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Post by donnameagle on Jul 8, 2020 13:39:18 GMT -6
this is so fucked up to read! my doctor (obviously an idiot) told me i had to wait 3 months or the chance of miscarriage is even higher than before. i showed mh these posts and he’s like “lets start trying TODAY!!!!” ha. 😂 Yep, I was told this too by mt OB.
My RE said start trying right away.
I had heard there is a chance for loss more with back to back pregnancies. But I trust my RE so we went for it immediately after this D&C (which was a surgery not a miscarriage but still - she said go for it)
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Post by onyx on Jul 8, 2020 19:20:21 GMT -6
I spent most of today swimming, then came home and started cramping. Really hoping the bleeding holds off until my D&C on Tuesday.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 8, 2020 20:24:05 GMT -6
mh’s pcm ordered a semen analysis for him! he’s picking up his cup and instructions tomorrow. anyone else have extreme anxiety about semen results?
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Post by lemondrop on Jul 9, 2020 7:00:27 GMT -6
mh’s pcm ordered a semen analysis for him! he’s picking up his cup and instructions tomorrow. anyone else have extreme anxiety about semen results? Yes ma'am. Turned out my H's was relatively normal besides his morph, which was basically non-existent (.05%). I ended up falling down a rabbit hole spazzing out about that because they want to see >4%. Even .05% meant that he had like 400k good sperm per ejaculate, but I immediately put him on coq10 and lycopene - he was already on a one a day and a male fertility pill for vitamins B & C.
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Post by robotsvswrestlers on Jul 9, 2020 7:44:29 GMT -6
Got some nice dark OPKs yesterday afternoon so I’m really happy! At least we have a shot this month.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 9, 2020 13:13:42 GMT -6
my HCG results from yesterday were at 0!
3.5 weeks post d&c and still no sign of O day or AF. waiting waiting waiting
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Post by katespade on Jul 9, 2020 14:20:29 GMT -6
my HCG results from yesterday were at 0! 3.5 weeks post d&c and still no sign of O day or AF. waiting waiting waiting I know my ectopic surgery was different but it took about 5 weeks after I got a 0 hcg to get my cycle back.
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Post by onyx on Jul 9, 2020 18:35:51 GMT -6
my HCG results from yesterday were at 0! 3.5 weeks post d&c and still no sign of O day or AF. waiting waiting waiting this is great news! Even though waiting is the worst. I have so much hope for you!
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Post by catlady22 on Jul 9, 2020 19:01:45 GMT -6
@zweber glad it's back to zero. I think it took me around 5wks later
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Post by pbandj714 on Jul 10, 2020 7:34:39 GMT -6
IUD came out yesterday! But MH is in major omg not yet mode so I also asked for a Rx for the pill for the time being. Just a real buzzkill.
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Post by catlady22 on Jul 10, 2020 9:41:28 GMT -6
IUD came out yesterday! But MH is in major omg not yet mode so I also asked for a Rx for the pill for the time being. Just a real buzzkill. Hope you can get on the same page soon.
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Post by Yogurt on Jul 10, 2020 10:32:22 GMT -6
I think it’s the old school of thought? Everyone who was like “you should wait” hasn’t been baby making in a loooong time. But still, your doctor never ceases to amaze me. But like for your husbands comment. right. my doctor also says “progesterone doesn’t help, those studies are out dated” 😂 she’s outdated. ffs alsooooo I GOT MY OFFICIAL IF REFERRAL TODAY! Lurker/grad I had back to back chemicals and then got on progesterone at 3 dpo and had a healthy baby
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Post by robotsvswrestlers on Jul 10, 2020 11:43:59 GMT -6
IUD came out yesterday! But MH is in major omg not yet mode so I also asked for a Rx for the pill for the time being. Just a real buzzkill. I remember when I told my H I wanted to go off birth control when my prescription ran out....I had 6 months left. He turned white as a ghost. Little did we know it would take 2 years to get pregnant lol.
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Post by pbandj714 on Jul 10, 2020 11:49:18 GMT -6
IUD came out yesterday! But MH is in major omg not yet mode so I also asked for a Rx for the pill for the time being. Just a real buzzkill. I remember when I told my H I wanted to go off birth control when my prescription ran out....I had 6 months left. He turned white as a ghost. Little did we know it would take 2 years to get pregnant lol. Best laid plans and all, I know. Sigh. I think he forgets that it wasn't an instant thing the first time. I guess it COULD be...but more than likely not.
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Post by onyx on Jul 10, 2020 14:58:01 GMT -6
IUD came out yesterday! But MH is in major omg not yet mode so I also asked for a Rx for the pill for the time being. Just a real buzzkill. I remember when I told my H I wanted to go off birth control when my prescription ran out....I had 6 months left. He turned white as a ghost. Little did we know it would take 2 years to get pregnant lol. MH wanted to “ideally” wait to try until August. Well, I’m glad I got my IUD out when I did cause here we basically are. Lol
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Post by sammysam on Jul 10, 2020 16:25:15 GMT -6
Just wanted to say hi Yogurt !
