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Post by robotsvswrestlers on Jun 3, 2020 8:30:00 GMT -6
This is a combined TTC thread for EVERYONE currently TTC. Whether you're a first timer, a many timer, or an old timer come on in and pass the time as we struggle through WTO and the dreaded TWW.
As this is a combined thread there will be talk of LC, losses, and IF struggles. If any of these are hard for you please just let us know in your first post and I'm sure the lovely ladies on here will be happy to add TWs to accommodate.
Month/Cycle:
Timing:
CD/DPO:
Symptoms:
RRCS:
GTKY: Any fun summer plans?
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Post by robotsvswrestlers on Jun 3, 2020 8:32:39 GMT -6
I'm on desktop so I figured I'd go ahead and get June rolling.
This is a combined TTC thread for EVERYONE currently TTC. Whether you're a first timer, a many timer, or an old timer come on in and pass the time as we struggle through WTO and the dreaded TWW.
As this is a combined thread there will be talk of LC, losses, and IF struggles. If any of these are hard for you please just let us know in your first post and I'm sure the lovely ladies on here will be happy to add TWs to accommodate.
Month/Cycle: 7th cycle/5th medicated
Timing: great
CD/DPO: 2dpo
Symptoms: Ovulation cramping is finally done.
RRCS: Nothing for me. I'm really hoping this month works and if not, that I can take my meds properly next month.
GTKY: We were supposed to go to Hilton Head in two weeks, but cancelled. I think we'll be spending most of the summer trying to get settled in this new house and going to my in-laws to swim.
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Post by Deleted on Jun 3, 2020 9:12:01 GMT -6
HELLO! i'm here for all of you getting pregnant this month.
month/cycle: month 11. cycle - waiting to miscarry cd/dpo: kinda pregnant kinda not. technically 8w1d. symptoms: sick af. angry af. boobs sore af.
gtky: probably moving to washington state this summer!
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June TTC
Jun 3, 2020 9:56:05 GMT -6
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Post by robotsvswrestlers on Jun 3, 2020 9:56:05 GMT -6
I’ve been thinking of you @zweber and post stalking. What’s your status with the new doctor/getting the ultrasound?
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Post by Deleted on Jun 3, 2020 13:06:00 GMT -6
I’ve been thinking of you @zweber and post stalking. What’s your status with the new doctor/getting the ultrasound? you don’t wanna know. it seemed so promising at first but once they saw my documents and scans they said they’d rather me “carry out my pregnancy with the current practice since they’ve already seen me” and i got denied as a patient. so i’m just waiting for my scan on the 10th. begging my body to start bleeding. i even begged current OB to schedule a d&c now and she said no. not until the 10th.
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Jun 3, 2020 13:14:18 GMT -6
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Post by robotsvswrestlers on Jun 3, 2020 13:14:18 GMT -6
@zweber that is awful. I will be praying that you find a doctor who will take really good care of you.
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addymac
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June TTC
Jun 3, 2020 16:20:24 GMT -6
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Post by addymac on Jun 3, 2020 16:20:24 GMT -6
Lurker- ugh @zweber Jfc I’m so sorry to hear that about the new dr. I’m holding hope for you 💛
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onyx
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Jun 3, 2020 16:36:20 GMT -6
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Post by onyx on Jun 3, 2020 16:36:20 GMT -6
Holy shit @zweber. I am so sorry. I hope like hell you find a good doctor soon. Wtf is wrong with these practices!?
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Post by Deleted on Jun 3, 2020 16:44:45 GMT -6
Holy shit @zweber . I am so sorry. I hope like hell you find a good doctor soon. Wtf is wrong with these practices!? i hear you. honestly there's nothing they can do. they said it's pointless to give me a second opinion because "it's clearly abnormal" based on HCG numbers alone. it sucks but it's my reality. i wish so fucking badly to prove them wrong like i proved the very first male OB wrong with my 28 to 47 HCG numbers to begin with. vanishing twin syndrome isn't unheard of. maybe i have vanishing triplet syndrome and that's why it only went from 12k to 13k in two days. everything on google says you can't pay attention to HCG after 6 weeks and 6000+ anyway. file that in my "hopes and dreams" that will crush my soul when reality strikes. lol
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June TTC
Jun 3, 2020 17:37:08 GMT -6
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Post by lemondrop on Jun 3, 2020 17:37:08 GMT -6
HELLO! i'm here for all of you getting pregnant this month. month/cycle: month 11. cycle - waiting to miscarry cd/dpo: kinda pregnant kinda not. technically 8w1d. symptoms: sick af. angry af. boobs sore af. gtky: probably moving to washington state this summer! Liking for the move - exciting! And I’m so sorry for the loss I’m still hoping for you 💙
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June TTC
Jun 3, 2020 17:40:59 GMT -6
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Post by lemondrop on Jun 3, 2020 17:40:59 GMT -6
Month/Cycle: 3 or 4? I guess?
Timing: really good
CD/DPO: CD16, today I got my second positive OPK (I always get 2)
Symptoms: nada
RRCS:
GTKY: Any fun summer plans? I just asked my H if he wants to do anything this summer. We just moved to a new house so we’ve got a ton to do, but my H’s grandparents are willing us their house in the OBX, so we should get over there to help them with maintenance. But it’s a 3 hour drive and my kid hate hate hates the car.
