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Post by robotsvswrestlers on Jun 17, 2020 17:32:34 GMT -6
onyx wow that is really important!!! I donโt know too much about it just that it can make pregnancy very difficult. I hope you can work with your doctor and come up with a great path forward. I had never heard of it until they told me they were testing me for it. Iโm thankful to have an answer though. I know other posters here have definitely had it if you want to ask. Theyโve talked about it on the GD board.
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Post by onyx on Jun 17, 2020 17:56:23 GMT -6
I had never heard of it until they told me they were testing me for it. Iโm thankful to have an answer though. I know other posters here have definitely had it if you want to ask. Theyโve talked about it on the GD board.ย thank you! Iโll definitely check it out. I donโt typically hang out in GD.
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Jun 18, 2020 8:41:23 GMT -6
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Post by robotsvswrestlers on Jun 18, 2020 8:41:23 GMT -6
CD4 over here and had a pretty productive appointment today. I have a huge 5 cm leftover cyst, so no treatment this month while we wait for it to resolve. So boo.
But this doctor was new to me and typically works at another location. He was really thorough since weโve never met.. Went over my history and we talked about my meds. He likes the Metformin for me and the COQ10. He thinks I did have an implantation last month that didnโt stick, which might explain the huge cyst. He also thinks we up my meds next cycle and see what happens. So we just wait for my next period and go from there. Hopefully I O on my own this month.
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Jun 18, 2020 9:06:22 GMT -6
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Post by robotsvswrestlers on Jun 18, 2020 9:06:22 GMT -6
Oh and also that was the worst PMS cramping and CD1 that Iโve had in a long time. Supports the โpregnant for one secondโ theory. I spent Monday night curled up in the bed bc my cramps were so bad.
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Post by catlady22 on Jun 19, 2020 7:11:45 GMT -6
Oh and also that was the worst PMS cramping and CD1 that Iโve had in a long time. Supports the โpregnant for one secondโ theory. I spent Monday night curled up in the bed bc my cramps were so bad. How is it that the body's reaction is so much more? I was the same, it felt like actual early labor contractions rather than cramps.
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Jun 19, 2020 8:04:55 GMT -6
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Post by robotsvswrestlers on Jun 19, 2020 8:04:55 GMT -6
Oh and also that was the worst PMS cramping and CD1 that Iโve had in a long time. Supports the โpregnant for one secondโ theory. I spent Monday night curled up in the bed bc my cramps were so bad. How is it that the body's reaction is so much more? I was the same, it felt like actual early labor contractions rather than cramps. I know, isnโt it crazy? Doctor said that literally the second the embryo starts to implant, your hormones start to change and send signals to other parts of your body. Thatโs why he thinks I have that enormous cyst. He thinks the ovaries got the signal that I was pregnant, so they started doing their thing. And then the uterus got the pregnancy signal, then the failed implantation signal, and started cramping to expel the tissues. Our bodies really are amazing.
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Post by catlady22 on Jun 19, 2020 10:46:51 GMT -6
How is it that the body's reaction is so much more? I was the same, it felt like actual early labor contractions rather than cramps. I know, isnโt it crazy? Doctor said that literally the second the embryo starts to implant, your hormones start to change and send signals to other parts of your body. Thatโs why he thinks I have that enormous cyst. He thinks the ovaries got the signal that I was pregnant, so they started doing their thing. And then the uterus got the pregnancy signal, then the failed implantation signal, and started cramping to expel the tissues. Our bodies really are amazing. So interesting. So do they usually monitor cysts? Or only in special cases? My ultrasound tech said she measured 3 cysts, but my dr said no word of them.
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Post by robotsvswrestlers on Jun 19, 2020 11:03:57 GMT -6
catlady22 I love reproductive medicine, so excuse my tangent. Cysts arenโt necessarily bad. Itโs just a fluid filled sac. Every follicle in your ovary is a โcystโ with an egg inside. Itโs really the size and what CD that determine if itโs normal/ok or not. Itโs not uncommon at all and I wouldnโt necessarily be concerned. Because Iโm seeing an RE and doing monitored fertility cycles, I have to have a baseline ultrasound on CD3-5 to confirm itโs safe for meds. Depending on cyst size and if they are producing estrogen, it can interfere with egg production.
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Post by catlady22 on Jun 22, 2020 6:33:29 GMT -6
CD1 is finally here. Happy to be back on track hopefully.
