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Post by king26 on Sept 16, 2019 10:38:50 GMT -6
Put them here
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Post by king26 on Sept 16, 2019 10:39:58 GMT -6
I figured id start this week so i check in. J has been pooping 2 to 3 times a day which isnt normal and his night poop is full of mucus. Might have to go see the doctor.
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Post by thinkchocolate05 on Sept 16, 2019 13:31:47 GMT -6
king26 I hope J feels better soon. I took toddler H to infants and toddlers this morning and they said his expressive speech is only at the 17 month level so we qualify for services. They also want me to get his hearing checked. I have mixed feelings bc I'm really glad he will get help but I feel like I've failed him. I asked the educator and speech pathologist if it was something I did and they were really nice and said it just happens sometimes. I know I'm being silly feeling that way. He had a wonderful time at the appointment since it was all play based.
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Post by king26 on Sept 16, 2019 13:37:22 GMT -6
king26 I hope J feels better soon. I took toddler H to infants and toddlers this morning and they said his expressive speech is only at the 17 month level so we qualify for services. They also want me to get his hearing checked. I have mixed feelings bc I'm really glad he will get help but I feel like I've failed him. I asked the educator and speech pathologist if it was something I did and they were really nice and said it just happens sometimes. I know I'm being silly feeling that way. He had a wonderful time at the appointment since it was all play based. You did nothing wrong. I am an educator, a special ed one at that and J is delayed. I know its not my fault but it sucks. Plus its not 25% so no speech which sucks too |
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Post by thinkchocolate05 on Sept 16, 2019 13:49:23 GMT -6
king26 Thanks for the encouragement. I keep thinking of things like less screen time or less paci that could have made a difference but I need to stop. That's so frustrating that he doesn't get services. I thought we'd be in the same boat, but toddler H is little more delayed than I thought. It's a noble profession. I was really impressed with the educator and speech pathologist who interacted with him today.
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Post by pennylane on Sept 16, 2019 17:03:10 GMT -6
thinkchocolate05 They’re right it just happens sometimes. My DS barely talked until almost 3, and early intervention helped us so much. I know how easy it is to think “what if” or feel guilty, but you’re doing the exact right thing with an eval and services.
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Post by pennylane on Sept 16, 2019 17:09:38 GMT -6
My poor little L has a cold and seems pretty miserable. She has not slept well the past couple nights- and we’re both exhausted. I’m sitting in her room rocking her now. she put up a huge fight about taking some meds and spit it everywhere, so tonight will probably suck too.
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Post by king26 on Sept 16, 2019 17:31:42 GMT -6
My poor little L has a cold and seems pretty miserable. She has not slept well the past couple nights- and we’re both exhausted. I’m sitting in her room rocking her now. she put up a huge fight about taking some meds and spit it everywhere, so tonight will probably suck too. I hipe she feels better soon. That stinks shes not feeling well |
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Post by jt2378 on Sept 18, 2019 7:09:52 GMT -6
Don't mind me, I've just been hanging out complaining in the wrong thread about my kid's sleep, LOL I'm sorry you are feeling guilty thinkchocolate05 but it is nothing you did and of course you know that but as moms we tend to self-doubt things sometimes. I'm glad he qualifies, I'm sure it will really help him! Sorry about J king26, hopefully its nothing with the poop. Update? Sorry L is sick pennylane ! Hope she feels better. I'm holding my breath for when our first round of never ending colds begin! |
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Post by king26 on Sept 18, 2019 7:14:57 GMT -6
Don't mind me, I've just been hanging out complaining in the wrong thread about my kid's sleep, LOL I'm sorry you are feeling guilty thinkchocolate05 but it is nothing you did and of course you know that but as moms we tend to self-doubt things sometimes. I'm glad he qualifies, I'm sure it will really help him! Sorry about J king26, hopefully its nothing with the poop. Update? Sorry L is sick pennylane ! Hope she feels better. I'm holding my breath for when our first round of never ending colds begin! We have to collect a stool sample whoch will be fun. Also fun, i brought j to daycare this morning and he threw up all over me and the daycare floor. Since i work where the daycare is i called dh and he picked uo j and brught me new clothes. So, great day here |
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Post by jt2378 on Sept 18, 2019 7:27:16 GMT -6
Don't mind me, I've just been hanging out complaining in the wrong thread about my kid's sleep, LOL I'm sorry you are feeling guilty thinkchocolate05 but it is nothing you did and of course you know that but as moms we tend to self-doubt things sometimes. I'm glad he qualifies, I'm sure it will really help him! Sorry about J king26 , hopefully its nothing with the poop. Update? Sorry L is sick pennylane ! Hope she feels better. I'm holding my breath for when our first round of never ending colds begin! We have to collect a stool sample whoch will be fun. Also fun, i brought j to daycare this morning and he threw up all over me and the daycare floor. Since i work where the daycare is i called dh and he picked uo j and brught me new clothes. So, great day here oh man, I'm sorry. I hope he is feeling better soon.. |
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Post by thinkchocolate05 on Sept 18, 2019 16:53:25 GMT -6
Good luck with your case @starzia. That is rough. They are such obstinate little stinkers sometimes. I took ds1 to church in PJs once when he refused to change, but he wasn't even embarrassed so it didn't work. king26, I hope J feels better soon. I hate it when they throw up. Does it make you anxious? I spiral terribly and keep thinking I'm getting sick and then sanitize everything to a ridiculous extent. I also have been commenting on the wrong thread and getting confused which one is most current. addymac, I hope N is better. |
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Post by jt2378 on Sept 18, 2019 21:07:51 GMT -6
Hugs @starzia, that sounds really tough and I’m sorry it’s weighing on you 💕
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Post by happyfeet9 on Sept 20, 2019 14:49:16 GMT -6
thinkchocolate05 Echoing what everyone else has said. You haven't done anything wrong. The twins never took pacis and had far less screen time than my first. I can also say the twins have been in EI for about a month now and it's really helped them both in different ways. Sending you hugs - we're here for you.
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Post by happyfeet9 on Sept 20, 2019 14:55:26 GMT -6
@starzia sending positive thoughts your way. Hope you have some time to take care of yourself in the process.
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Post by happyfeet9 on Sept 20, 2019 14:56:24 GMT -6
Clearly, I'm always behind and trying to catch up! Thinking about you guys and just jumping in where I can!
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