rosalind
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As You Like It
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Post by rosalind on Jan 13, 2021 18:26:54 GMT -6
Are those light up shoes?
ETA: question answered.
Your life is so cool.
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Pizzaslut
Ruby
*it’s a joke. get some hobbies.
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Post by Pizzaslut on Jan 13, 2021 18:32:37 GMT -6
I am in awe. Of the lifestyle, the cape, the boobs. All of it.
It honestly sounds like a lot of fun. I could see enjoying the parties but not the actual sex with other couples if that makes sense. But I would never ever have the confidence (or the body) to rock those outfits, lol.
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Post by becausewhy on Jan 13, 2021 18:33:25 GMT -6
Are those light up shoes? ETA: question answered. Your life is so cool. It’s fun. Wish the clubs and resorts were open now-a-days and life could go back to normal. By the time that’ll happen my oldest might have already moved out and we’ll be stuck at home with no fun nightlife.
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Post by Hotcoconuts82 on Jan 13, 2021 18:33:52 GMT -6
I'm sitting here in a robe and pj's on a Saturday night and your dressed up like adult life barbie. Just a little jealous
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Post by becausewhy on Jan 13, 2021 18:34:40 GMT -6
willow, I purchased the boobs but tried to go for a more natural look vs the porn look.
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Post by becausewhy on Jan 13, 2021 18:37:26 GMT -6
So my kid posted pics of herself at a rave and I kinda was *gasp* because the kid dresses like I do when I go to my parties. I didn’t know how to feel about that but she’s grown and doesn’t realize she’s just like her mom.
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Post by Wtfshouldmynamebe on Jan 13, 2021 18:38:27 GMT -6
And here I was hiding in the impeachment thread all day.
Does everyone have a body like you? Or are there some more chubby swingers?
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Post by becausewhy on Jan 13, 2021 18:38:42 GMT -6
I am in awe. Of the lifestyle, the cape, the boobs. All of it. It honestly sounds like a lot of fun. I could see enjoying the parties but not the actual sex with other couples if that makes sense. But I would never ever have the confidence (or the body) to rock those outfits, lol. I enjoy the parties so much more than the sex aspect. I’m not looking to hook up with anyone but if stars align it’s a good time. One thing about the confidence, there are women of every shape and size wearing an array of whatever makes them feel sexy. Some start off fully clothed and a few months down the road they start feeling confident enough to wear less.
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Post by wildflower on Jan 13, 2021 18:43:03 GMT -6
Here's my question... I found this t-shirt at Target with tiny embroidered pineapples on it. I thought it was cute, and it was $4. Then, months later, someone references the pineapples in a "do you know what that means?" Sort of way.
No, no I did not. This person was not suggesting anything, more just laughing at my shirt.
So... If you saw a mom in jean shorts chasing two kids at the park, and her t-shirt not only had snot on it, but also tiny pineapples... Would you think I'm trying to advertise? (Because I am not.)
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Post by becausewhy on Jan 13, 2021 18:44:58 GMT -6
And here I was hiding in the impeachment thread all day. Does everyone have a body like you? Or are there some more chubby swingers? It’s a wide spectrum of people. I did lose a lot of weight (55lbs) before discovering this lifestyle and when I started I was about 20lbs lighter than I am now. I have seen people with full body lifts (the scars are visible when they are ass naked) who are rocking their bodies. It really is all over the board and you can be as covered or as naked (depending on what the venue allows) as you want.
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Post by becausewhy on Jan 13, 2021 18:46:28 GMT -6
Here's my question... I found this t-shirt at Target with tiny embroidered pineapples on it. I thought it was cute, and it was $4. Then, months later, someone references the pineapples in a "do you know what that means?" Sort of way. No, no I did not. This person was not suggesting anything, more just laughing at my shirt. So... If you saw a mom in jean shorts chasing two kids at the park, and her t-shirt not only had snot on it, but also tiny pineapples... Would you think I'm trying to advertise? (Because I am not.) Pineapples are the rage right now so I would think nothing of it if you were running around with your kids. If you were in Vegas and wore that I might wonder if you were or weren’t.