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Post by catlady22 on Jun 5, 2020 10:36:27 GMT -6
@zweber ugh, I am so sorry you have to just wait in limbo.
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Post by Deleted on Jun 5, 2020 11:47:04 GMT -6
@zweber ugh, I am so sorry you have to just wait in limbo. i am constantly debating on whether or not just going to the ER and begging them to get this over with.
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June TTC
Jun 5, 2020 12:20:16 GMT -6
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Post by shellsncheese on Jun 5, 2020 12:20:16 GMT -6
Month/Cycle: 13
Timing:
CD/DPO: cd 1 😣
Symptoms: ugh cramps
RRCS: I just can't believe it's been a year. I never thought I'd be here, especially after getting pregnant on cycle 4 of trying before having a miscarriage a week later. I have an appointment with my obgyn on 7/2, but am on the waitlist to get in sooner.
GTKY: Any fun summer plans? We have a couple of lake trips next month that I'm looking forward to. My 4 year old and I are trying to visit a lot of different parks around us that we haven't been to.
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Post by catlady22 on Jun 5, 2020 12:20:50 GMT -6
@zweber ugh, I am so sorry you have to just wait in limbo. i am constantly debating on whether or not just going to the ER and begging them to get this over with. I get that totally. Waiting is the worst. Having no real answers and no concrete plan is terrible. For me, I just wanted to be able to make my body match what my mind knew (that it was over) and when I finally really started bleeding I was actually relieved that I knew what was going on. I know that sounds terrible, but it's so stressful in limbo.
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Post by catlady22 on Jun 5, 2020 12:22:20 GMT -6
shellsncheese I'm sorry for the hard milestone. I hope you OB can give you help and it happens soon ❤
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June TTC
Jun 5, 2020 13:24:44 GMT -6
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Post by robotsvswrestlers on Jun 5, 2020 13:24:44 GMT -6
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June TTC
Jun 5, 2020 14:57:52 GMT -6
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Post by lemondrop on Jun 5, 2020 14:57:52 GMT -6
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onyx
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June TTC
Jun 5, 2020 19:12:13 GMT -6
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Post by onyx on Jun 5, 2020 19:12:13 GMT -6
shellsncheese I’m so sorry for the hard milestone. Fingers crossed they can give you some good answer.
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Post by Deleted on Jun 6, 2020 16:53:44 GMT -6
i just had a private ultrasound. no growth. just empty blobs. i wish there was a home remedy to start a miscarriage. as fucked up as that is.
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June TTC
Jun 6, 2020 17:39:02 GMT -6
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Post by robotsvswrestlers on Jun 6, 2020 17:39:02 GMT -6
@zweber glad you were able to get a definitive answer. Limbo is the absolute worst. Hugs.
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Post by catlady22 on Jun 6, 2020 17:43:27 GMT -6
@zweber glad you were able to get a definitive answer. Limbo is the absolute worst. Hugs. All this @zweber. So sorry.
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Post by mothafuckinteatime on Jun 6, 2020 19:21:18 GMT -6
I’m sorry @zweber. Glad you have some answers, though.
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addymac
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June TTC
Jun 7, 2020 7:54:26 GMT -6
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Post by addymac on Jun 7, 2020 7:54:26 GMT -6
I’m so sorry @zweber. Sending you love 💛
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June TTC
Jun 7, 2020 13:28:20 GMT -6
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Post by lemondrop on Jun 7, 2020 13:28:20 GMT -6
I’m so, so sorry @zweber I hope this is over soon for you, this must be absolute torture 💔
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onyx
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June TTC
Jun 7, 2020 16:09:37 GMT -6
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Post by onyx on Jun 7, 2020 16:09:37 GMT -6
So many hugs @zweber.
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June TTC
Jun 9, 2020 6:51:40 GMT -6
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Post by robotsvswrestlers on Jun 9, 2020 6:51:40 GMT -6
I’m 8dpo today and feeling pretty good. Some light cramping and lower back pain the past few days. Going to hold out on taking a test as long as I can stand it. How’s everyone holding up?
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Post by mothafuckinteatime on Jun 9, 2020 7:41:36 GMT -6
I don’t know where to ask this question, so here goes.
Did anyone struggle with sex after a loss? It’s been so hard, I’ve just not been interested. I tried last night and definitely didn’t feel like I used to during sex, and cried after. I don’t know why I cried, I wasn’t upset for any identifiable reason.
H has been wonderful through everything and has in no way been pushing for anything. I’m just fucked up.
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Post by catlady22 on Jun 9, 2020 8:07:30 GMT -6
I think I am ovulating for the first time post loss but not 100% sure. I'm just hanging out hoping to see other people's BFP while waiting for AF to eventually show up.
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Post by catlady22 on Jun 9, 2020 8:10:13 GMT -6
I don’t know where to ask this question, so here goes. Did anyone struggle with sex after a loss? It’s been so hard, I’ve just not been interested. I tried last night and definitely didn’t feel like I used to during sex, and cried after. I don’t know why I cried, I wasn’t upset for any identifiable reason. H has been wonderful through everything and has in no way been pushing for anything. I’m just fucked up. You aren't that far out from the loss right? My case was different because I bleed for 30 days and was told not to have sex during that time, however, I know if I would have had sex then I would have been a mess. Give yourself grace. ❤
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