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Sept 19, 2020 7:36:29 GMT -6
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Post by canteverremember on Sept 19, 2020 7:36:29 GMT -6
I was married at 24. My H still laments not doing it sooner. Me too but dh was 33 so I was like well easy for you to say since you got to have much more of a pre married life than I did.
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Eagles
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Sept 19, 2020 7:55:31 GMT -6
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Post by Eagles on Sept 19, 2020 7:55:31 GMT -6
I usually asked when was the last time you shit? 🤷🏻♀️ Ma, go find your own message board!
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Sept 19, 2020 8:36:09 GMT -6
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Post by angelashly on Sept 19, 2020 8:36:09 GMT -6
I'm the opposite. I started having kids at 24 but didn't get married til I was 30 🤣 18 met 26 baby 36 married I will encourage my kid to wait for 30
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AmyG
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Sept 19, 2020 12:26:23 GMT -6
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Post by AmyG on Sept 19, 2020 12:26:23 GMT -6
I'm the opposite. I started having kids at 24 but didn't get married til I was 30 🤣 18 met 26 baby 36 married I will encourage my kid to wait for 30 Wait for 30 for which one of those? Or all 3?
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Sept 19, 2020 14:27:30 GMT -6
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Post by angelashly on Sept 19, 2020 14:27:30 GMT -6
18 met 26 baby 36 married I will encourage my kid to wait for 30 Wait for 30 for which one of those? Or all 3? I prefer all 3 but I’ll settle for 2 and 3
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McBenny
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Sept 19, 2020 15:02:39 GMT -6
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Post by McBenny on Sept 19, 2020 15:02:39 GMT -6
then it would be a biography. No.It would be an autobiography true. I shouldn't roll over and post.
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Sept 19, 2020 16:01:06 GMT -6
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Post by blurnette989 on Sept 19, 2020 16:01:06 GMT -6
Another confession: some days I miss Brooklyn so much it hurts. But Brooklyn is not good for my marriage. I know in my hearts moving back would be the end of us. I love Brooklyn so much. There are places that you live that are just home. As they are imperfections and all. I left Brooklyn broke and depressed. I applied for so many random ass jobs to get back there. But I also think had I stayed in Brooklyn I would probably not be alive today. It's hard to love a place so much, and not be able to be happy there too.
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Post by STP on Sept 19, 2020 17:16:12 GMT -6
Eh.
I’ll hope I raised them to be logical and wise, and if they make a misstep in matrimony, there’s no reason that need be the worst thing that ever happened.
I caution against early parenthood, ideally, but again. Once they reach maturity, I’m just here to support. And hope we did an okay job that will lead them through whatever comes.
If my parents had cautioned me not to marry H, a) I wouldn’t have listened and b) they would have been wrong. Instead they accepted and celebrated, and if it had indeed been a wrong turn, they would have been there while that worked itself out.
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Sept 19, 2020 17:26:59 GMT -6
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Post by Deleted on Sept 19, 2020 17:26:59 GMT -6
Eh. I’ll hope I raised them to be logical and wise, and if they make a misstep in matrimony, there’s no reason that need be the worst thing that ever happened. I caution against early parenthood, ideally, but again. Once they reach maturity, I’m just here to support. And hope we did an okay job that will lead them through whatever comes. If my parents had cautioned me not to marry H, a) I wouldn’t have listened and b) they would have been wrong. Instead they accepted and celebrated, and if it had indeed been a wrong turn, they would have been there while that worked itself out. You said what I was thinking. If it doesn't work, we learn from mistakes. 🤷♀️
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Sept 19, 2020 19:51:54 GMT -6
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Post by willow on Sept 19, 2020 19:51:54 GMT -6
Eh. I’ll hope I raised them to be logical and wise, and if they make a misstep in matrimony, there’s no reason that need be the worst thing that ever happened. I caution against early parenthood, ideally, but again. Once they reach maturity, I’m just here to support. And hope we did an okay job that will lead them through whatever comes. If my parents had cautioned me not to marry H, a) I wouldn’t have listened and b) they would have been wrong. Instead they accepted and celebrated, and if it had indeed been a wrong turn, they would have been there while that worked itself out. Yeah I don’t plan on trying too hard to keep them from those things if they want them. I hope like you that I can raise them to be mature. My parents celebrated and embraced my young marriage and were also there for me when things were really hard during that marriage without judgment and I appreciate that now.
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dc2london
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Post by dc2london on Sept 21, 2020 13:14:33 GMT -6
Girl my mom is one of those peoples. Whenever I’m down my mom says “go stand outside in the sun and let the sun burn away your sads” honest to goodness it works. The sun provides so much healing. Lol have you seen that mom meme where the girl says I’m sad and the mom says go sit on the steps and eat a banana My mother's solution to absolutely everything was acetaminophen.
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