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beatch
Amethyst
My ass is self-sufficient
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Post by beatch on Jan 13, 2021 18:48:30 GMT -6
Thanks for this! My question is how do you like, shut it down if your husband or you isn't feeling it during the getting to know you? Do you just say "no thank you" and then get snacks or a drink? Exactly. We used to meet people for dinner or drinks but that took a lot of time and effort and I always felt bad when I wasn’t interested in more. It felt like a lot of pressure and work. It morphed into meeting people when we were at the parties and talking. Some people will be very bold and ask straight up but usually interested couples would start by asking what you are into. H defers to me whenever they ask if we are interested in them and if I’m not I stick to we don’t play often. Okay, now I need to know the answer to this. You don't have to answer specifically for you, but what are they asking here? I assume what you're into sexually?
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Post by becausewhy on Jan 13, 2021 18:49:04 GMT -6
So it's not weird that the women are close to naked and the guys are fully dressed? It’s not weird. Some guys will take of shirts or take it further like H does but the majority are not half naked.
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Post by icedcoffee on Jan 13, 2021 18:49:20 GMT -6
I'm late but I just read through everything. Y'all are hot AF!!!
Thanks for being so open and sharing. This was an enjoyable read. I think all my questions have been asked and answered though 🤔
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Post by icedcoffee on Jan 13, 2021 18:51:05 GMT -6
Oh I have a question. I apologize if I read too quick and you answered.
There are designated rooms if anyone decides to hook up there right? Are those rooms open like if a couple was just interested in watching but not joining, or is there a way to indicate if you (general you) are okay with others watching or not?
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Post by becausewhy on Jan 13, 2021 18:53:17 GMT -6
Exactly. We used to meet people for dinner or drinks but that took a lot of time and effort and I always felt bad when I wasn’t interested in more. It felt like a lot of pressure and work. It morphed into meeting people when we were at the parties and talking. Some people will be very bold and ask straight up but usually interested couples would start by asking what you are into. H defers to me whenever they ask if we are interested in them and if I’m not I stick to we don’t play often. Okay, now I need to know the answer to this. You don't have to answer specifically for you, but what are they asking here? I assume what you're into sexually? They want to know what we are comfortable doing as a couple. Do we do full swap (sex with each others partners), soft swap (play (mess around) but no intercourse and this can be anything based on the couples rules), girls only, one guy or girl watches. They want to know what the situation would be if we were all interested and everyone’s comfort level. Not everyone full swaps.
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willow
Ruby
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Post by willow on Jan 13, 2021 18:53:25 GMT -6
Are you ever afraid you’ll like someone’s sex better than your H? I feel like that is where my jealousy/paranoia would come in — worrying that my H would be with someone who then he enjoyed more than me.
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Post by microworm on Jan 13, 2021 18:54:30 GMT -6
Here's my question... I found this t-shirt at Target with tiny embroidered pineapples on it. I thought it was cute, and it was $4. Then, months later, someone references the pineapples in a "do you know what that means?" Sort of way. No, no I did not. This person was not suggesting anything, more just laughing at my shirt. So... If you saw a mom in jean shorts chasing two kids at the park, and her t-shirt not only had snot on it, but also tiny pineapples... Would you think I'm trying to advertise? (Because I am not.) It might be the pot but I'm crying
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Post by wildflower on Jan 13, 2021 18:55:42 GMT -6
Here's my question... I found this t-shirt at Target with tiny embroidered pineapples on it. I thought it was cute, and it was $4. Then, months later, someone references the pineapples in a "do you know what that means?" Sort of way. No, no I did not. This person was not suggesting anything, more just laughing at my shirt. So... If you saw a mom in jean shorts chasing two kids at the park, and her t-shirt not only had snot on it, but also tiny pineapples... Would you think I'm trying to advertise? (Because I am not.) Pineapples are the rage right now so I would think nothing of it if you were running around with your kids. If you were in Vegas and wore that I might wonder if you were or weren’t. Good to know. I'll keep the shirt in rotation for this summer!
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Post by Wtfshouldmynamebe on Jan 13, 2021 18:55:53 GMT -6
Have you ever learned something from a swap that you brought home to the bedroom? Like a new move.
