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Post by Deleted on Feb 8, 2020 16:03:40 GMT -6
HCG is 20 today. looks like it’s gonna take forever for my body to realize it’s not pregnant. i’m trying very hard not to go into a very dark place. especially since this is the second loss of 2020 and it’s only feb. I’m so sorry. I took a test on Thursday to see if it would be negative and I still have a faint line. I don’t go for another beta until next Friday so I feel you on it taking forever to go down to 0. mine hasn’t even started going down yet. it went up by 1. i am irrationally annoyed by it. i just want to get this over with. 😔
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Post by Fearsy on Feb 9, 2020 15:34:55 GMT -6
I’m so sorry @zweber. Your doctor sounds really insensitive.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 9, 2020 17:56:45 GMT -6
I’m so sorry @zweber. Your doctor sounds really insensitive. all she could say was “this doesn’t happen in a viable pregnancy” and “these numbers don’t make sense if the pregnancy is healthy” i never thought i’d say this but thank goodness i’m finally bleeding today. 😔
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Post by Fearsy on Feb 9, 2020 18:34:11 GMT -6
I’m so sorry @zweber. Your doctor sounds really insensitive. all she could say was “this doesn’t happen in a viable pregnancy” and “these numbers don’t make sense if the pregnancy is healthy” i never thought i’d say this but thank goodness i’m finally bleeding today. 😔 Ugh that’s so tough. Obviously she didn’t check your chart and history if she thought it was leftover hcg from last cycle’s loss. 😑 She doesn’t sound like she’s trying very hard.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 9, 2020 18:43:57 GMT -6
all she could say was “this doesn’t happen in a viable pregnancy” and “these numbers don’t make sense if the pregnancy is healthy” i never thought i’d say this but thank goodness i’m finally bleeding today. 😔 Ugh that’s so tough. Obviously she didn’t check your chart and history if she thought it was leftover hcg from last cycle’s loss. 😑 She doesn’t sound like she’s trying very hard. i used to love her. but her “shit happens, get over it” attitude makes me feel so small.
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Post by Fearsy on Feb 9, 2020 18:55:58 GMT -6
Ugh that’s so tough. Obviously she didn’t check your chart and history if she thought it was leftover hcg from last cycle’s loss. 😑 She doesn’t sound like she’s trying very hard. i used to love her. but her “shit happens, get over it” attitude makes me feel so small. I just want to hug you.
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Post by savannah on Feb 10, 2020 8:35:05 GMT -6
@zweber, I am so very sorry for your loss and the absolutely awful response from your doctor.
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Post by Fearsy on Feb 10, 2020 10:01:21 GMT -6
I’m 7dpo and recovering from a stomach bug that I had over the weekend. Someone tell me I’m stupid for wanting to test. Like implantation probably hasn’t even happened yet anyway, right?
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Post by robotsvswrestlers on Feb 10, 2020 10:40:36 GMT -6
@zweber I’m really sorry for your rollercoaster. At a minimum, your doctor should be listening to you and having a conversation and it sounds like she’s not at all. Fearsy don’t do it!!!!!! Period started yesterday and I have my baseline ultrasound scheduled for Wednesday. Here’s hoping cycle 4 is the one.
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Post by onyx on Feb 10, 2020 10:42:57 GMT -6
I’m 7dpo and recovering from a stomach bug that I had over the weekend. Someone tell me I’m stupid for wanting to test. Like implantation probably hasn’t even happened yet anyway, right? Not stupid, but definitely wait. I would be right there with you though. I want to pee on all the things, all the time. Stomach bugs are the worst... feel better!
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Post by onyx on Feb 10, 2020 10:47:40 GMT -6
I’m CD 10 and finally stopped bleeding, but still spotting during sex and when I run so that’s fun. I guess now I’m just very patiently wto...
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Post by Fearsy on Feb 10, 2020 10:56:09 GMT -6
Ugh k fine. I’ll wait. How many dpo does everyone test? I probably can realistically wait until 10 or 11dpo before I lose my mind.
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Post by robotsvswrestlers on Feb 10, 2020 10:58:46 GMT -6
Ugh k fine. I’ll wait. How many dpo does everyone test? I probably can realistically wait until 10 or 11dpo before I lose my mind. I try to wait until 11-12. There have been a lot of chemical pregnancies recently plus I had one a few months ago. It’s made me really nervous and I’m trying to wait for my own sanity. People say they get positives at 9dpo but I never have.
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Post by Fearsy on Feb 10, 2020 11:04:16 GMT -6
Ugh k fine. I’ll wait. How many dpo does everyone test? I probably can realistically wait until 10 or 11dpo before I lose my mind. I try to wait until 11-12. There have been a lot of chemical pregnancies recently plus I had one a few months ago. It’s made me really nervous and I’m trying to wait for my own sanity. People say they get positives at 9dpo but I never have. I’ve never had a positive at 9dpo either. My earliest has been evening of 10dpo. I had a chemical last cycle and I’m on progesterone so I have to test in order to stop that med if I’m not pregnant. But I also want to be guarded and just not know because losses suck.
