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Post by NamasteBirches on Jan 11, 2018 9:45:59 GMT -6
I'm here for all the conspiracy theories.
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Post by Hotcoconuts82 on Jan 11, 2018 9:46:01 GMT -6
Still not buying premarital sex. Jill also got pregnant on her wedding night. I am fully invested in the conspiracy theory that they track their ovulation and set a wedding date based on it. 100% they plan ovulation weddings.
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Post by unicornofthesea on Jan 11, 2018 12:45:38 GMT -6
Still not buying premarital sex. Jill also got pregnant on her wedding night. I am fully invested in the conspiracy theory that they track their ovulation and set a wedding date based on it. 100% they plan ovulation weddings. I'm kinda shocked that they all get ku so quickly... it's kinda freaky actually.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 11, 2018 12:54:40 GMT -6
Healthy girls in their late teens having unprotected sex and we are surprised they get KU quickly? Idk if the Duggars do this but a church in town did a program where you have sex for 40 days straight. It's supposed to transform your marriage and it's recommended to do it when you first get married since obviously you were virgins and need a lot of practice.
I guess I'm more surprised they haven't had miscarriages (or at least publicly).
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Post by honda on Jan 11, 2018 12:57:28 GMT -6
Still not buying premarital sex. Jill also got pregnant on her wedding night. I am fully invested in the conspiracy theory that they track their ovulation and set a wedding date based on it. 100% they plan ovulation weddings. Yesssssss. I agree 100%. Which I think further solidifies our assumptions that Jinger was on birth control.
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Post by honda on Jan 11, 2018 12:58:55 GMT -6
I also really effing hope Jana writes a tell all.
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Post by ArielMermaid on Jan 11, 2018 13:02:55 GMT -6
Healthy girls in their late teens having unprotected sex and we are surprised they get KU quickly? Idk if the Duggars do this but a church in town did a program where you have sex for 40 days straight. It's supposed to transform your marriage and it's recommended to do it when you first get married since obviously you were virgins and need a lot of practice. I guess I'm more surprised they haven't had miscarriages (or at least publicly). Exactly. Most of them are like, 19. They’ve never had sex and suddenly are doing it all the time without protection. That’s how babies get made.
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Post by Bluebird on Jan 11, 2018 14:18:57 GMT -6
Healthy girls in their late teens having unprotected sex and we are surprised they get KU quickly? Idk if the Duggars do this but a church in town did a program where you have sex for 40 days straight. It's supposed to transform your marriage and it's recommended to do it when you first get married since obviously you were virgins and need a lot of practice. I guess I'm more surprised they haven't had miscarriages (or at least publicly). This sounds exhausting. I guess I could have done it in my late teens or early 20s though.
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Post by hardlyluck on Jan 11, 2018 16:09:21 GMT -6
Healthy girls in their late teens having unprotected sex and we are surprised they get KU quickly? Idk if the Duggars do this but a church in town did a program where you have sex for 40 days straight. It's supposed to transform your marriage and it's recommended to do it when you first get married since obviously you were virgins and need a lot of practice. I guess I'm more surprised they haven't had miscarriages (or at least publicly). Yes, because 1 in 8 people struggle with infertility. It’s not always so super duper easy peasy for people whether they are “healthy” or not to get pregnant.
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Post by hardlyluck on Jan 11, 2018 16:13:36 GMT -6
100% they plan ovulation weddings. I'm kinda shocked that they all get ku so quickly... it's kinda freaky actually. I’m here with you. When I was younger I worried that I’d need 3 forms of birth control or I’d get pregnant even thinking about it...cut to years of trying and getting nowhere. Statistically speaking some of the Duggar girls are likely to deal with some form of infertility at some point. So yes it is a bit surprising to me that, so far, all their ovulation wedding planning seems to be working out for them.
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Post by ArielMermaid on Jan 11, 2018 16:16:13 GMT -6
There is a Bates girl currently struggling with infertility if I remember right. But I don’t Bates so maybe RajahMD can speak to that. Michelle has had miscarriages, she believed them to be caused by her birth control and that’s what lead to the 19 kids shenanigans. I’m unsure of if any of the Duggar girls would speak publicly about something like that if it did happen. It’s believed that Jill’s second delivery had complications based on pictures of Samuel’s birth, but they have never spoken publicly about it.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 11, 2018 16:36:15 GMT -6
I wasn't trying to be insensitive to infertility. I'm sorry if it came across that way. I had a honeymoon baby and don't use BC so I'm approaching the Duggars with my own bias.
It is possible Jinger struggled unless I missed her being open about BC. But I wouldn't dare to assume just like I wouldn't assume they had miscarriages even though statistically it's probable.
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Post by doublestuf on Jan 11, 2018 17:01:07 GMT -6
Anna had a miscarriage. I think maybe a pregnancy between Mackenzie and Michael? They talked about it on the show after the fact as opposed to announced the pregnancy then had the miscarriage.
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Post by goldenbird on Jan 11, 2018 17:15:57 GMT -6
Anna had a miscarriage. I think maybe a pregnancy between Mackenzie and Michael? They talked about it on the show after the fact as opposed to announced the pregnancy then had the miscarriage. Yes, I remember this.
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Post by goldenbird on Jan 11, 2018 17:24:02 GMT -6
Clearly they are fertile. I can see them conceiving in the first week or two of marriage. And I believe they plan their weddings to when they think the middle of their cycles will be.
