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Post by vino on Mar 26, 2021 10:09:25 GMT -6
That's frustrating vino . I think a lot of men have shitty coping mechanisms and get go in self-centered mode and are sometimes oblivious to how their behavior impacts others. I hope he gets through this phase quickly. 100% this. I feel like whenever MH has a ton on his mind with work, it's like he retreats into himself and ignores everyone/everything around him. It's super annoying. Right!? So very annoying. I don't walk on eggshells around him and call him out but damn, take a little initiative and self reflection and remedy your shit yourself.
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Post by inthekitty on Mar 26, 2021 10:11:36 GMT -6
Watching more Ginny and Georgia. I think that just like how shows have warnings about sex, violence, nudity, and language, they should have warnings about uncomfortable secondhand embarrassment from weird public performance displays. Watching people sing or perform to others is so cringy. Her nerdy boyfriend makes me uncomfortable. OMG I can't stand the boyfriend! And the dancing down the hall.... no. Right!? That's the part I just watched and I was just EW EW EW! the whole time. And then when she said she wanted to have sex with him. Girl no. You can do better. It's like I can see 25 yo Ginny looking back going "what the hell was I thinking?"
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Post by vino on Mar 26, 2021 10:22:40 GMT -6
Watching more Ginny and Georgia. I think that just like how shows have warnings about sex, violence, nudity, and language, they should have warnings about uncomfortable secondhand embarrassment from weird public performance displays. Watching people sing or perform to others is so cringy. Her nerdy boyfriend makes me uncomfortable. OMG I can't stand the boyfriend! And the dancing down the hall.... no. +1 to this. i fast forward that nonsense.
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Post by vino on Mar 26, 2021 10:24:05 GMT -6
jewels I'm laughing cause that is exactly how my stream on thoughts would go on the situation, thats the shitty (yet another) thing about this is that there is no right or wrong way, its all about personal comfort level.
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Post by nam2013 on Mar 26, 2021 10:30:34 GMT -6
OMG I can't stand the boyfriend! And the dancing down the hall.... no. +1 to this. i fast forward that nonsense. + 2!!! Can’t stand people randomly singing. Say yes to the dress featured some random singers every now and then who will break out in song in the middle of the salon. I cannot watch that.
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Post by nam2013 on Mar 26, 2021 10:32:44 GMT -6
jewels your stream of thoughts would mimic mine. I hate hate hate having to overthink every single little thing. I thinks that’s one of the things I hate most about the Covid situation 😣. vino I’m sorry about your h, when is he leaving?
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Post by lahdeedah on Mar 26, 2021 10:33:39 GMT -6
You follow me. That's all you need to know. Done. A few people have popped up for me to follow, so as I see it, I'm requesting to follow. But I don't know how to search for people. I think my username on there is my firstnamelastname. :::checks my friend requests::: I do like jewels and follow celebs and such along with family and friends. Go clean co is good for helping me with my cleaning skills and motivation. I’ve scaled back the a bit on the influencers.
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Post by klong11 on Mar 26, 2021 10:36:11 GMT -6
Watching more Ginny and Georgia. I think that just like how shows have warnings about sex, violence, nudity, and language, they should have warnings about uncomfortable secondhand embarrassment from weird public performance displays. Watching people sing or perform to others is so cringy. Her nerdy boyfriend makes me uncomfortable. omg, I have no idea how they won battle of the bands and his song was soooooooooooooooooooooooo bad.
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Post by vino on Mar 26, 2021 10:37:17 GMT -6
jewels your stream of thoughts would mimic mine. I hate hate hate having to overthink every single little thing. I thinks that’s one of the things I hate most about the Covid situation 😣. vino I’m sorry about your h, when is he leaving? 13.5 days.......not that I'm counting or anything
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Post by nam2013 on Mar 26, 2021 10:38:25 GMT -6
I have an Instagram account, but never post anything. I use it to drool on waldorf pages, some kids authors and a place we visited in Maine, seriously if you ever want to do a basic farm camping & outdoor shopping, let me know, they also had the best burgers and fried lobster things...
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Post by inthekitty on Mar 26, 2021 10:42:04 GMT -6
+1 to this. i fast forward that nonsense. + 2!!! Can’t stand people randomly singing. Say yes to the dress featured some random singers every now and then who will break out in song in the middle of the salon. I cannot watch that. This is one of the main reasons I can't stand going into a Cold Stone Creamery--they randomly break out in song. I can't stand watching videos of flash mob performances. They should be illegal.