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Post by Hotcoconuts82 on Jan 13, 2021 18:56:15 GMT -6
Here's my question... I found this t-shirt at Target with tiny embroidered pineapples on it. I thought it was cute, and it was $4. Then, months later, someone references the pineapples in a "do you know what that means?" Sort of way. No, no I did not. This person was not suggesting anything, more just laughing at my shirt. So... If you saw a mom in jean shorts chasing two kids at the park, and her t-shirt not only had snot on it, but also tiny pineapples... Would you think I'm trying to advertise? (Because I am not.) I'm dying 🤣🤣/mentally reviewing all my shirts.
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Post by becausewhy on Jan 13, 2021 18:56:17 GMT -6
Oh I have a question. I apologize if I read too quick and you answered. There are designated rooms if anyone decides to hook up there right? Are those rooms open like if a couple was just interested in watching but not joining, or is there a way to indicate if you (general you) are okay with others watching or not? This is venue and party specific. The club we like to go to has private and open areas. Some places it’s all open. If you are in the open space that’s a pass for others to watch. Not join, watch. People are very respectful of the rules and boundaries. You’ll get kicked out if you disrespect the rules or anyone. If someone enters an occupied private space oh, that’s a no no. We’ve had some peepers and they better expect to get kicked in the face by me. You don’t break the rules.
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Post by microworm on Jan 13, 2021 19:03:50 GMT -6
How old were you and YH when you started? How many kids and how old are they?
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Post by becausewhy on Jan 13, 2021 19:06:28 GMT -6
Are you ever afraid you’ll like someone’s sex better than your H? I feel like that is where my jealousy/paranoia would come in — worrying that my H would be with someone who then he enjoyed more than me. That’s a common concern but it’s not one that crosses my mind anymore. Him and I have a connection that makes our sex amazing. He doesn’t have that connection with that woman so it may be great but it’s not what we have. It’s something different. I am terrible at explaining things.
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Post by becausewhy on Jan 13, 2021 19:07:25 GMT -6
Pineapples are the rage right now so I would think nothing of it if you were running around with your kids. If you were in Vegas and wore that I might wonder if you were or weren’t. Good to know. I'll keep the shirt in rotation for this summer! Unless the pineapples are upside down......
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Post by becausewhy on Jan 13, 2021 19:09:26 GMT -6
Have you ever learned something from a swap that you brought home to the bedroom? Like a new move. Yes or even having watched another couple.
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willow
Ruby
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Post by willow on Jan 13, 2021 19:09:29 GMT -6
Are you ever afraid you’ll like someone’s sex better than your H? I feel like that is where my jealousy/paranoia would come in — worrying that my H would be with someone who then he enjoyed more than me. That’s a common concern but it’s not one that crosses my mind anymore. Him and I have a connection that makes our sex amazing. He doesn’t have that connection with that woman so it may be great but it’s not what we have. It’s something different. I am terrible at explaining things. No I get it! I feel the same with my H, that the emotional connection makes it even better and it’s unique. I just wasn’t sure how common of a concern it is.
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Post by miawallace on Jan 13, 2021 19:13:56 GMT -6
I’m only here because my H and I have seriously considered swinging in the future.
A bit of context: He was in an open relationship when we met. It’s not swinging per se, but he did engage in couple swaps, orgies, and what not. He Became monogamous with me. Would like to stay monogamous, but would like to revisit stuff once I’m not pregnant, kids are a bit older, and if I’m still interested. He’s more aware on the conversations that need to happen between us and other parties. He’s very technical and since I’m a clown wants to make sure I’m not just saying I am interested. Anyway. TMI. But just here taking notes.
We are both open to whomever if the possibility hits in the future. We both agree as long as we are vibing and attracted to them we are good to go.
Also 🙈
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Post by becausewhy on Jan 13, 2021 19:16:44 GMT -6
How old were you and YH when you started? How many kids and how old are they? I was 38 and am now boarding on 41 in a few weeks. H is two years younger. We have two kids: 19 & 8
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Post by Deleted on Jan 13, 2021 19:17:16 GMT -6
And here I was hiding in the impeachment thread all day. Does everyone have a body like you? Or are there some more chubby swingers? It’s a wide spectrum of people. I did lose a lot of weight (55lbs) before discovering this lifestyle and when I started I was about 20lbs lighter than I am now. I have seen people with full body lifts (the scars are visible when they are ass naked) who are rocking their bodies. It really is all over the board and you can be as covered or as naked (depending on what the venue allows) as you want. So there are fat people too? I second this question because this seems up my alley but I am.. rotund.
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