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Post by waitwhat on Jul 18, 2017 13:05:28 GMT -6
So I'm basically trapped in my house and never going out my front door about because.... Trying to add a pic with a spoiler wtf
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Post by sophiegrace on Jul 18, 2017 13:08:01 GMT -6
I do not think you're being a bitch about it at all. M's pedi thoroughly checks her mouth with a light at every visit. And I'm pretty sure that's not going above and beyond normal care. Unless it only became glaringly obvious with a recent growth spurt? But still. I don't know very much about it yet, but is it possible it would appear out of nowhere? I'm trying to research now because my knowledge is limited to what happens in utero. It would have always been there, but possibly just not obvious. Especially since there is skin covering the entire roof of his mouth.
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Post by danib on Jul 18, 2017 13:08:38 GMT -6
Awww danib I'm sorry! He's ok, right? oh ya he's fine (other than being totally pissed off), it's actually a super low couch so it wasn't a huge fall.
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Post by sophiegrace on Jul 18, 2017 13:08:43 GMT -6
So I'm basically trapped in my house and never going out my front door about because.... Trying to add a pic with a spoiler wtf Don't think I want to know I'm picturing a snake spider hybrid
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Post by waitwhat on Jul 18, 2017 13:09:48 GMT -6
So I'm basically trapped in my house and never going out my front door about because.... Trying to add a pic with a spoiler wtf Don't think I want to know I'm picturing a snake spider hybrid Haha. Sort of! Y'all are lucky I'm technology challenged.
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Post by jubilantsquirrel on Jul 18, 2017 13:12:17 GMT -6
Don't think I want to know I'm picturing a snake spider hybrid Haha. Sort of! Y'all are lucky I'm technology challenged. Did you do [ spoiler] [ img] [ /img] [ /spoiler] ?
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Post by waitwhat on Jul 18, 2017 13:15:12 GMT -6
Haha. Sort of! Y'all are lucky I'm technology challenged. Did you do [ spoiler] [ img] [ /img] [ /spoiler] ? come on. Of course not. But I don't get it. Where do I put the link? ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
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Post by goldenlove on Jul 18, 2017 13:29:11 GMT -6
Did you do [ spoiler] [ img] [ /img] [ /spoiler] ? come on. Of course not. But I don't get it. Where do I put the link? ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ Right in the middle!
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Post by jubilantsquirrel on Jul 18, 2017 13:34:15 GMT -6
Did you do [ spoiler] [ img] [ /img] [ /spoiler] ? come on. Of course not. But I don't get it. Where do I put the link? ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ Look at you with your shurggie guy! And the link would go right in the middle [ img] pic link goes here [ /img]
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Post by sophiegrace on Jul 18, 2017 13:47:06 GMT -6
Stop telling her where to put it! I'm terrified about what this picture will be of.
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Post by sophiegrace on Jul 18, 2017 13:48:01 GMT -6
FX it was a basket of puppies and waitwhat is now stuck in her house because she's overwhelmed with all the cuteness
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Post by tgrimes on Jul 18, 2017 13:51:14 GMT -6
I don't know very much about it yet, but is it possible it would appear out of nowhere? I'm trying to research now because my knowledge is limited to what happens in utero. It would have always been there, but possibly just not obvious. Especially since there is skin covering the entire roof of his mouth. I meant the black spot. Sorry, I wasn't very descriptive.
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Post by tgrimes on Jul 18, 2017 13:57:27 GMT -6
waitwhat Dude. Did you figure it out yet?
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Post by sophiegrace on Jul 18, 2017 14:18:00 GMT -6
I'm trying to research now because my knowledge is limited to what happens in utero. It would have always been there, but possibly just not obvious. Especially since there is skin covering the entire roof of his mouth. I meant the black spot. Sorry, I wasn't very descriptive. I'm not 100% positive but I'm going to venture and say it's very possible. The mouth is super vascular and I imagine because of that can bruise (for lack of a better term) very easily in the right circumstances. Not having the protection of the palate (whether missing or just formed differently) combined with him now putting harder objects in his mount compared to when he was a newborn...I can definitely see how vascular trauma could have occurred out of no where. It could also mean that the area of abnormality is smaller than the darkened area because like all areas of trauma on the body, bruising goes much further than the area of damage. I don't know if that's what it is. I'm trying to apply what I do know about physiology to an area of the body that I admittedly don't know much about. I can get access to the information though if you're the type of person that is soothed by it.