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Post by wedding on Mar 26, 2021 11:01:32 GMT -6
nam2013 I like the Boston cheap idea. Maybe he can do a good New England menu and you can decorate the room in a Jew England theme or out pics from your last trip around. Something to take him back there. vino I hate when he’s a tool. Like you don’t have enough going on!How long is he gone for this time? jewels I’d be ok with all adults vaccinated. I would have the whole line of thinking you do though and you guys need to do what is comfortable. Is hesitate to push your H on it though since I wouldn’t want mine to push me.
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Post by wedding on Mar 26, 2021 11:03:01 GMT -6
+ 2!!! Can’t stand people randomly singing. Say yes to the dress featured some random singers every now and then who will break out in song in the middle of the salon. I cannot watch that. This is one of the main reasons I can't stand going into a Cold Stone Creamery--they randomly break out in song. I can't stand watching videos of flash mob performances. They should be illegal. I have always wanted to be in a flash mob. As a dancer of course.
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Post by nam2013 on Mar 26, 2021 11:04:37 GMT -6
wedding I’m over here dying because of the typo’s. But yes it would be a New England menu, lobster rolls included . I’m now looking at the baseballism site... Eta and I will order sam Adams lager .
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Post by jewels on Mar 26, 2021 11:04:40 GMT -6
nam2013 I like the Boston cheap idea. Maybe he can do a good New England menu and you can decorate the room in a Jew England theme or out pics from your last trip around. Something to take him back there. vino I hate when he’s a tool. Like you don’t have enough going on!How long is he gone for this time? jewels I’d be ok with all adults vaccinated. I would have the whole line of thinking you do though and you guys need to do what is comfortable. Is hesitate to push your H on it though since I wouldn’t want mine to push me. This is where I am at now. If he is not comfortable with it, then the answer is just no. But sometimes his thinking doesn't make sense (like he gets stuck on one thing and can't see past it), so I might try to just explore his thinking a bit to see if he can get around that. Then if he's still uncomfortable then the answer is nope.
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Post by wedding on Mar 26, 2021 11:05:12 GMT -6
My neighbor covers lunches and recess at the school and she just texted me that Cs cough is awful today. He was fine when he left but this cough is not going away. We just started Xyzal when Allegra changed nothing. Who knows what’s going on. I may ask for a chest X-ray just to make sure he is clear even though it is a clearing throat cough and not a chest cough.
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Post by vino on Mar 26, 2021 11:08:14 GMT -6
wedding 8 weeks this time! I'm ready to put on my secret sheets, have the whole bed to myself with no snoring. THE.BEST. There are definitely down sides to him going; like B cannot join baseball because of the time commitment and taking J along with me is not something I'm interested in doing, so that sucks, but its just another adaptation of/for military family life.
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Post by tgrimes on Mar 26, 2021 11:11:28 GMT -6
Done. A few people have popped up for me to follow, so as I see it, I'm requesting to follow. But I don't know how to search for people. I think my username on there is my firstnamelastname. :::checks my friend requests::: I do like jewels and follow celebs and such along with family and friends. Go clean co is good for helping me with my cleaning skills and motivation. I’ve scaled back the a bit on the influencers. How do I find you? Just put in your name or do i need to know your usesrname?
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Post by inthekitty on Mar 26, 2021 11:14:08 GMT -6
This is one of the main reasons I can't stand going into a Cold Stone Creamery--they randomly break out in song. I can't stand watching videos of flash mob performances. They should be illegal. I have always wanted to be in a flash mob. As a dancer of course. Ok, but if it were you it'd be amazing and not cringy.
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Post by tgrimes on Mar 26, 2021 11:19:02 GMT -6
The speech therapist that did H's articulation assessment a couple weeks ago called me. She wants him to be evaluated for a submucous cleft palate. She said air is escaping from somewhere when he speaks but it is not his nose. He's also very nasally and he's already had his adenoids removed, which is usually the cause of nasal speech. I have a call into the ENT's office but if that's what he has, I'm going to be pissed. Not only would that involve another surgery for him, but one of the symptoms of a submucous cleft palate is EAR INFECTIONS.
Usually, newborns have an oral exam soon after they're born. But a submucous cleft palate might not be found during this exam. Some are not diagnosed until a baby has feeding problems or a child is old enough to speak.
