sven
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Post by sven on May 25, 2017 13:35:37 GMT -6
Just got my official diagnosis last night, I'm feeling really sad today and I don't want to get out of bed.
I hope it's okay to post this here, I don't really know where else to go.
I'm supposed to be 10w4d, I started spotting on Monday. My Dr doesn't think they will be able to get me in for a D&C until mid next week. I've been having cramps and back pain. I don't want to miscarry at home. I don't know what to do.
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Post by caer on May 25, 2017 14:03:43 GMT -6
I don't have any advice but I wanted to say that I'm so sorry for your loss sven. Sending hugs and love your way. |
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Post by ♪♫choppinbroccoli♫♪ on May 25, 2017 15:28:27 GMT -6
sven, I am so sorry. Have you been through loss before? I hope they can get in you before that. Is there anyone who can be with you right now? Or would you rather be alone? I have found watching Netflix shows to be a good distraction. Nothing wrong with taking something to sleep, either. Sending you love.
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Post by LED on May 25, 2017 16:22:15 GMT -6
I'm so sorry for your loss. If they haven't scheduled the surgery yet definitely call back and ask them to do that ASAP. I hope you don't have to wait too long.
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sven
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Post by sven on May 25, 2017 16:24:19 GMT -6
sven, I am so sorry. Have you been through loss before? I hope they can get in you before that. Is there anyone who can be with you right now? Or would you rather be alone? I have found watching Netflix shows to be a good distraction. Nothing wrong with taking something to sleep, either. Sending you love. This is my first loss. The surgery scheduled just called and said the earliest they can get me in is Tuesday morning. TW - LC I am a SAHM to a 20 month old, so we're home alone. I put him down early for his nap but other than that I can't get anyone to watch him My husband doesnt get PTO so he can't really take off except the day of the surgery. I think once he gets home I will retreat to the bedroom with Netflix. Thank you. |
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Post by addymac on May 25, 2017 16:28:59 GMT -6
Oh sven I'm so, so sorry for your loss. And for the awful waiting period. Sending you hugs. |
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Post by ♪♫choppinbroccoli♫♪ on May 25, 2017 16:48:54 GMT -6
sven , I am so sorry. Have you been through loss before? I hope they can get in you before that. Is there anyone who can be with you right now? Or would you rather be alone? I have found watching Netflix shows to be a good distraction. Nothing wrong with taking something to sleep, either. Sending you love. This is my first loss. The surgery scheduled just called and said the earliest they can get me in is Tuesday morning. TW - LC I am a SAHM to a 20 month old, so we're home alone. I put him down early for his nap but other than that I can't get anyone to watch him My husband doesnt get PTO so he can't really take off except the day of the surgery. I think once he gets home I will retreat to the bedroom with Netflix. Thank you. I'm so sorry you can't get away. You can lean on us here. Let us know if you have any questions about the procedure. |
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Post by cnf on May 25, 2017 18:35:31 GMT -6
I am so sorry sven. I hope you get some alone time if that's what you need. I'm glad you got your surgery scheduled. Hugs. |
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Post by danascullyx on May 25, 2017 18:46:14 GMT -6
I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope you can take some time for yourself and the surgery is easy on you. Maybe a bath tonight also?
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Post by CestLaVie on May 25, 2017 19:24:49 GMT -6
I am so sorry you are going through this. I had a BO too and it sucks so bad. Give yourself some grace with your DS. honestly just get through it. Sending you some hugs.
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sven
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Post by sven on May 25, 2017 21:12:58 GMT -6
Thank you guys for all your support.
I just spoke with my mom and she's going to fly down for most of next week to help me out. She's been through this too so it will be nice to have someone who understands there with me.
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Post by sarahwithanh on May 25, 2017 21:19:03 GMT -6
Hugs. I'm sorry you are going through this. I didn't want to miscarry at home either. I'm so sorry they can't get you in sooner.
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Post by Radley on May 25, 2017 22:01:32 GMT -6
So many hugs and love. I'm glad you have your mom available to support and help you.
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Post by ♪♫choppinbroccoli♫♪ on May 25, 2017 22:53:33 GMT -6
Thank you guys for all your support. I just spoke with my mom and she's going to fly down for most of next week to help me out. She's been through this too so it will be nice to have someone who understands there with me. I'm so relieved to read this. I think one of the hardest things to do is let yourself lean on others in times like these. |
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Post by agpjt413 on May 27, 2017 10:58:56 GMT -6
I'm so sorry for your loss sven. So many hugs. So glad your mom is ble to fly down and help you out. ETA: words |
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