chrisy01
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Post by chrisy01 on Sept 18, 2020 21:53:47 GMT -6
[mention]mwhip [/mention] that’s heartbreaking. I just want to give her a hug
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chrisy01
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Post by chrisy01 on Sept 18, 2020 22:00:22 GMT -6
Rough day at work and home.
A contract finally got signed and I got stuck opening the POs for them. They were the largest I’ve ever opened and they were finally created this morning so all my worries about that are gone. It would have majorly sucked if I did something wrong and had to resubmit to our new president for approval.
L had a rough day at school. He lost more points then he earned. He said he did really well on his tests but I haven’t gotten anything back from the teacher so we shall see. I’m annoyed that we didn’t get next weeks words. I was hoping to make flash cards and things for L.
Also C and I had the CTJ talk (again) about him helping out around the house. He gets 2 days off usually with either 1 kid or none and he gets nothing done. It’s so frustrating. He slept in this morning and only took out 1 trash can to the bin outside. He said it was either that or L would be late to school. It just sucks. I feel like I do 95% of the stuff around the house and 90% of the stuff for the kids.
Sorry that was a lot...
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Post by peachsmama on Sept 18, 2020 22:19:14 GMT -6
Is Call the Midwife good? I need a show and saw it has 9 seasons so I thought why not. The first two episodes were a bit slow so I wasn’t sure if I should trudge on. I loved it! +1
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Post by inthekitty on Sept 18, 2020 22:56:55 GMT -6
I'm sorry it's been rough chrisy01. Grr to YH. Men are so frustrating.
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nam2013
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Post by nam2013 on Sept 18, 2020 23:52:44 GMT -6
mwhip poor girl, I’m so sorry. Hopefully they can figure out a treatment plan that works well. chrisy01 well that sucks. Any chance you (as in the both of you) can make a list with chores that need to be done every week and just divvy up chores. It sometimes helps to visualise what needs to be done.
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Post by nam2013 on Sept 18, 2020 23:55:31 GMT -6
Guys... Ruth bader Ginsburg died 😔.
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chrisy01
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Post by chrisy01 on Sept 19, 2020 0:45:19 GMT -6
mwhip poor girl, I’m so sorry. Hopefully they can figure out a treatment plan that works well. chrisy01 well that sucks. Any chance you (as in the both of you) can make a list with chores that need to be done every week and just divvy up chores. It sometimes helps to visualise what needs to be done. We have done that. He just doesn’t see them as a priority.
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Post by chrisy01 on Sept 19, 2020 0:49:12 GMT -6
4.8 earthquake about 14 miles from me just happened a few minutes ago. It woke up me and Dexter. Both kids slept right brought it. Earthquakes don’t usually bother me but I was having a crazy dream when it happened and spooked me a little bit more. Plus it felt like it was going on forever.
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Post by nam2013 on Sept 19, 2020 1:32:04 GMT -6
chrisy01 scary! Hope you can catch some sleep...
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Post by tgrimes on Sept 19, 2020 6:14:30 GMT -6
chrisy01 Yikes about the earthquake. They scare the crap out of me. I hope C listens to what you said and starts helping more.
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Post by wineallthetime on Sept 19, 2020 6:58:22 GMT -6
chrisy01, sorry things are rough with C and his helping around the house. Also, the earthquake! Yikes!
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Post by peachsmama on Sept 19, 2020 7:10:09 GMT -6
Guys... Ruth bader Ginsburg died 😔. We're screwed. He's already named like 40 HORRIBLE people he will nominate.
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Post by nam2013 on Sept 19, 2020 7:14:18 GMT -6
Guys... Ruth bader Ginsburg died 😔. We're screwed. He's already named like 40 HORRIBLE people he will nominate. I am very very afraid of this...
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Post by guster on Sept 19, 2020 7:35:59 GMT -6
chrisy01, i’m sorry for the rough day but I’m glad the earthquake didn’t cause any damage.
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Post by trtlcrzy on Sept 19, 2020 8:12:27 GMT -6
Hopefully I can remember everything I wanted to say. I camped a lot growing up, but we had a pop-up camper for the majority of it. I like the actual act of camping but I don’t want to do any of the set up and tear down. Plus you have to buy basically a second kitchen and if you forget something important you’re screwed. I’d much rather stay in a nice lake house or furnished cabin. Or just do a day trip to hang out in the outdoors. tgrimes I hope H is feeling better quickly. mwhip I hope you can get the meds figured out quickly so E can get back to doing normal kid things chrisy01 I’m sorry you are doing everything with little help. I hope he actually listens and starts helping a lot more. nam2013 I’m sorry A is having a hard transition. I hope he makes some new friends soon.
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Post by wedding on Sept 19, 2020 10:54:10 GMT -6
I’m sorry chrisy01. I feel like most of us have to have these repeated CTJ talks with our Hs. I don’t think they get the weight of the mental load and how these little things like the trash really do have an impact. I hope he listens and things get better.
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