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Post by lostinfaith225 on Sept 10, 2020 16:24:12 GMT -6
Did anyone immediately wonder if Bennett had covid when he was sick and of course no one new?Lol
My mind goes there now.
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Post by angelashly on Sept 10, 2020 16:38:18 GMT -6
But Karen has sad she wanted him to be the one to make the moves too, but I haven't watched last nights either
His move was not the right one. This makes me sad
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Post by bunnyfungo on Sept 10, 2020 20:17:26 GMT -6
Finally Henry smiled! I'm glad they were able to talk finally, but...idk...still seems forced. I didn't like the way Miles approached Karen about intimacy. It was too aggressive and he needs to just let things happen naturally. Dude, she just let you kiss her for the first time, you can't just assume she's ready to get naked now. Unfortunately, I see more of a friendship vibe from Amelia and Bennett. It could just be that they don't show a lot of affection on screen, but off camera they do. Just from what I'm seeing it's like 2 buddies hanging out. With Amelia and Bennett, we know they had sex though. So I feel like they just aren’t PDA/over cuddly people. Or it’s editing. Who knows. I was also happy to see Henry smiling about Christina saying she was feeling good about their relationship. Their golf and dance dates were cute but they’re like 3 weeks in and that’s where I would expect them to be quite awhile ago. I’m not sure there’s enough time before decision day to really give them a chance. I feel conflicted about the Miles and Karen thing. I think he thought he was joking or making it more comfortable to talk about sex but it missed the mark and she was obviously upset by it. But honestly, I could really only discern that from the video diary with her, not from the moment itself. I feel like Miles is kind of stuck. First he was being too respectful and not initiating, now he’s gone too far. I know I would be frustrated if I was him. Especially after her friend basically told him to take charge already.
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Post by budders on Sept 10, 2020 20:40:04 GMT -6
Did anyone immediately wonder if Bennett had covid when he was sick and of course no one new?Lol My mind goes there now. I thought the same thing!
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Post by icedcoffee on Sept 12, 2020 19:50:11 GMT -6
Did anyone immediately wonder if Bennett had covid when he was sick and of course no one new?Lol My mind goes there now. Its weird seeing people interact in public without masks lol
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Post by icedcoffee on Sept 12, 2020 21:21:17 GMT -6
I finally caught up. Was the move Miles made writing sex on the calendar?
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Post by icedcoffee on Sept 12, 2020 21:23:29 GMT -6
maybe unpopular but I actually like Christina and Henry together. I think if they can open up they can be good for each other. It seems like she shuts down when she has to play stuff out for the cameras. Like she got annoyed she had to pick from a list a prechosen game for their get together. And then seemed to get annoyed she had to try to carry on a convo for the camera. I wonder what it's like when cameras aren't there, if it's easier for both of them.
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Post by budders on Sept 12, 2020 21:26:46 GMT -6
Did anyone immediately wonder if Bennett had covid when he was sick and of course no one new?Lol My mind goes there now. Its weird seeing people interact in public without masks lol My 5 yo comments on this all the time when we watch non-cartoon shows. "Why aren't they wearing masks? You're not supposed to get that close to people".
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Post by icedcoffee on Sept 12, 2020 21:35:10 GMT -6
When they were in the grocery store talking about him being honest and straightforward with his emotions I swore I heard Karen say "and thats a turn off". He made a face when she said it too
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Post by budders on Sept 12, 2020 21:35:15 GMT -6
Yeah, putting sex on the calendar was not wise, and it got worse when he didn't read her reaction well and kept pushing forward with it. I'm sure he was frustrated that she wasn't really talking about it, but she seems very reserved and private to me. I know they prompt them to have that discussion for the cameras, but I feel like Karen might have been more open and a part of the convo if they were alone. I know they signed up for a show about marriage and sex is part of it, but I would rather die than talk about sex with a man I still barely know in front of a bunch of cameras and producers. I'm not sure I'd even feel comfortable talking about sex with my husband and we've been together 13 years.
I will do a complete 180 on my former opinion of Henry and Christina and say that I could see them doing well off-camera too. If they give each other a chance beyond the end of the show, they could get a better sense of their compatibility. I also think that Bennett and Amelia likely have more physical chemistry than what we see. They may just not be very touchy-feely people, especially when they're being filmed.