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Post by Deleted on Jun 25, 2020 21:18:52 GMT -6
hey guys. i just wanted to update you since youโve been there for me this whole time.
my pregnancy was molar. i havenโt gotten the pathology results yet to see if it was malignant. i hope to get those soon. but for now i have to get HCG tests once a week for the next 6 months. if it starts to rise (anything above 5) then iโll have to undergo chemotherapy.
thereโs only a 20% chance of it being malignant or my HCG rising. i donโt want to call it cancer, but it is. 20% is also way too high of a number because thereโs only a 20% chance of miscarriage and iโve had 4. only a .001% chance of a molar and i had one of those too. percentages are not on my side here!!!
iโm trying not to spiral but jesus what the fuck. if all goes right and thereโs no HCG rise and no cancer, i will be able to TTC again after 1 year from the day my HCG gets back down to 0. โน๏ธ
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Post by robotsvswrestlers on Jun 26, 2020 4:31:02 GMT -6
@zweber that is awful. I am so sorry your TTC journey has been such a difficult and traumatic experience. I really hope your doctors are taking good care of you and you are treated the way you deserve. Youโll be in my thoughts and I hope you have an uneventful recovery.
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Post by mothafuckinteatime on Jun 26, 2020 8:41:52 GMT -6
@zweber Iโm so sorry. Thinking of you and hoping your hcg stays low. โค๏ธ
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Post by sammysam on Jun 26, 2020 17:42:04 GMT -6
Hope it's ok if I jump in. I haven't been here for a while but used to be very active on this board...probably because I was here for so long. I have a 6.5 year old daughter and a 1 year old daughter. In between I had 2 hard losses...the first at 12 weeks after taking 8 cycles to conceive (I hemorrhaged and almost bled out) and the second at 10 weeks after taking 9 cycles to conceive (my doctor was amazing though and got me a D&C the day after the US). My rainbow was conceived the first cycle after my second D&C. SO decided he wants to try for one more. I'm 41 already but I told him I'm willing to try one more time. I might be crazy but here we are. CD5. I just pulled out my thermometer and ordered a bunch of tests and OPKs. SO isn't living with us right now due to work/COVID etc so TTC is going to be interesting.
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Post by catlady22 on Jun 26, 2020 18:12:44 GMT -6
@zweber I'm so sorry. I hope everything stays low and comes back benign.
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Post by Fearsy on Jun 27, 2020 16:00:02 GMT -6
Fuck the world, @zweber. Iโm so sorry.
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Post by Deleted on Jun 28, 2020 7:57:55 GMT -6
Fuck the world, @zweber. Iโm so sorry. they were wrong ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ the oncology pathology results come back completely clear!!!!!!!! it wasnโt molar. it wasnโt even partial molar. it was just... nothing. 3 blighted ovums perhaps. praise be. ๐๐พ๐๐พ๐๐พ
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Post by catlady22 on Jun 28, 2020 8:46:57 GMT -6
Fuck the world, @zweber. Iโm so sorry. they were wrong ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ the oncology pathology results come back completely clear!!!!!!!! it wasnโt molar. it wasnโt even partial molar. it was just... nothing. 3 blighted ovums perhaps. praise be. ๐๐พ๐๐พ๐๐พ Amazing news!
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Post by robotsvswrestlers on Jun 28, 2020 9:26:14 GMT -6
Fuck the world, @zweber. Iโm so sorry. they were wrong ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ the oncology pathology results come back completely clear!!!!!!!! it wasnโt molar. it wasnโt even partial molar. it was just... nothing. 3 blighted ovums perhaps. praise be. ๐๐พ๐๐พ๐๐พ Fuck your doctors so much. Seriously fuck them.
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Post by katespade on Jun 28, 2020 12:50:49 GMT -6
Fuck the world, @zweber. Iโm so sorry. they were wrong ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ the oncology pathology results come back completely clear!!!!!!!! it wasnโt molar. it wasnโt even partial molar. it was just... nothing. 3 blighted ovums perhaps. praise be. ๐๐พ๐๐พ๐๐พ Omg I donโt know if Iโve ever been more relieved for someone. Iโm still sorry it wasnโt 3 sticky babies (or even 1) but Iโm so fucking thrilled that you donโt have to worry about all of the molar stuff.
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Post by addymac on Jun 28, 2020 13:09:43 GMT -6
Oh @zweber this is so wonderful to hear!!! (The not molar part).