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Post by tgrimes on Jul 18, 2017 14:19:24 GMT -6
sophiegrace It's okay. I appreciate all the information you've given me so far.
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Post by waitwhat on Jul 18, 2017 14:44:20 GMT -6
waitwhat Dude. Did you figure it out yet? sorry had to go to target!
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Post by waitwhat on Jul 18, 2017 14:51:07 GMT -6
THIS is why I'm never opening my front door ever again I GIVE UP!!
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Post by jubilantsquirrel on Jul 18, 2017 14:57:40 GMT -6
THIS is why I'm never opening my front door ever again I GIVE UP!!
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Post by sophiegrace on Jul 18, 2017 15:10:42 GMT -6
THIS is why I'm never opening my front door ever again I GIVE UP!! I'm screaming 🤣🤣🤣
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Post by waitwhat on Jul 18, 2017 15:14:34 GMT -6
I feel like tgrimes learning how to gif!!!! Atleast I can do this ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
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Post by tgrimes on Jul 18, 2017 15:17:42 GMT -6
I feel like tgrimes learning how to gif!!!! Atleast I can do this ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ LOL! Just post the damn picture.
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Post by tgrimes on Jul 18, 2017 15:41:13 GMT -6
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Post by tgrimes on Jul 18, 2017 15:59:17 GMT -6
Yeah, I can't do it either.
You're shocked, I know.
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Post by Cheshie6 on Jul 18, 2017 16:33:51 GMT -6
STMs, how long does separation anxiety last? I just want to workout. I've accepted the fact that I won't be at pre-baby weight before Hawaii which was the goal. I'm disappointed and I want to workout! I want to get back into zumba shape so I can sub and make a little money! Y doesn't charge instructors for child watch so he can stay up to 2 hours in their! But I can't even get 10 minutes!?!
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Post by danib on Jul 18, 2017 16:42:52 GMT -6
STMs, how long does separation anxiety last? I just want to workout. I've accepted the fact that I won't be at pre-baby weight before Hawaii which was the goal. I'm disappointed and I want to workout! I want to get back into zumba shape so I can sub and make a little money! Y doesn't charge instructors for child watch so he can stay up to 2 hours in their! But I can't even get 10 minutes!?! It's really another thing that varies kid to kid. C had no issue being with othet people from a fairly early age (unless it was bedtime, then he lost his damn mind without me). H, I'm scared to death of leaving him because he loses his mind the second I turn my back.
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Post by Cheshie6 on Jul 18, 2017 16:55:07 GMT -6
danib, It's just weird, he was fine up till a month ago!?! I've been leaving him in there since 3 months old!?! Could DH leaving be causing this?
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Post by danib on Jul 18, 2017 16:58:58 GMT -6
Remind me why I was wanting H to start crawling and pulling up on things. Solo-parenting was much easier when I could just plop him on the bed next to C with a pillow on the other side while I folded laundry or hopped in the shower.
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Post by starbuck on Jul 18, 2017 16:59:51 GMT -6
STMs, how long does separation anxiety last? I just want to workout. I've accepted the fact that I won't be at pre-baby weight before Hawaii which was the goal. I'm disappointed and I want to workout! I want to get back into zumba shape so I can sub and make a little money! Y doesn't charge instructors for child watch so he can stay up to 2 hours in their! But I can't even get 10 minutes!?! It took Wyatt three years. But we just kept at it. Do they call you after ten minutes to come back? Daycare took Wyatt about 30 minutes to calm down every day, but after that initial freak out he had a great day. Eventually it took less and less time, but he still didn't want to go. After the twins he was extremely clingy. Now he is excited to go to the church school and to Sunday school (different school than the daycare was). The twins do really well at drop off when they go to Sunday school or childcare when I work out (also at church), but they have each other. Sometimes J fusses for a few minutes but not for long. Honestly my best advise is to keep trying, and see if they will work with you to give him more time to calm down.
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Post by danib on Jul 18, 2017 17:01:00 GMT -6
danib, It's just weird, he was fine up till a month ago!?! I've been leaving him in there since 3 months old!?! Could DH leaving be causing this? ohhhh I bet it is!! When I was working and C was going to daycare, he always cried at drop off the first few days after DH left/came home.
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Post by Cheshie6 on Jul 18, 2017 17:30:36 GMT -6
starbuck, Depends on how bad he's crying and how many other kids are in there? Last time it was 20 minutes, this time not even 10 minutes but more kids were in there today. They are willing to work with us and encouraged us to keep trying.
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