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Post by angelashly on Sept 14, 2020 10:35:33 GMT -6
maybe unpopular but I actually like Christina and Henry together. I think if they can open up they can be good for each other. It seems like she shuts down when she has to play stuff out for the cameras. Like she got annoyed she had to pick from a list a prechosen game for their get together. And then seemed to get annoyed she had to try to carry on a convo for the camera. I wonder what it's like when cameras aren't there, if it's easier for both of them. I agree with this
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Post by angelashly on Sept 14, 2020 10:38:45 GMT -6
When they were in the grocery store talking about him being honest and straightforward with his emotions I swore I heard Karen say "and thats a turn off". He made a face when she said it too Yes Let us not forget she didn’t like him before she married him by his picture/social media I do think it was wrong of him to put it on the calendar for sure but he was trying to have a conversation and she kept shooting him down. She has said over and over he needs to say what he needs from her too but he does and she closes it down each tome ( like with the compliments and she was all I don’t do that)
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Post by icedcoffee on Sept 14, 2020 12:35:28 GMT -6
When they were in the grocery store talking about him being honest and straightforward with his emotions I swore I heard Karen say "and thats a turn off". He made a face when she said it too Yes Let us not forget she didn’t like him before she married him by his picture/social media I do think it was wrong of him to put it on the calendar for sure but he was trying to have a conversation and she kept shooting him down. She has said over and over he needs to say what he needs from her too but he does and she closes it down each tome ( like with the compliments and she was all I don’t do that) Yeah. Im not scandalized by what he did. I read here before watching and was waiting for him to grab her and kiss her or do something like that. She keeps making it seem like she wants an asshole, and he made an asshole move 🤷♀️ I think she just doesn't want to try to make it work. Maybe she legit doesn't like him or is just too scared of getting hurt again, idk. But I feel bad for him at this point
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Post by angelashly on Sept 14, 2020 14:09:50 GMT -6
Yes Let us not forget she didn’t like him before she married him by his picture/social media I do think it was wrong of him to put it on the calendar for sure but he was trying to have a conversation and she kept shooting him down. She has said over and over he needs to say what he needs from her too but he does and she closes it down each tome ( like with the compliments and she was all I don’t do that) Yeah. Im not scandalized by what he did. I read here before watching and was waiting for him to grab her and kiss her or do something like that. She keeps making it seem like she wants an asshole, and he made an asshole move 🤷♀️ I think she just doesn't want to try to make it work. Maybe she legit doesn't like him or is just too scared of getting hurt again, idk. But I feel bad for him at this point I think it is a little bit of both she doesn't like him (or thinks she doesn't) and doesn't want to get hurt, but like why sign up then
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Post by icedcoffee on Sept 14, 2020 14:15:44 GMT -6
Yeah. Im not scandalized by what he did. I read here before watching and was waiting for him to grab her and kiss her or do something like that. She keeps making it seem like she wants an asshole, and he made an asshole move 🤷♀️ I think she just doesn't want to try to make it work. Maybe she legit doesn't like him or is just too scared of getting hurt again, idk. But I feel bad for him at this point I think it is a little bit of both she doesn't like him (or thinks she doesn't) and doesn't want to get hurt, but like why sign up then She seems to be so hung up on his age too. I never really dated younger guys either but cmon. Hes genuinely trying and he doesn't seem immature. She's not reciprocating in any way
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Post by angelashly on Sept 14, 2020 14:59:06 GMT -6
I think it is a little bit of both she doesn't like him (or thinks she doesn't) and doesn't want to get hurt, but like why sign up then She seems to be so hung up on his age too. I never really dated younger guys either but cmon. Hes genuinely trying and he doesn't seem immature. She's not reciprocating in any way I agree unless they are editing stuff out he has seemed respectful of her up until the calendar incident
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Post by klong11 on Sept 14, 2020 17:39:13 GMT -6
Dude, Karen got the best looking and nicest guy this season. She needs to open her eyes.
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Post by icedcoffee on Sept 15, 2020 14:07:21 GMT -6
Dude, Karen got the best looking and nicest guy this season. She needs to open her eyes. 💯
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Post by angelashly on Sept 18, 2020 13:49:32 GMT -6
Anyone watch this week? I have it on now
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Post by angelashly on Sept 26, 2020 17:24:35 GMT -6
Who watched this week?
I liked miles and Karen’s talk
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Post by budders on Sept 26, 2020 21:33:25 GMT -6
Who watched this week? I liked miles and Karen’s talk I did too! I think they are figuring things out. I really felt for Christina, she was so heartbroken by Henry's dealbreaker convo. She then quickly nosedived again by not supporting Henry's past experiences when he was vulnerable with her. Their relationship is a complete mess.
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Post by Carmichael on Sept 27, 2020 6:40:52 GMT -6
I am glad Karen and Miles are figuring it out.