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Post by ArielMermaid on Jan 11, 2018 17:54:49 GMT -6
Anna had a miscarriage. I think maybe a pregnancy between Mackenzie and Michael? They talked about it on the show after the fact as opposed to announced the pregnancy then had the miscarriage. That’s right! Ugh poor Anna. I almost can’t think about her. Everything about her life makes me so sad.
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Post by joy on Jan 11, 2018 18:32:56 GMT -6
I thought she was Joy at first. I had to read this a few times before I understood you weren’t talking about me.
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Post by NamasteBirches on Jan 11, 2018 18:49:54 GMT -6
There is a Bates girl currently struggling with infertility if I remember right. But I don’t Bates so maybe RajahMD can speak to that. Michelle has had miscarriages, she believed them to be caused by her birth control and that’s what lead to the 19 kids shenanigans. I’m unsure of if any of the Duggar girls would speak publicly about something like that if it did happen. It’s believed that Jill’s second delivery had complications based on pictures of Samuel’s birth, but they have never spoken publicly about it. yeah, Michael.. aka Michaela. Another one also had problems but she has 2 kids & is pregnant with #3 I think.
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Post by Leaf 🌱 on Jan 11, 2018 19:02:59 GMT -6
100% they plan ovulation weddings. Yesssssss. I agree 100%. Which I think further solidifies our assumptions that Jinger was on birth control. I think Jinger was REALLY good at NFP.
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Post by honda on Jan 11, 2018 19:07:00 GMT -6
Yesssssss. I agree 100%. Which I think further solidifies our assumptions that Jinger was on birth control. I think Jinger was REALLY good at NFP. Also a possibility. If they know how to track ovulation, they can track to avoid.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 11, 2018 19:09:10 GMT -6
Yesssssss. I agree 100%. Which I think further solidifies our assumptions that Jinger was on birth control. I think Jinger was REALLY good at NFP. You know what they call people who use NFP? ... Parents
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Post by ArielMermaid on Jan 11, 2018 19:09:58 GMT -6
Yesssssss. I agree 100%. Which I think further solidifies our assumptions that Jinger was on birth control. I think Jinger was REALLY good at NFP. 100% And Jeremy wasn’t raised Fundie. I’m sure he wants to family plan and not “leave it up to God.” Maybe he convinced her birth control was perfectly normal and not sinful.
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Post by MrsNal on Jan 11, 2018 19:31:09 GMT -6
I think Jinger was REALLY good at NFP. You know what they call people who use NFP? ... Parents My high school bio teacher had someone come in to talk about nfp. It was weird.
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Post by doublestuf on Jan 11, 2018 20:03:44 GMT -6
Anna had a miscarriage. I think maybe a pregnancy between Mackenzie and Michael? They talked about it on the show after the fact as opposed to announced the pregnancy then had the miscarriage. That’s right! Ugh poor Anna. I almost can’t think about her. Everything about her life makes me so sad. Her dad always gave me the creeps...like child molester. I know you never know what you'll do until you're in a situation, but damn the only way you stay with her shithead husband is if that's the only life you know. I mean I get she grew up in the fundie brainwashing, but I feel like she could have been exposed to abuse her whole life. Hopefully I'm wrong.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 11, 2018 20:18:39 GMT -6
I think Jinger was REALLY good at NFP. 100% And Jeremy wasn’t raised Fundie. I’m sure he wants to family plan and not “leave it up to God.” Maybe he convinced her birth control was perfectly normal and not sinful. This I found doubtful. Even in non-fundie Christian circles, BC is still considered wrong because the egg, if released, can still fertilize and then it's the disruption of the uterine lining that causes it to not implant. A pastor of an old church once said God gave us the tools to wisely have children, and a free for all procreation was not Biblical like some believe. People left over that comment. But if she knew all about tracking I do believe they could have done NFP or condoms for a full year. I'm sure the tell all will tell us all about it.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 11, 2018 20:24:58 GMT -6
I did not know Jeremy had a tattoo. So maybe he does have progressive BC views. Do you think she would take them if he told her even if she didn't want to? I feel like after 19+ years of brainwashing it would be to hard to over come.
Ugh this family is so fucked up.
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Post by ArielMermaid on Jan 11, 2018 20:26:06 GMT -6
doublestuf and her parents KNEW what Josh did to his sisters and sold Anna off to him anyway.
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Post by ArielMermaid on Jan 11, 2018 20:28:16 GMT -6
I did not know Jeremy had a tattoo. So maybe he does have progressive BC views. Do you think she would take them if he told her even if she didn't want to? I feel like after 19+ years of brainwashing it would be to hard to over come. Ugh this family is so fucked up. I was just thinking condoms. But fundie women are supposed to defer to their man in everything. If he told her she was going on the pill my guess is she would do it, just because he said so. It’s fucked.
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Post by NamasteBirches on Jan 11, 2018 20:47:24 GMT -6
I did not know Jeremy had a tattoo. So maybe he does have progressive BC views. Do you think she would take them if he told her even if she didn't want to? I feel like after 19+ years of brainwashing it would be to hard to over come. Ugh this family is so fucked up. where's his tat??
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Post by RajahMD on Jan 11, 2018 20:47:55 GMT -6
Yes, Michael. They were somewhat open about it on their show. They are working with a RE. They've been trying since they got married over 2 years ago.
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