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Post by waitwhat on Oct 14, 2019 6:50:27 GMT -6
My H is home sick and J threw up this morning.
Happy Monday!
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tgrimes
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Post by tgrimes on Oct 14, 2019 7:07:24 GMT -6
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waitwhat
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Post by waitwhat on Oct 14, 2019 7:08:21 GMT -6
it was weird though. J is like completely back to normal after it so I have no idea what that was about.
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Post by waitwhat on Oct 14, 2019 8:15:40 GMT -6
Spoke to soon. More vomit.
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Post by danib on Oct 14, 2019 8:27:05 GMT -6
Spoke to soon. More vomit. ohh nom feel better J
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Post by cookswithwine on Oct 14, 2019 8:59:50 GMT -6
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Post by tgrimes on Oct 14, 2019 9:00:09 GMT -6
Spoke to soon. More vomit. Poor thing. Is YH sick with stomach stuff too? Regardless, break out the red wine now.
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Post by Cheshie6 on Oct 14, 2019 9:24:57 GMT -6
L was great for speech this morning and then he acts all annoyed and temperamental as soon as she leaves! Now he’s got a slightly elevated temp (101.0) and is acting miserable. Luckily today is our quiet day. waitwhat, sorry about today. Hopefully you can get some red wine
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Post by waitwhat on Oct 14, 2019 9:35:25 GMT -6
Spoke to soon. More vomit. Poor thing. Is YH sick with stomach stuff too? Regardless, break out the red wine now. no thankfully. He has a headache, is “sooooo tired”, and has body aches. No fever or anything. But he’s just laying and moaning on the couch and driving me crazy. Oh I have a bottle of red and some white on hand already!
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Post by tgrimes on Oct 14, 2019 10:01:13 GMT -6
Poor thing. Is YH sick with stomach stuff too? Regardless, break out the red wine now. no thankfully. He has a headache, is “sooooo tired”, and has body aches. No fever or anything. But he’s just laying and moaning on the couch and driving me crazy. Oh I have a bottle of red and some white on hand already! I'm glad you're prepared.
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Post by tgrimes on Oct 14, 2019 13:36:27 GMT -6
H's daycare teacher sent me a text. We've known her since M was 6 months old and she's babysat for us numerous times. Apparently he's a little shit at school. Some of it is normal for kids his age, but he's definitely being extremely naughty. She asked me on a scale of 1-10 how upset I'd be if he didn't make it home tonight. Lol.
I don't know what to do about it. M was never like this. I've always had to deal with her sass and attitude, but she never misbehaved at school.
I'm wondering if he's old enough to understand consequences that don't happen until later. For instance, if he's misbehaving at school, he doesn't get the ipad at home, or whatever. Time out isn't working for him at home or at school.
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Post by goldenlove on Oct 14, 2019 13:49:04 GMT -6
Tomorrow is K's g-tube surgery so she's having a busy day. I'm anxious as hell but this means we will be going home soon! They said it could be as early as Friday if she handles the transition well. C is spending the night at my mom's so we can get here early without fuss. We're going to use this time to move the glider out of his room and finish his "big boy" room. I still need to finish K's room at some point too. It'll be so much easier to take care of these things when we're actually home.
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Post by waitwhat on Oct 14, 2019 16:58:08 GMT -6
It’s been a day. J has been throwing up all day. He’s trying so hard to eat but he can’t keep anything down. I ran to the store to get some saltines, soup, and pedialyte. He had all of that and puked it up shortly after. I hope he sleeps fine tonight. Luckily tomorrow isn’t a school day so he has another day to recuperate.
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Post by cookswithwine on Oct 14, 2019 19:48:24 GMT -6
Tonight was H’s first time home w both kids by himself. It was an epic fail. I come home at 7:50 and say a little prayer in the driveway that I’m not walking into chaos. D is screaming his head off. O is sitting on the coffee table in a shirt and backwards underwear watching blippi. His bedtime is 8pm and he’s not ready at all. H has steam coming out of his ears and starts snapping at me. So much for my 1 night off to grab dinner w my friends... I end up having to do both kids bedtime routines and D took 1.5 hours to go down.
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Post by elle on Oct 14, 2019 22:53:13 GMT -6
Oh wow. That is a lot to get home to cookswithwine. I'd be really irritated that he didn't help at all with bedtime for either kid (or both) after taking a moment to cool off and recenter. Seriously, that's not cool.