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Post by robotsvswrestlers on Feb 10, 2020 11:32:14 GMT -6
I try to wait until 11-12. There have been a lot of chemical pregnancies recently plus I had one a few months ago. It’s made me really nervous and I’m trying to wait for my own sanity. People say they get positives at 9dpo but I never have. I’ve never had a positive at 9dpo either. My earliest has been evening of 10dpo. I had a chemical last cycle and I’m on progesterone so I have to test in order to stop that med if I’m not pregnant. But I also want to be guarded and just not know because losses suck. I’m so sorry I didn’t recall your loss. I’m also on supplemental progesterone after ovulation. My doctor tells me to test at 14dpo and to stop progesterone if it’s negative. I get you about being guarded. It all really sucks. So I’ve been trying to wait as long as I can stand to prevent false hope. I’ve been telling myself that if I do actually get a positive at 9 or 10 dpo, I don’t think it will make me feel better. I’d probably be super excited for a minute, then start freaking out that it might not stick. At least that my very pessimistic view. My H always teases me that I’m a glass half empty type of girl.
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Post by shellsncheese on Feb 10, 2020 12:07:04 GMT -6
Ugh k fine. I’ll wait. How many dpo does everyone test? I probably can realistically wait until 10 or 11dpo before I lose my mind. I am 9 dpo today and I'm trying to wait til Friday (13dpo) to test. The cycle I had my loss I had a negative at 11dpo, and positive at 13. I'd probably test earlier if I had better tests than the cheap pregmate ones from Amazon.
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Post by Fearsy on Feb 10, 2020 12:54:58 GMT -6
Ugh k fine. I’ll wait. How many dpo does everyone test? I probably can realistically wait until 10 or 11dpo before I lose my mind. I am 9 dpo today and I'm trying to wait til Friday (13dpo) to test. The cycle I had my loss I had a negative at 11dpo, and positive at 13. I'd probably test earlier if I had better tests than the cheap pregmate ones from Amazon. 13! I don’t know if I’ll be able to wait that long.
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Post by beenthere on Feb 10, 2020 13:23:25 GMT -6
I'm probably going to O Wednesday ish! Got a medium OPK
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Post by beenthere on Feb 10, 2020 19:22:21 GMT -6
OPK is positive!! EWCM! Ovulation should be tomorrow evening!!!!!
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Post by onyx on Feb 11, 2020 5:45:05 GMT -6
OPKs are apparently hard. Line is Definitely lighter. Will try again tomorrow. Both DH and I are sick... told him he will have to suck it up lol
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Post by Fearsy on Feb 11, 2020 20:08:33 GMT -6
I have eaten 4 cupcakes today and have been emotional AF.
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Post by shellsncheese on Feb 12, 2020 12:38:38 GMT -6
I doubt I will make it to Friday. I'm going crazy and will probably test tomorrow.
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Post by beenthere on Feb 12, 2020 14:50:22 GMT -6
Ovulation confirmed yesterday. Day 1 of the TWW.... Only -4 for timing so I'm not hopeful 😭
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Post by robotsvswrestlers on Feb 12, 2020 14:56:17 GMT -6
Ugh very disappointing ultrasound for me today. I have a pretty big cyst on my right ovary leftover from last cycle. Bloodwork confirmed that’s it’s not active or growing, but due to the size the doctor wants me to sit out a few weeks before we try again. I’ll message them in ~3 weeks if I don’t bleed again and probably have another ultrasound.
I’m just sick of my body not doing what it’s supposed to.
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Post by onyx on Feb 12, 2020 14:58:30 GMT -6
CD 12 and I am sick and have a fever. I’m really over cold season this year. OPK still shows only a faint line, I’m hoping to O by CD 14, but we will see. The fever really throws everything off.
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Post by Fearsy on Feb 12, 2020 18:56:53 GMT -6
I doubt I will make it to Friday. I'm going crazy and will probably test tomorrow. Saaaaaaame
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Post by Fearsy on Feb 12, 2020 18:58:27 GMT -6
Ugh very disappointing ultrasound for me today. I have a pretty big cyst on my right ovary leftover from last cycle. Bloodwork confirmed that’s it’s not active or growing, but due to the size the doctor wants me to sit out a few weeks before we try again. I’ll message them in ~3 weeks if I don’t bleed again and probably have another ultrasound. I’m just sick of my body not doing what it’s supposed to. Ugh I’m so sorry. Hugs
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Post by Fearsy on Feb 13, 2020 6:04:39 GMT -6
BFN at 10dpo. I like to torture myself. 🙄
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Post by Yogurt on Feb 13, 2020 8:07:03 GMT -6
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Post by onyx on Feb 13, 2020 9:15:45 GMT -6
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