Henry and Christina - Yikes! I don’t think they are going to make it. Every time It looks like they have made some strides, something happens. Christina’s response to him opening up will just shut him back down.
Brett and Olivia are not a good a match. At all.
I really like Bennett. His conversation with Henry made me like him more.
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Post by lostinfaith225 on Sept 27, 2020 8:27:55 GMT -6
I just want Henry and Christina to end things now. It is painful to watch.
Miles and Karen are growing on me!
Bennett I was so great with Henry and omg him and Amelia face to face. So cute!
I love woody and Amani.
I don’t know if it is the edit....but it feels like neither Brett or Olivia are that interested. Nor does it seem that either of them are willing to compromise.
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Post by angelashly on Sept 27, 2020 10:20:42 GMT -6
Who watched this week? I liked miles and Karen’s talk I did too! I think they are figuring things out. I really felt for Christina, she was so heartbroken by Henry's dealbreaker convo. She then quickly nosedived again by not supporting Henry's past experiences when he was vulnerable with her. Their relationship is a complete mess. I was so mad at her with her just get over it
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Post by angelashly on Sept 27, 2020 10:22:51 GMT -6
I just want Henry and Christina to end things now. It is painful to watch. Miles and Karen are growing on me! Bennett I was so great with Henry and omg him and Amelia face to face. So cute! I love woody and Amani. I don’t know if it is the edit....but it feels like neither Brett or Olivia are that interested. Nor does it seem that either of them are willing to compromise. See I take it as she isn’t interested and he knows that so he is all ok I’ll do my thing. She very clearly loves her independence. When she was talking about how she didn’t want to commute 30 minutes home and he should move because he is the one who wants to cook and eat together and spend time in the evening together
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Post by Carmichael on Sept 27, 2020 10:52:37 GMT -6
I did too! I think they are figuring things out. I really felt for Christina, she was so heartbroken by Henry's dealbreaker convo. She then quickly nosedived again by not supporting Henry's past experiences when he was vulnerable with her. Their relationship is a complete mess. I was so mad at her with her just get over it Yes! My eyes fell out of my head when she said that. Excuse me? Has she never had anything happen to her in life?
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Post by lostinfaith225 on Sept 27, 2020 12:46:19 GMT -6
I just want Henry and Christina to end things now. It is painful to watch. Miles and Karen are growing on me! Bennett I was so great with Henry and omg him and Amelia face to face. So cute! I love woody and Amani. I don’t know if it is the edit....but it feels like neither Brett or Olivia are that interested. Nor does it seem that either of them are willing to compromise. See I take it as she isn’t interested and he knows that so he is all ok I’ll do my thing. She very clearly loves her independence. When she was talking about how she didn’t want to commute 30 minutes home and he should move because he is the one who wants to cook and eat together and spend time in the evening together I can see this too. She definitely doesn’t seem interested. I think his sarcasm is a big turn off.
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Post by meowmaps on Sept 27, 2020 13:03:08 GMT -6
I did too! I think they are figuring things out. I really felt for Christina, she was so heartbroken by Henry's dealbreaker convo. She then quickly nosedived again by not supporting Henry's past experiences when he was vulnerable with her. Their relationship is a complete mess. I was so mad at her with her just get over it Yes! I really wanted to punch her through the TV. That reaction was so insensitive and lacking in empathy. Wtf lady?
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Post by angelashly on Sept 27, 2020 16:24:36 GMT -6
See I take it as she isn’t interested and he knows that so he is all ok I’ll do my thing. She very clearly loves her independence. When she was talking about how she didn’t want to commute 30 minutes home and he should move because he is the one who wants to cook and eat together and spend time in the evening together I can see this too. She definitely doesn’t seem interested. I think his sarcasm is a big turn off. I agree. I also feel he uses it as a defense mechanism and needs to stop
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Post by budders on Sept 27, 2020 17:12:23 GMT -6
See I take it as she isn’t interested and he knows that so he is all ok I’ll do my thing. She very clearly loves her independence. When she was talking about how she didn’t want to commute 30 minutes home and he should move because he is the one who wants to cook and eat together and spend time in the evening together I can see this too. She definitely doesn’t seem interested. I think his sarcasm is a big turn off. Yes. I said to H that it's aggressive, not even a "fun" sarcasm (hard to explain, but H and I are pretty sarcastic and it's very lighthearted). He just strikes me as someone who is quick to anger and who holds grudges. If I were Olivia I wouldn't compromise my beloved independence for something like that either. (I also recognize she's not without fault).
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