purple
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Post by purple on Feb 10, 2018 8:16:04 GMT -6
TW: LC and multiple loss.
Hi. I haven't been around much since I lost my twins in June. They were the fourth and fifth babies I lost in thirteen months so I was in a bad way afterwards. I took a break from all messages boards for a few months.
In January I had another chemical pregnancy, taking my total to six babies lost in the two years since we started trying for a sibling. I am finding the roller coaster of ttc after loss is extremely difficult. I'm still active on my BMB, which moved to a private board at the time of the exodus from TCF. However, fond as I am of the ladies there, it is wearing when person after person falls pregnant their first or second month of trying. Meanwhile, I was one of the first to start trying, and I keep either not falling, or getting pregnant and losing the baby(ies).
I know this board isn't very active, but I was hoping I wouldn't be the only one here!
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Post by enchanted on Feb 12, 2018 11:44:24 GMT -6
I am so sorry. That is just too much. <3
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Post by sunshiney on Feb 12, 2018 12:29:38 GMT -6
I'm so sorry for your losses, purple. The TTCAL check-in thread on the TTGP board is quite active, as is the combined AL board (though LC are mentioned there). That's how I got to know the TTCAL ladies.
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Yogurt
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Post by Yogurt on Feb 12, 2018 15:52:38 GMT -6
Hi purple. I'm so sorry for your losses. I understand completely about needing some space from your bmb, you have had quite a terrible journey tfas. I have only been tfas going on 10 cycles, with one CP last month, and I find the need to limit my close interactions with pregnant people on my more intimate social media, like FB. I just can't see all the big bellies and newborns without feeling all the things. Come on over to the TTGP board. ā¤
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addymac
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Post by addymac on Feb 12, 2018 22:20:46 GMT -6
Iām so sorry for your losses. I hope the ttcal threads on the ttgp board are helpful, I know I found the ttcal threads helpful after my loss and we were trying again. š
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sammysam
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Post by sammysam on Feb 13, 2018 10:50:42 GMT -6
purple so sorry for your losses. No one understands how hard TTCAL is unless they've been there. I'm on cycle 13 right now (5 AL). Come over to the TTCAL thread on TTGP. We just had a few people graduate onto new BMBs so we could use a few more voices:)
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purple
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Post by purple on Feb 13, 2018 11:22:13 GMT -6
Thanks, ladies. It didn't occur to me to look anywhere else as there is whole board for ttc after loss!
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Post by enchanted on Feb 13, 2018 11:25:59 GMT -6
Thanks, ladies. It didn't occur to me to look anywhere else as there is whole board for ttc after loss! Unfortunately, two forum moves have whittled down the AL community. It's something for which I will never forgive TB and N at TCF.Ā I hope the TTCAL threads on TTGP are helpful. The loss boards will always be here and I'm always willing to lend support, answer questions, chart stalk, etc.
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