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Post by wedding on Jul 30, 2021 11:52:53 GMT -6
They are so edgy inthekitty! Very cool. lahdeedah, that sucks that you may need to take off. How annoying! Stupid COVID!
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Post by wedding on Jul 30, 2021 11:56:02 GMT -6
We just got an email from school with the calendar and plans going forward. We may be able to get back on the bus route again but it depends on COVID in our state. We are still in good shape here but you never know what a month will bring. They did say they are not doing virtual learning but masks will be required. I am good with that. I can't believe school is only a month away. We really haven't done our summer reading so I need to get on that!
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Post by tgrimes on Jul 30, 2021 12:14:42 GMT -6
I loved Wild Hearts Can't Be Broken as a kid, mainly because of Jake Ryan. He was also in Mermaids.
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Post by nam2013 on Jul 30, 2021 13:01:54 GMT -6
inthekitty Iām lost for what kind of fidget toy, do you have one you like?
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Post by inthekitty on Jul 30, 2021 13:22:57 GMT -6
inthekitty Iām lost for what kind of fidget toy, do you have one you like? Nee Doh's are great stress balls although the Amazon ones are overpriced. I'm simple and like Silly Putty or Aaron's Thinking Putty. It's not messy, doesn't dry out, and is easy to squish around and mold. Flarp is good for a laugh. These puzzle cubes are good brain teasers but could be annoying if he's not a puzzle person.
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Post by nam2013 on Jul 30, 2021 13:24:47 GMT -6
inthekitty Iām lost for what kind of fidget toy, do you have one you like? Nee Doh's are great stress balls although the Amazon ones are overpriced. I'm simple and like Silly Putty or Aaron's Thinking Putty. It's not messy, doesn't dry out, and is easy to squish around and mold. Flarp is good for a laugh. These puzzle cubes are good brain teasers but could be annoying if he's not a puzzle person. Hahahaha we had flarp as kids! I refrain from that given that heās in an icu ward š. But Iāll see if I can find one of the other here. Thanks!
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Post by jewels on Jul 30, 2021 13:26:04 GMT -6
nam2013 I bought these for the boys and I find myself playing with them a lot.
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Post by kim22 on Jul 30, 2021 13:30:43 GMT -6
I do not recommend raising a 3 year old and a teenager at the same time.
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Post by lahdeedah on Jul 30, 2021 13:32:30 GMT -6
My MIL is a saint. MH was talking with her earlier and telling her about his conference next week and she offered to come up to help since I would be alone with the kids while M2 couldnāt go to school. I almost didnāt believe it and made sure Mh didnāt ask her because thatās a big ask.
My manager had just told me not to stress and if I had to take off it was no big deal, she understands. I didnāt tell her I may have to, but she just wanted me not to stress about it. Then mh called to tell me I would have help. šš½ Mh will meet my FIL halfway to pick her up on Sunday. Phew. I feel better but we owe her big time.
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Post by lahdeedah on Jul 30, 2021 13:35:15 GMT -6
I do not recommend raising a 3 year old and a teenager at the same time. Noted and Godspeed.
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Post by wineallthetime on Jul 30, 2021 13:54:59 GMT -6
We are telling the kids today and I'm currently in a parking lot trying to get it together before going home. I can't stop crying though so I need to get myself in check real quick.
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Post by tgrimes on Jul 30, 2021 13:57:08 GMT -6
We are telling the kids today and I'm currently in a parking lot trying to get it together before going home. I can't stop crying though so I need to get myself in check real quick. Love you.
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Post by wineallthetime on Jul 30, 2021 13:59:45 GMT -6
We are telling the kids today and I'm currently in a parking lot trying to get it together before going home. I can't stop crying though so I need to get myself in check real quick. Love you. ā¤ļø Right back at you, friend.
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Post by guster on Jul 30, 2021 14:04:53 GMT -6
We are telling the kids today and I'm currently in a parking lot trying to get it together before going home. I can't stop crying though so I need to get myself in check real quick. We're here for you if you need anything!!
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Post by nam2013 on Jul 30, 2021 14:11:11 GMT -6
We are telling the kids today and I'm currently in a parking lot trying to get it together before going home. I can't stop crying though so I need to get myself in check real quick. Where here for you & For what itās worth, itās okay for your kids to see you crying. Big hugs.