Iโm sorry for all the stress and anxiety and sadness this pregnancy has given you. I hope you can move on from and stay far far away from This drs office. I know youโre moving soon back to the mainland, I hope you get in with the other drs office in HI or you find a kickass dr in your new place and you get your sticky baby. ๐๐๐
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Post by lemondrop on Jun 28, 2020 13:42:26 GMT -6
Fuck the world, @zweber. Iโm so sorry. they were wrong ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ the oncology pathology results come back completely clear!!!!!!!! it wasnโt molar. it wasnโt even partial molar. it was just... nothing. 3 blighted ovums perhaps. praise be. ๐๐พ๐๐พ๐๐พ This is great (awful) news, but seriously wtf to your doctors??? How are they seriously so inept??
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Post by shellsncheese on Jun 28, 2020 18:15:44 GMT -6
Omg that's great news that it wasn't molar! I cannot believe how awful your doctor's office is, though.
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Post by Fearsy on Jun 29, 2020 6:44:05 GMT -6
Fuck the world, @zweber. Iโm so sorry. they were wrong ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ the oncology pathology results come back completely clear!!!!!!!! it wasnโt molar. it wasnโt even partial molar. it was just... nothing. 3 blighted ovums perhaps. praise be. ๐๐พ๐๐พ๐๐พ WHAT!!!! THIS IS THE BEST BUT ALSO FUCKED NEWS EVER!!! I am so happy that they were wrong but WHAT THE FUCK is wrong with them?!?! I really really really hope youโre able to make it to another specialist who can actually give you accurate information. Whew!! How are you feeling? Whatโs your plan/next steps?
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Post by Deleted on Jun 29, 2020 9:27:56 GMT -6
they were wrong ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ the oncology pathology results come back completely clear!!!!!!!! it wasnโt molar. it wasnโt even partial molar. it was just... nothing. 3 blighted ovums perhaps. praise be. ๐๐พ๐๐พ๐๐พ WHAT!!!! THIS IS THE BEST BUT ALSO FUCKED NEWS EVER!!! I am so happy that they were wrong but WHAT THE FUCK is wrong with them?!?! I really really really hope youโre able to make it to another specialist who can actually give you accurate information. Whew!! How are you feeling? Whatโs your plan/next steps? sooooooo we paid out of pocket and saw a naturopath fertility specialist (yโall i donโt know what that means i just went okay?) she was fucking dope. she prescribed me enough progesterone for 6 months of TTC. gave mh a daily multivitamin, gave me some different kinda folic acid, told me to take iron pills for my anemia, and also a prenatal. but we are gonna wait 2-3 cycles before trying again because holy shit you guys iโm so tired of being pregnant. iโve been knocked up 6 months out of 2020. my current OB promised me iโd get an REI work up after this pregnancy was resolved. i even got it in writing. but i motherfuckin promise you that will ๐๐พ never ๐๐พ happen. this place is so fucked.
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Post by alwayscheese on Jun 29, 2020 19:20:12 GMT -6
Is this a weird time to intro? I'm gonna try to start posting here. (It would be helpful if Tapatalk would give me notifications for the boards I follow ๐.) I have a 2yo son and we're ready to try for another. I got my IUD out last week and today is like CD4. I've had my cheapie thermometer out for a while but having a hard time taking enough temps for a chart. A new one that saves more than one temp might be a good idea. I think we'll try to avoid for this month yet so there's no possibility of a due date near DS's birthday. Hi everyone, glad to see a few familiar faces. But of course hopefully we're not here long . ETA I've been a mostly lurker and sporadic poster since TB days, mostly posted on my BMB and GKU or whatever it was called on TCF.
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Post by alwayscheese on Jun 29, 2020 19:20:46 GMT -6
@zweber I'm really sorry about all of that.
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Post by robotsvswrestlers on Jun 30, 2020 15:05:08 GMT -6
CD16 and remembering why I pay a doctor to medicate me. I have no clue whatโs going on with my cycle. No positive OPKs yet and I have little faith.
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Post by onyx on Jul 1, 2020 9:11:45 GMT -6
Fuck the world, @zweber. Iโm so sorry. they were wrong ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ the oncology pathology results come back completely clear!!!!!!!! it wasnโt molar. it wasnโt even partial molar. it was just... nothing. 3 blighted ovums perhaps. praise be. ๐๐พ๐๐พ๐๐พ Iโm so happy to read this update!!!
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