's probably plastic surgery. :::Shrug::: Kate's not going ANYWHERE. This is where I am, I'm having a really hard time still coming around to a serious injury (what's the end game there?) or a divorce. I think she's asserting some dominance and they aren't handling it well. Or fine with her being thrown under the bus since she's not cooperating with what they want. I believe she made the Easter rule and is sticking to it
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Post by icedcoffee on Mar 12, 2024 13:16:08 GMT -6
Oh the convo has changed. Ignore me
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Post by miawallace on Mar 12, 2024 13:18:23 GMT -6
I just want to make clear that Kate being thin was never an indication of an ED to me. For me it’s the details of other things bc I’ve been there and I can see it. The bandaids on certain parts of her fingers were an huge indicator for me. You also can be not-thin and have ED. No one mention the Kates size here. I think that’s a weird centering if I’m blunt. JFC thank you. "You also can be not-thin and have ED." Exactly. The ED community misses the mark on anyone who isn’t a thin white body. It’s why I can see signs of it on any type of size. I can go on about all the folx it leaves behind.
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origami
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Post by origami on Mar 12, 2024 13:20:04 GMT -6
I don’t even know how to pronounce that and I shan’t learn. Shan’t. Did you watch Call the Midwife? It was Chummys last name. chumlee. Nope. Not gonna.
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STP
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Post by STP on Mar 12, 2024 13:22:31 GMT -6
Did you watch Call the Midwife? It was Chummys last name. chumlee. Nope. Not gonna. Don't if you have any triggers around loss.
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jorkzy
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Post by jorkzy on Mar 12, 2024 13:23:43 GMT -6
I just want to make clear that Kate being thin was never an indication of an ED to me. For me it’s the details of other things bc I’ve been there and I can see it. The bandaids on certain parts of her fingers were an huge indicator for me. You also can be not-thin and have ED. No one mention the Kates size here. I think that’s a weird centering if I’m blunt. JFC thank you. "You also can be not-thin and have ED." Exactly. And not one fucking person said otherwise. We’re all saying the same thing then.
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origami
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Post by origami on Mar 12, 2024 13:23:49 GMT -6
Don't if you have any triggers around loss. I mostly meant not gonna say chumlee but I appreciate the heads up. Brf titles are really where the rules are made up and the points don’t matter.
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willow
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Post by willow on Mar 12, 2024 13:26:43 GMT -6
I'm wondering the over under on whether the public will ever get an actual explanation when she presumably resumes normal appearances/photos/whatever.
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Post by newspapers on Mar 12, 2024 13:30:04 GMT -6
If in fact she returns after Easter like nothing happened, we will hear absolutely nothing.
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Post by Hotcoconuts82 on Mar 12, 2024 13:34:43 GMT -6
I'm wondering the over under on whether the public will ever get an actual explanation when she presumably resumes normal appearances/photos/whatever. Well they said she wouldn't been seen until after Easter and then messed that up big time. I'm sure someone with mess something up.
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STP
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Post by STP on Mar 12, 2024 13:49:51 GMT -6
NVM.
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Post by lucilleaustero on Mar 12, 2024 14:16:15 GMT -6
I'm wondering the over under on whether the public will ever get an actual explanation when she presumably resumes normal appearances/photos/whatever. I think we are never going to know what the actual sitch was.
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willow
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Post by willow on Mar 12, 2024 14:18:50 GMT -6
I'm wondering the over under on whether the public will ever get an actual explanation when she presumably resumes normal appearances/photos/whatever. Well they said she wouldn't been seen until after Easter and then messed that up big time. I'm sure someone with mess something up. It is certainly not lost on me how absolutely locked down their staff has been with no leaks this entire time when Meghan couldn't fart without someone leaking it to the press.
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byjove
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Post by byjove on Mar 12, 2024 15:32:40 GMT -6
This is the first story I’ve seen on completely stepping away from duties. Anyone else seeing this?
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Post by Hotcoconuts82 on Mar 12, 2024 15:38:54 GMT -6
This is the first story I’ve seen on completely stepping away from duties. Anyone else seeing this? Can she do that?
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Cheshie6
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Post by Cheshie6 on Mar 12, 2024 16:05:34 GMT -6
This is the first story I’ve seen on completely stepping away from duties. Anyone else seeing this? Can she do that? If she can, it’s going to be a crazy situation. Especially as the POW, considering what they said about Meghan and Harry not being able to…
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Post by PandaWatch on Mar 12, 2024 16:45:08 GMT -6
This is the first story I’ve seen on completely stepping away from duties. Anyone else seeing this? Can she do that? She can if they’re getting a divorce…
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Post by Hotcoconuts82 on Mar 12, 2024 16:53:31 GMT -6
She can if they’re getting a divorce… There's no way that would happen without a divorce.
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