Doctors and parents might notice these symptoms in a child with a submucous cleft palate:
trouble feeding as an infant (taking a long time to feed, liquid coming through the nose, etc.) chronic ear infections and effusions (fluid buildup behind the eardrum) speech sound errors speech problems that make the child hard to understand hypernasality ("nasally sounding" speech) nasal air emissions (hearing air leak out the nose during speech) Hypernasality and nasal air emissions are signs of velopharyngeal (vee-low-fair-en-JEE-ul) dysfunction. This happens because the soft palate, the flexible part of the palate back near the throat, does not close tightly during speech, which lets air and sound escape through the nose.
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Post by vino on Mar 26, 2021 11:35:15 GMT -6
Oh my goodness tgrimes, you'd have every right to be pissed. My goodness, from what you've said here he checks off the boxes very clearly. On one had its good that someone mentioned this and it'll be looked at but on the other its like DAMNIT! I hope the ENT calls you back soon.
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Post by guster on Mar 26, 2021 11:37:54 GMT -6
Morning all. I’m watching Nashville and I’m secretly so jealous of that scarlet girl, I want go look like her, floaty dresses, gorgeous hair... and also I miss music.. I forgot about this show once it changed networks. I may have to look and see where I can watch it.
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Post by guster on Mar 26, 2021 11:41:00 GMT -6
Random question for those of you that have been super locked down this year. We have been as well, only seeing 2 families who we know their exposure. My nephew and his fiance want to fly in to visit us. They are both fully vaccinated (he's in his hospital rotation at medical school so he got it early), and by the time they got here, we would be too. But they are 24, living in a party city, probably going out with their friends a ton. They are also flying in, so airport/airplane, etc. They want to stay with us for the weekend. So all 4 adults would be vaccinated but obviously not the kids. MH and I have different opinions about if we are comfortable with it and I am interested in your opinions. I am still pretty strict about things so I would not get feel comfortable with it. The numbers in our area are good but not great, and although many are getting vaccinated, I’d still be hesitant.
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Post by guster on Mar 26, 2021 11:45:39 GMT -6
I’m sorry, vino! I know that life. That’s MH a few days before school starts in the fall and the weekend before any long break ends. It’s exhausting. I know that it’s temporary and that helps me. I’ve stopped trying to help while he’s in it and also trying to get ahead of it. For MH he’s working out his nerves about the transition so I just let him be.
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Post by lahdeedah on Mar 26, 2021 11:46:56 GMT -6
Hi. jewels That would be a tough one for anyone. I can see both sides, but I agree that if you both can’t agree on what’s right right now, then it probably shouldn’t happen. vino Sorry Yh is having that rough patch again. I almost put my good sheets on before Mh left and I was like, wait, let’s put these on instead. 😆 Sorry H, those are reserved for me since you are away for the time being. 😅 wedding We have a few people around at work and kids with coughs. The pollen is so thick here, so it’s probably just the habitual allergy cough, but I admit any time I hear a stranger coughing nearby I am side eyeing AF. Lol. Hope he gets some relief soon.
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Post by lahdeedah on Mar 26, 2021 11:47:56 GMT -6
:::checks my friend requests::: I do like jewels and follow celebs and such along with family and friends. Go clean co is good for helping me with my cleaning skills and motivation. I’ve scaled back the a bit on the influencers. How do I find you? Just put in your name or do i need to know your usesrname? I found you and followed you. Accept my friend request and follow me back woman 😁
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Post by nam2013 on Mar 26, 2021 11:48:42 GMT -6
Morning all. I’m watching Nashville and I’m secretly so jealous of that scarlet girl, I want go look like her, floaty dresses, gorgeous hair... and also I miss music.. I forgot about this show once it changed networks. I may have to look and see where I can watch it. Amazon prime .
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Post by nam2013 on Mar 26, 2021 11:50:32 GMT -6
tgrimes if it turns out to be that, you have every right to be very angry!!!
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Post by guster on Mar 26, 2021 11:52:52 GMT -6
Also, hi! The kids had school and I went to buy plastic eggs and candy for next week. I don’t have a menu yet. It’s just us but I need a plan. Probably brunch. MH and Charlie have spring break next week and I am making ab laundry list of house and yard tasks I want done.
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Post by guster on Mar 26, 2021 11:53:51 GMT -6
Oh my goodness, tgrimes. I’m glad someone has an idea but how come no one else mentioned this?!?
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