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Post by wineallthetime on Jul 30, 2021 14:36:05 GMT -6
We are telling the kids today and I'm currently in a parking lot trying to get it together before going home. I can't stop crying though so I need to get myself in check real quick. Where here for you & For what itās worth, itās okay for your kids to see you crying. Big hugs. Oh absolutely! I had to get some full blown sobs out. Kids are eating an early dinner now then we will talk to them.
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Post by lahdeedah on Jul 30, 2021 15:05:20 GMT -6
We are telling the kids today and I'm currently in a parking lot trying to get it together before going home. I can't stop crying though so I need to get myself in check real quick. Big hugs. Iām sure it all sucks even though you have somewhat prepared for this talk.
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Post by tallb on Jul 30, 2021 15:06:55 GMT -6
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Post by tgrimes on Jul 30, 2021 15:07:51 GMT -6
Where here for you & For what itās worth, itās okay for your kids to see you crying. Big hugs. Oh absolutely! I had to get some full blown sobs out. Kids are eating an early dinner now then we will talk to them. You can do this. Take some deep breaths and down a vodka...or 10.
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Post by wedding on Jul 30, 2021 15:12:53 GMT -6
Good luck wineallthetime. Remember that you are a kick ass mom and this will be better for all of you in the long run. Lots of love and booze!
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Post by kim22 on Jul 30, 2021 15:24:52 GMT -6
wineallthetime thinking of you. You did this the best way you could and I hope you end the night feeling relieved you got through this different step.
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Post by mwhip on Jul 30, 2021 16:19:43 GMT -6
Sending lots of love wineallthetime. It will be a relief when this is all over. I've wished many times in my life, when going through shit, that there was a fast forward button to get me to the end of it.
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Post by mwhip on Jul 30, 2021 16:31:17 GMT -6
This afternoons meeting was a little overwhelming, but fun. I had no idea what all we would pick. Im excited to see it all together. But my laundry room tile is my favorite thing! H didn't want it, but he went with it. Since he's getting a 3 car garage with the 3rd bay tandem, he knew he had to let me have some things!
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Post by chrisy01 on Jul 30, 2021 17:29:07 GMT -6
Thinking of you [mention]wineallthetime [/mention]
Big hugs š«
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Post by chrisy01 on Jul 30, 2021 17:30:03 GMT -6
Work announced all salaried and non-union workers who work onsite must be fully vaccinated in 60 days and they are currently working out deals with the unions to follow suit. I see lots of people leaving.
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Post by wineallthetime on Jul 30, 2021 17:38:12 GMT -6
Thank you all, your support and love means the world. Well... The kids were thrilled. Like, so excited. We were very clear but obviously the full extent hasn't hit them. They were so excited about 2 houses and bunk beds at the new place. C asked about our next weddings. We just kinda stood there in shock. Im sure tough times to come but I'll take it for now?
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Post by chrisy01 on Jul 30, 2021 17:51:25 GMT -6
[mention]wineallthetime [/mention] Iām sure you will be able to handle it when they figure it out. Big hugs. You are doing the right thing and you are an amazing mom
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Post by klong11 on Jul 30, 2021 17:51:57 GMT -6
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Post by klong11 on Jul 30, 2021 17:57:57 GMT -6
Hello, from TX where we are back on the threshold of Stage fucking 5. Meanwhile this is our governor: "Texans have mastered the safe practices that help to prevent and avoid the spread of COVID-19. They have the individual right and responsibility to decide for themselves and their children whether they will wear masks, open their businesses, and engage in leisure activities. Vaccines, which remain in abundant supply, are the most effective defense against the virus, and they will always remain voluntary ā never forced ā in the State of Texas.ā
So no one can be told what to put in their bodies and yet women can be told what to do with their uteruses. Awesome.
The school district did finally get a virtual option together. I just can't do that to Cadence for another year though.
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Post by klong11 on Jul 30, 2021 18:02:49 GMT -6
Oh oh AND all but 1 of the partners is currently at an indoor wedding reception with 150 freaking people! If I judge the guests by those I know, Imma go ahead and say no masks will be worn at all. Really hoping it doesn't become a super spreader. š·
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