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Post by cnf on Nov 26, 2019 13:53:26 GMT -6
katespade I am so, so sorry. Do you guys have any next steps since you've had a few early losses now, or do you plan to forge ahead? Don't feel obligated to answer me by any means if you don't want to.
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Post by donnameagle on Nov 26, 2019 13:55:04 GMT -6
When do you usually start testing? I'm so impatient and I always start at 9dpo. I'm going to start with opks tomorrow because that will satisfy my urge to poas lol. Like 8dpo, which is actually when I got my BFP with DD2. My LP is 11-12 days so I don't feel bad starting earlier since my LP is on the shorter side. I may wait until Friday this time though, which will be 9dpo, because I don't want feelings on Thanksgiving when I have a house full of people. This is a good idea. But, I will say, I don't get that disocunraged when I test early. Only when CD1 shows up. But I have never really been someone who has gotten early positives.
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Post by cnf on Nov 26, 2019 13:55:41 GMT -6
I'm 6dpo and starting to tap my fingers about peeing on things. I hate the TWW but I'm feeling less needy about POAS than I have in previous TTC. I always wait until 10dpo. You are almost there!!
I am O'ing currently. We have had sex everyday since Saturday and will also go for another round today and tomorrow. Then we wait (and H will likely want to keep up this streak LOL).
I have never been an every other day in my fertile window. We always just go 5 days in a row and it's been productive for us (this will be our third positive if we get it). So We are just gonna keep that up.
Good luck to everyone in the two week wait!!
katespade , crossing everything for you. ETA: I am so sorry we were typing at the same time. I am so so so sorry. We're usually every other day, but H was sick and on meds giving him awful side effects during my FW this cycle. He rallied for -1 and O and that's all he could muster. Hopefully it's enough.
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Post by mintyblueair on Nov 26, 2019 13:56:59 GMT -6
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Post by cnf on Nov 26, 2019 13:58:03 GMT -6
Like 8dpo, which is actually when I got my BFP with DD2. My LP is 11-12 days so I don't feel bad starting earlier since my LP is on the shorter side. I may wait until Friday this time though, which will be 9dpo, because I don't want feelings on Thanksgiving when I have a house full of people. This is a good idea. But, I will say, I don't get that disocunraged when I test early. Only when CD1 shows up. But I have never really been someone who has gotten early positives. I won't be discouraged by a negative on 8 or 9dpo, but given I've had a positive on 8dpo before, I just don't know that I want to. I don't know the odds I'd ever pull a BFP that early again are basically zero. I don't know, nothing about my thought process is logical during my TWW.
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Post by donnameagle on Nov 26, 2019 13:58:03 GMT -6
I always wait until 10dpo. You are almost there!!
I am O'ing currently. We have had sex everyday since Saturday and will also go for another round today and tomorrow. Then we wait (and H will likely want to keep up this streak LOL).
I have never been an every other day in my fertile window. We always just go 5 days in a row and it's been productive for us (this will be our third positive if we get it). So We are just gonna keep that up.
Good luck to everyone in the two week wait!!
katespade , crossing everything for you. ETA: I am so sorry we were typing at the same time. I am so so so sorry. We're usually every other day, but H was sick and on meds giving him awful side effects during my FW this cycle. He rallied for -1 and O and that's all he could muster. Hopefully it's enough. You just need the one time to work!! haha.
Fingers crossed for you.
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Post by katespade on Nov 26, 2019 13:58:05 GMT -6
katespade I am so, so sorry. Do you guys have any next steps since you've had a few early losses now, or do you plan to forge ahead? Don't feel obligated to answer me by any means if you don't want to. No, itโs fine. The OB said she doesnโt think there is anything โwrongโ and that itโs just unlucky for this to occur after having the ectopic. She said that we can start trying again as soon as I get to 0, and that she thinks now that I managed to get pregnant that my body โwill be primedโ to have a successful one. I thought Iโd be okay if it was a miscarriage because at least it isnโt another ectopic, but it still sucks a lot. So we will forge ahead, I guess.