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Post by Yogurt on Jul 10, 2020 18:47:55 GMT -6
Just wanted to say hi Yogurt ! 😘😘😘😘 Hiiiiiiiiiii
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Post by Deleted on Jul 11, 2020 8:04:17 GMT -6
you guys. tell me why my doctor called me and told me my HCG was fucking zero when it wasn’t. 😐
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Post by Deleted on Jul 11, 2020 8:06:13 GMT -6
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Post by Deleted on Jul 11, 2020 8:08:45 GMT -6
3.9 is close and obviously “not pregnant” but it is NOT ZERO. she said “it’s in the negatives!” i thought we were tracking to legitimate 0.
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Post by katespade on Jul 11, 2020 10:30:48 GMT -6
3.9 is close and obviously “not pregnant” but it is NOT ZERO. she said “it’s in the negatives!” i thought we were tracking to legitimate 0. Mine tracked me to 2 if I remember right post-ectopic and said I was okay since it was so low.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 11, 2020 10:37:09 GMT -6
3.9 is close and obviously “not pregnant” but it is NOT ZERO. she said “it’s in the negatives!” i thought we were tracking to legitimate 0. Mine tracked me to 2 if I remember right post-ectopic and said I was okay since it was so low. with my doctor saying molar pregnancy! jk triplet pregnancy! nope molar for sure. i fucked up the genetic testing sorry under the microscope it’s 100% molar! pathology says not molar... i just wanted it to be 0 for peace of mind. 😭 but they’re done testing and i’m not gonna ask for more labs. it’s whatever. i just don’t know why she said it’s in the negatives. it’s not.
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Post by katespade on Jul 11, 2020 10:37:46 GMT -6
Mine tracked me to 2 if I remember right post-ectopic and said I was okay since it was so low. with my doctor saying molar pregnancy! jk triplet pregnancy! nope molar for sure. i fucked up the genetic testing sorry under the microscope it’s 100% molar! pathology says not molar... i just wanted it to be 0 for peace of mind. 😭 but they’re done testing and i’m not gonna ask for more labs. it’s whatever. i just don’t know why she said it’s in the negatives. it’s not. I absolutely don’t blame you- your OB is a bit mess express
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Post by robotsvswrestlers on Jul 11, 2020 11:12:00 GMT -6
@zweber your doctor is so terrible at communication! My doctor tracked until less than 5.
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Post by catlady22 on Jul 11, 2020 11:12:08 GMT -6
@zweber what a mess. My dr said track to 0 but when they told me it was 2.1 I said I wasn't coming to them anymore bc their inability to keep track of my blood. 🤷♀️
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Post by Fearsy on Jul 12, 2020 10:15:04 GMT -6
Mine tracked me to 2 if I remember right post-ectopic and said I was okay since it was so low. with my doctor saying molar pregnancy! jk triplet pregnancy! nope molar for sure. i fucked up the genetic testing sorry under the microscope it’s 100% molar! pathology says not molar... i just wanted it to be 0 for peace of mind. 😭 but they’re done testing and i’m not gonna ask for more labs. it’s whatever. i just don’t know why she said it’s in the negatives. it’s not. Your doctor has been a complete quack this entire time and the last think I want to do is WK for her but “negative” when it comes to pregnancy is anything less than 5. So it sounds like she told you she’d be tracking it down and didn’t explain that she meant lower than 5? Either way your entire experience has been a complete cluster and I still blame her for this miscommunication too.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 12, 2020 10:46:08 GMT -6
with my doctor saying molar pregnancy! jk triplet pregnancy! nope molar for sure. i fucked up the genetic testing sorry under the microscope it’s 100% molar! pathology says not molar... i just wanted it to be 0 for peace of mind. 😭 but they’re done testing and i’m not gonna ask for more labs. it’s whatever. i just don’t know why she said it’s in the negatives. it’s not. Your doctor has been a complete quack this entire time and the last think I want to do is WK for her but “negative” when it comes to pregnancy is anything less than 5. So it sounds like she told you she’d be tracking it down and didn’t explain that she meant lower than 5? Either way your entire experience has been a complete cluster and I still blame her for this miscommunication too. i was under the impression that anything above 0 after a molar was still not in the clear. i know my pathology results came back as not molar.. or at least she said they did. but i don’t trust anyone there so i was just hoping to see 0. 😩
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Post by onyx on Jul 12, 2020 12:14:56 GMT -6
@zweber My doctor tracks to 2, but if they say it’s 0 it better be fucking 0. Your doctor should seriously just retire. Wtaf.
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Post by donnameagle on Jul 13, 2020 8:02:48 GMT -6
Solid peak, def O'd on Sat. We danced Thursday, friday and Saturday for good measure.
Now we wait.
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Post by onyx on Jul 14, 2020 5:52:17 GMT -6
Today is my D&C and I’m so nervous.
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