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Post by mothafuckinteatime on Jan 13, 2021 16:55:20 GMT -6
Love. It. All.
I would do this (once I’m done making babies) but H is very vanilla and I can’t see being down for it. Maybe in 10-15 years. 😂
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Post by becausewhy on Jan 13, 2021 16:56:57 GMT -6
Love. It. All. I would do this (once I’m done making babies) but H is very vanilla and I can’t see being down for it. Maybe in 10-15 years. 😂 My H grew up Mormon as did some of our friends who also turned. These people were as vanilla as you can get and didn’t even drink until very recently. Then they pull this on me and you can imagine how shook I was. I thank them everyday for introducing us to it though.
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Post by theoriginalbean on Jan 13, 2021 17:05:19 GMT -6
becausewhy I don't even know how I came across this post, but my grandparents were swingers and my parents dabbled, so feel free to reach out if you have any questions about things from your kids' perspective 😂 My grandparents actually owned and ran a club, we had birthday parties and family dinners and ran around there all the time after school and holy shit if you could have seen my teenage face when I realized what really went on there at night 🤣
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Post by microworm on Jan 13, 2021 17:06:32 GMT -6
You better not poof this thread until I have a chance to dig in..pinky swear?
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Post by bobyn on Jan 13, 2021 17:09:45 GMT -6
becausewhy, thank you for sharing with us! You and your H look incredible and I'm so glad you've found something exciting that works for both of you.
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Post by donnameagle on Jan 13, 2021 17:10:24 GMT -6
good question - no I really don’t think so. Maybe made a joke here or there. They talk about it with me and amongst themselves I think. But not cause they don’t want to know; more of a respect thing? Back when FIL was living in California before moving to FL (and before H was born) they were biggg time parties and FIL was a Calvin Klein underwear model. It’s almost unspoken in their house that the man has lived 🤣
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Post by jorkzy on Jan 13, 2021 17:10:33 GMT -6
Oh hush your face is for sure hot too. Why thank you. I did brave it and posted my face that one time. I mean - your can face swap and look like Mimi and /or JLo. So it’s pretty safe to say your hotness is proven.
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Post by donnameagle on Jan 13, 2021 17:15:40 GMT -6
Ooh! I have two new questions :
Have you ever felt unsafe in any of these situations?
What do you think will happen if one of you wants to stop and the other doesn’t?
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Post by donnameagle on Jan 13, 2021 17:22:03 GMT -6
I’ll admit it — I thought there’d be more clothes when you said “outfit.” But, you know, I’m basically an old Hapsburg. see I was opposite - I was expecting the actual pasties!
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Post by beatch on Jan 13, 2021 17:23:53 GMT -6
Do people ever wear normal(ish) clothes to these things? Don't you get cold? 😂
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Post by Hotcoconuts82 on Jan 13, 2021 17:30:24 GMT -6
Do people ever wear normal(ish) clothes to these things? Don't you get cold? 😂 I did notice the guy in the back of the one pic with jeans and long sleeves. Was he in the wrong place?
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Post by hawkward on Jan 13, 2021 17:41:56 GMT -6
It’s interesting because we know a swinger couple IRL and they were Mormon as well. We knew them for a really long time before we found out. It was funny because they were absolutely the last people we expected it from.
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Post by becausewhy on Jan 13, 2021 17:53:02 GMT -6
You better not poof this thread until I have a chance to dig in..pinky swear? Swear. Cross my heart.
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Post by becausewhy on Jan 13, 2021 17:54:45 GMT -6
becausewhy I don't even know how I came across this post, but my grandparents were swingers and my parents dabbled, so feel free to reach out if you have any questions about things from your kids' perspective 😂 My grandparents actually owned and ran a club, we had birthday parties and family dinners and ran around there all the time after school and holy shit if you could have seen my teenage face when I realized what really went on there at night 🤣 I truly cannot imagine being a kid that found this info out about my parents AND grandparents! I ask the people of older kids if they know and I always wonder if the much older crowd keeps their secret hush or if their kids and grandkids know. I’m such a curious person.
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Post by beatch on Jan 13, 2021 17:55:44 GMT -6
Do people ever wear normal(ish) clothes to these things? Don't you get cold? 😂 The guy in jeans in the background of one of the pics made me laugh. That's why I asked! I have to admit, the hot underwear with shoes and socks is kind of making me laugh too. I don't think I'm mature enough for this scene!
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beatch
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Post by beatch on Jan 13, 2021 17:56:47 GMT -6
Is there a coat/clothes check?
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Post by rosalind on Jan 13, 2021 17:57:20 GMT -6
Oh. So you’re hot. Like. HOT. I guess it is a driver to do a few more crunches.
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Post by becausewhy on Jan 13, 2021 18:00:34 GMT -6
Usually H is dressed like a normal dude. Most guys are wearing some type of collared shirt and slacks or jeans.
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Post by beatch on Jan 13, 2021 18:03:15 GMT -6
Well damn you two are smoking! Thanks for the AMA. Also your cape is rad!
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Post by ArielMermaid on Jan 13, 2021 18:04:40 GMT -6
I want that cape.
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Post by Hotcoconuts82 on Jan 13, 2021 18:04:59 GMT -6
So it's not weird that the women are close to naked and the guys are fully dressed?
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Post by willow on Jan 13, 2021 18:04:59 GMT -6
I want my boobs to look like yours.
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Post by becausewhy on Jan 13, 2021 18:08:28 GMT -6
donnameagle you keep dropping tidbits that I want to know more about!!
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Post by becausewhy on Jan 13, 2021 18:09:29 GMT -6
Thank you @jorzky! I still giggle about that Mariah pic.
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Post by becausewhy on Jan 13, 2021 18:13:15 GMT -6
Ooh! I have two new questions : Have you ever felt unsafe in any of these situations? What do you think will happen if one of you wants to stop and the other doesn’t? I have never felt unsafe. Uncomfortable, yes when someone may be a little to aggressive like touching without permission or they keep hounding you. Single guys at events aren’t our thing either. I really don’t know what will happen if either wants to stop. I think we’d both be OK not doing anything but we really like the party scene and the people so we would likely still be involved that way but not be with anyone else.
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Post by becausewhy on Jan 13, 2021 18:14:43 GMT -6
Do people ever wear normal(ish) clothes to these things? Don't you get cold? 😂 Oh yes! Plenty of people do. If I’m not familiar with a venue or location I will wear a dress but I may have a change of clothes or something under just in case.
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Post by microworm on Jan 13, 2021 18:15:02 GMT -6
So it's not weird that the women are close to naked and the guys are fully dressed? Jeans hide the boners. Not like hiding boners is the goal in this case.
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Post by becausewhy on Jan 13, 2021 18:15:54 GMT -6
I’ll admit it — I thought there’d be more clothes when you said “outfit.” But, you know, I’m basically an old Hapsburg. see I was opposite - I was expecting the actual pasties! I have those pics as well.
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Post by microworm on Jan 13, 2021 18:16:32 GMT -6
I panicked because I quickly glimpsed at my post after posting and saw "jesus" instead of "jeans."
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Post by becausewhy on Jan 13, 2021 18:24:41 GMT -6
Cape is from Amazon. It’s an LED on and my shoes light up to the beat of the music. Had to cover the nip.
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