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Post by cnf on Nov 26, 2019 13:58:32 GMT -6
We're usually every other day, but H was sick and on meds giving him awful side effects during my FW this cycle. He rallied for -1 and O and that's all he could muster. Hopefully it's enough. You just need the one time to work!! haha.
Fingers crossed for you.
Yes! Enjoy your sexy streak!
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Post by mintyblueair on Nov 26, 2019 13:59:36 GMT -6
When do you usually start testing? I'm so impatient and I always start at 9dpo. I'm going to start with opks tomorrow because that will satisfy my urge to poas lol. Like 8dpo, which is actually when I got my BFP with DD2. My LP is 11-12 days so I don't feel bad starting earlier since my LP is on the shorter side. I may wait until Friday this time though, which will be 9dpo, because I don't want feelings on Thanksgiving when I have a house full of people. Waiting till after Thanksgiving sounds like a good idea. I think I have a short LP, too. I got a strong BFP at 9dpo with DS (that was the earliest I tested).
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Post by mintyblueair on Nov 26, 2019 14:04:37 GMT -6
My fingers are crossed for you donnameagle! We've also done every day during the fertile window the last two times we TTC, it's a good approach ๐
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Post by robotsvswrestlers on Nov 26, 2019 14:07:35 GMT -6
Iโm so sorry katespade. It sucks to get your hopes up to have it not work out.
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Post by robotsvswrestlers on Nov 26, 2019 14:09:40 GMT -6
Iโve only ever gotten pregnant after a 5 day embryo transfer. All three times I got positives 7 days after transfer, which corresponds to 12 DPO.
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Post by willow on Nov 26, 2019 14:39:30 GMT -6
Lurking again and I am so sorry to see the update katespade. no matter when it happens or why, a loss is a loss and it sucks. Iโm hoping that because you were able to conceive, your doctor is right and that it happens soon for you. โค๏ธ
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Post by willow on Nov 26, 2019 14:41:47 GMT -6
This is a good idea. But, I will say, I don't get that disocunraged when I test early. Only when CD1 shows up. But I have never really been someone who has gotten early positives. I won't be discouraged by a negative on 8 or 9dpo, but given I've had a positive on 8dpo before, I just don't know that I want to. I don't know the odds I'd ever pull a BFP that early again are basically zero. I don't know, nothing about my thought process is logical during my TWW. The TWW is the worst. Though I will say that I tested at 10DPO and got a negative and didnโt get a BFP until 14DPO with this pregnancy. And obviously since itโs twins I had lots of hormones immediately happening. So I am with you on waiting to test if you can!
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Post by boots on Nov 26, 2019 15:16:05 GMT -6
katespade, I am so sorry. As for me.. I am somewhere past O in my cycle post chemical pregnancy. I don't have access to my app anymore (I may have turned it off but I don't remember!). I have a milestone birthday coming up, and a party on Saturday for it, so I'll probably wait to test. I think my period would be due on or around my birthday, I'll have to do some math. Good luck ladies!
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Post by cnf on Nov 27, 2019 18:38:34 GMT -6
About this point in my TWW my husband starts getting antsy too. He asked me how pregnant I felt yet. Dude, not how things work. You aren't new, c'mon.
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Post by cnf on Nov 29, 2019 5:43:10 GMT -6
Alright, my kids ruined my ability to temp. Tell me which to use. I usually temp at 4am but E started screaming and woke up C too and I had to get up around 3:45 for that. I temped still awake around 4:30 and my temp was 97.68. Then I fell back asleep and temped again when I woke up after two solid hours. My temp then was 98.34. they're so different and I don't know if I should stick with the one close to my normal timing or the one after a couple hours of good sleep. I'm 9dpo according to FF but I think 8dpo so I doesn't super matter. The lower temp.ours me down to coverline and the higher temp would be my highest the cycle,so they're as polar opposite as possible. I'm just annoyed because my kids keep messing up my temps this cycle.
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Post by mintyblueair on Nov 29, 2019 12:14:12 GMT -6
cnf I don't temp so I don't know the specifics of how it works, but that sounds frustrating. Are you planning to test today?