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Post by elle on Oct 14, 2019 22:54:02 GMT -6
Especially when he ran off to Octoberfest not too long ago and left you with a newborn and a toddler with a poocano. Not cool.
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Post by tgrimes on Oct 15, 2019 4:19:34 GMT -6
cookswithwine I’m so sorry. I remember trying to have a night out and coming home to complete chaos and the house was a disaster. It took a few arguments/discussions but it eventually got better. Did he apologize at all? I can’t believe he didn’t even help after you got home. On the plus side maybe he realizes you really are superwoman and what an ass he was for leaving you by yourself a few weeks ago.
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Post by tgrimes on Oct 15, 2019 4:20:12 GMT -6
goldenlove Thinking of you and baby K. I hope everything goes smoothly. Update us when you can.
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Post by tgrimes on Oct 15, 2019 4:20:26 GMT -6
danib What time is your appt today?
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Post by waitwhat on Oct 15, 2019 5:41:21 GMT -6
Wow cookswithwine. I would have been livid! Sorry you had to deal with all of that. goldenlove thinking of you and K today! danib keep us posted.
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Post by waitwhat on Oct 15, 2019 5:42:55 GMT -6
We had a pretty good night. The last time J puked was at 9:45pm. He threw up all over himself and his bed so I just cleaned up as best I could and brought him into the spare with me. He was fine all night. Now he’s up eating a piece of toast, applesauce, and a little bit of water. I’m hoping this is the end of it 🤞
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Post by cookswithwine on Oct 15, 2019 6:40:49 GMT -6
Thinking of y’all goldenlove and danib! Glad he’s on the upswing waitwhat! I feel bad about venting last night... H is a great husband/dad; I just like to vent on here occasionally about the more comical stuff. We are still salty w each other this morning though. I think adjusting to 2 kids is taking us some getting use to. He’s leaving this morning for work until Friday. So last night was supposed to be my “break” before I have both kids by myself the rest of the week.
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Post by tgrimes on Oct 15, 2019 6:59:44 GMT -6
cookswithwine Don't feel bad. We all have moments like this where we need to vent. None of us thinks he's an asshole or anything. It's just that sometimes men do really stupid things. It's mind boggling.
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Post by goldenlove on Oct 15, 2019 7:16:47 GMT -6
Ugh cookswithwine I'm sorry he was completely unhelpful and hope he makes up for it. waitwhat FX he's over whatever he had! Thinking about you danib!
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Post by goldenlove on Oct 15, 2019 7:21:03 GMT -6
We've all been there cookswithwine! H is a great dad and husband too but there are definitely moments that drive me insane. I always feel bad complaining too but oh well lol
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Post by tgrimes on Oct 15, 2019 8:02:57 GMT -6
From here on out, MH has to be in his boss's office every Tuesday & Thursday morning by 6:55 to make a 7am conference call with offices in 4 other countries. Which means, I have to get both kids ready and out the door by 7. M eats breakfast at school but H has to be fed before I drop him off at daycare. Today was the first time attempting this and somehow it was successful. I feel like a superhero.
Don't remind me of this on Thursday when it all goes to shit as I'm sure today was a fluke.
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Post by tgrimes on Oct 15, 2019 8:03:17 GMT -6
We had a pretty good night. The last time J puked was at 9:45pm. He threw up all over himself and his bed so I just cleaned up as best I could and brought him into the spare with me. He was fine all night. Now he’s up eating a piece of toast, applesauce, and a little bit of water. I’m hoping this is the end of it 🤞 Has he kept it down so far?
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Post by goldenlove on Oct 15, 2019 8:08:36 GMT -6
Haha tgrimes. It's the best feeling when shit just works out.
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Post by waitwhat on Oct 15, 2019 8:18:02 GMT -6
We had a pretty good night. The last time J puked was at 9:45pm. He threw up all over himself and his bed so I just cleaned up as best I could and brought him into the spare with me. He was fine all night. Now he’s up eating a piece of toast, applesauce, and a little bit of water. I’m hoping this is the end of it 🤞 Has he kept it down so far? Yes! so far so good!
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Post by tgrimes on Oct 15, 2019 8:42:31 GMT -6
Has he kept it down so far? Yes! so far so good!
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