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Post by cnf on Nov 29, 2019 13:35:24 GMT -6
cnf I don't temp so I don't know the specifics of how it works, but that sounds frustrating. Are you planning to test today? I did and negative, which I expected. FF says I'm 9dpo but I still firmly believe it has my O wrong and I'm only 8dpo. Still plenty of time regardless so it's whatever. I'm just bummed that my kids keep mucking up my chart
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Post by mintyblueair on Nov 30, 2019 8:19:36 GMT -6
cnf I don't temp so I don't know the specifics of how it works, but that sounds frustrating. Are you planning to test today? I did and negative, which I expected. FF says I'm 9dpo but I still firmly believe it has my O wrong and I'm only 8dpo. Still plenty of time regardless so it's whatever. I'm just bummed that my kids keep mucking up my chart Yeah, you definitely still have plenty of time! I'm sorry about your chart, though.
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Post by designaddiction on Nov 30, 2019 11:07:30 GMT -6
Hi! Jumping in as I need to admit this is not happening as easily as I hoped.
We have DS, so is 5, been trying for a second for a little while now. This is our 7th cycle.
Our timing has been pretty good, I think. Just started using Ovusense to try and help out. Says I O'd 4 days later than I thought I did.
CD/DPO: Technically since ovulating late, DPO 10 yesterday with a BFN test. CD1 is supposed to be tomorrow though.
Symptoms: my boobs hurt like crazy! But that happens every month. I remember it when I was pg with DS last time but just seems to be a common occurrence now.
Going to make an appt with the doc in January if nothing happens this next cycle. I'm 36 so it's time, I just can't see doing it during the holidays.
Eta- I tried posting and it looked to me like it posted 3 times, so I deleted but it was just my app being weird so I have posted again.
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Post by beenthere on Nov 30, 2019 12:12:56 GMT -6
I'm so sorry katespade. Also sorry for the CD1s! I'm ovulating super late this month it seems ๐
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Post by mintyblueair on Nov 30, 2019 12:29:06 GMT -6
I'm on CD9 and a bit confused. I got a verrrry close to positive opk yesterday, which seems so early. But it's definitely lighter last night and today. The day before yesterday was definitely low, but it was over 24 hours between tests. So, did I miss my peak, or should I keep testing? CD9 seems early, but I have also heard you should stop testing after your first LH surge.
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Post by cnf on Nov 30, 2019 17:01:33 GMT -6
I'm on CD9 and a bit confused. I got a verrrry close to positive opk yesterday, which seems so early. But it's definitely lighter last night and today. The day before yesterday was definitely low, but it was over 24 hours between tests. So, did I miss my peak, or should I keep testing? CD9 seems early, but I have also heard you should stop testing after your first LH surge. I always get an LH surge with damn near close positives on CD9/10 then get my real surge a couple of days later. If keep testing.
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Post by mintyblueair on Nov 30, 2019 19:29:04 GMT -6
I'm on CD9 and a bit confused. I got a verrrry close to positive opk yesterday, which seems so early. But it's definitely lighter last night and today. The day before yesterday was definitely low, but it was over 24 hours between tests. So, did I miss my peak, or should I keep testing? CD9 seems early, but I have also heard you should stop testing after your first LH surge. I always get an LH surge with damn near close positives on CD9/10 then get my real surge a couple of days later. If keep testing. Ok, good to know! I'll keep testing. Do you test twice a day?
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Post by cnf on Nov 30, 2019 19:32:44 GMT -6
I always get an LH surge with damn near close positives on CD9/10 then get my real surge a couple of days later. If keep testing. Ok, good to know! I'll keep testing. Do you test twice a day? Yes once they start getting dark. I usually get a full day to day and a half of true positives. So I keep track since I usually O after my last positive.
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Post by mintyblueair on Nov 30, 2019 22:06:27 GMT -6
Ok, good to know! I'll keep testing. Do you test twice a day? Yes once they start getting dark. I usually get a full day to day and a half of true positives. So I keep track since I usually O after my last positive. Ok, thanks for all the info! I'll try doing this so I don't have to worry about missing it.
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